Sex… doesn’t feel good

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Just recently moved out of home when I started university a couple of weeks ago. I was excited over finally being independent and to experience the best years of my life. Most exciting was however that I finally got the privacy that I always wanted so that I can finally experience sex. I installed Tinder and the same evening I had sex with the first guy. The foreplay was amazing, then suddenly I felt like something was pushing up against me. I felt down there with my hand and realized he was inside, but I didn’t feel much. There wasn’t enough friction for it to feel good. I brushed it off as if something is wrong with that guy, but after experiencing hookups with two more guys, I realized that this is how it is. I don’t understand why as I have done myself many times with toys and it has been amazing, but the real deal hardly stimulates at all?!

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  • ospry
    1 year ago

    So for you, the cake really is better than sex

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  • newnormal
    1 year ago

    You're doing it wrong

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  • Curiouskitten444
    1 year ago

    I felt the same way when I first started to have sex. You'll find your groove.

    Try to find someone you can try almost everything with. Then you'll learn what turns you on WITH a partner instead of just alone. I did this and that person was the first person (including me) to make me squirt. He just used his hands. It was magical and the start of my sexual awakening.

    Also if fantasy or porn has played a part of your masturbation try to whine off. Its harder to enjoy sex when you're drifting off to fantasy or replaying a video in your head.

    Look into how to make yourself squirt with your hands. It's a simple enough technique to teach someone. OR/AND it IS allowed to bring toys into the bedroom.

    Good luck on your journey!

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  • darefu
    1 year ago

    Try different positions! Doggie, you on top, cowboy, reverse cowboy, on your side each position can hit different spots depending on the guys, shape, size, and experience. You're in control with a toy, take control with him as well he can't feel what you're feeling. You have to tell him and help him find what works for you. Most guys won't have a problem finishing what ever position you try. Some may finish too soon but that's the fun you get to try again.

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  • bigbudchonger
    1 year ago

    Is tinder still going strong then? I installed bumble recently, but my mate told me tinder was dead.

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    • PurpleHoneycomb
      1 year ago

      Everyone I've spoken to about Tinder says it's only useful for men if they're an 8 out of 10 or higher. It's the "casual hook up" app for a reason.

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  • MonteMetcalfe
    1 year ago

    How big are the sex toys you've been using?
    Maybe they're larger than an average sized penis?

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  • Yaidin
    1 year ago

    How do you fuck? Is it just plain fucking in a pose or is there actual intimacy with touching and kissing? Might explain why the foreplay is better

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