Risk i'm taking

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Ok so my ex girlfriend that gave birth to a child never reaches out to me. I don't know anything about the baby if it was adopted or not if they decided to keep it. I want to know what's going on and get information about the baby and to find out of I'm the father or not. But I have the risk of paying child support. I'm low income and I don't know if I should even do it. No money is really worth it I rather be in the baby's life and everything and get a DNA test and stuff done. However I am at risk of all this. It's a hard decision to make I love children but give me your honest opinion please they never came after me for anything yet so I don't know what to think or believe. Should I go through with it and take the risk or let it all go?

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  • litelander8
    4 years ago

    Reaching out to her and her family would be a good start.If they aren't responding, go to where they live and CALMLY inquire as to what is going on. I couldn't imagine money outweighing being a parent, if the child already exists. Lol. Who knows, y'all maybe able to work something out out of court. People do it all the time.

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  • curious-bunny
    4 years ago

    Like litlander8 said reach our calmy, keyword calmey, if the refuse to talk to you then stop right there don't push. Go yo a judge a file a order for a DNA test. Do it properly and legally. Worst case that way you look like a tool. If you don't do it that way you could get restrainijng orders and all kinds of nasty stuff

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  • IrishPotato
    4 years ago

    Yeah, reach out. I think you have a right to be a part of your child's life.

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  • SwickDinging
    4 years ago

    Get some legal advice before proceeding. I don't know where you are but most western countries have free services that provide this is you look around.

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    Lol and she has been your ex for 13 months

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    You'll regret it later if you don't go through with it.

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  • SKDM007
    4 years ago

    condoms cost like 5 quid, woulda saved you this hassle

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    Maybe the child isn't yours?

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  • jethro
    4 years ago

    Get a copy of the birth certificate and see who was listed as the father. If your name isn't on it, then you will know for sure.

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