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Should I be more sensitive or pissed that she was significantly heavier than her photos? She was also about an hour late (fat people excuses for lack of planning).
What's a "fat people" excuse? They were caught up in a pie eating contest?!
Anyway, she lied. It's just plain stupid to lie about stuff like that with online dating because you will always get caught out. Get rid of her, go back to the online dating site and fingers crossed that the next person you find isn't a moron.
On dating sites it seems a thing lately that women use so many filters that their photos bare almost no resemblance to what they really look like. Some of the more honest ones will have at least one photo that is really them.
Her lateness has nothing to do with her fatness. She obviously didn't consider you to be that big of a catch either otherwise she would have made more of an effort to be on time.
Regardless of how you feel about fat people, this bitch lied to you. Don't waste your time with a liar.
I feel your pain. I ran into plenty of lying men and women on dating sites. I never understand why they lie. Did they think that once I fell for them online, I'd be stupid enough to excuse their lies once we meet? If that's the case, it never worked for them. XD
What am I voting on?
1. Its normal for you to be pissed.
2. Its normal fat folks do this.
Be clear in your topic, heading, voting options, etc.
That said, get out.
Get out now.
No excuses, dont let her guilt trip you.
Just get out.
It DOES NOT get better.
Shes showing you on day one, her best side.
Guess what? she gets fatter, later, lazier.
Cut your losses, and move on.
You cant help or fix her issues.