Should i be shaven/waxed/hairy

Im a girl. I shave my pussy. Here's the deal.

my bf is French canadian hockey player, but all of his friends back in quebec are French (the real kind). Apparently, french women don't shave their pussies or underarms... And French guys think that's hot. I know his ex gf didn't shave. And she was on the chubby side... Anyways

I'm Russian. We like it clean and smooth. I don't think hairy vaginas are attractive, but I'd rather put my bf first.

Wait... Do French people like big girls too? I'm pretty slim...and prettier than his ex... As I was saying

He went down on me for the first time a week ago and didn't say anything regarding me being shaven... Should I keep shaving? Should I wax so it's less effort? OR should I stop shaving, because he might like that... ? I feel awkward if I ask him whether he likes hairy pussies or not, lol. We say we love eachother, but do you think it would be considered that he would cheat on me with a girl who doesn't shave? Were in PA (USA) and he gas away games... In Quebec sometimes... Would he consider going to his ex.. ?!
And is it normal that I'm this worried about this?

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Based on 34 votes (27 yes)
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  • keep one side hairy one side shaven, then everyones happy

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  • This makes me laugh. What is a real kind of french? Are you refering to the french of France? How would you know his friends are real french? What the fuck is this.

    Not all french people like hair in their pubic area. Nor armprits for that matter. This is just mass generalizing. Do all russian women have sex with someone for money? No.

    Any person of any race and color can like women with more weight. You don't have to be french to not like them.

    Why are you asking US what he may prefer concerining your genital hair? Why not ask him instead? In my opinion, if you can't even ask your boyfriend a simple preference question, you shouldn't be having sex. Also, if he had a problem with you shaving or not shaving, I'm sure he would have told you.

    Now you're talking about love. I truly hope you're not meaning he would consider cheating on your because you shave your pubic hair. If he told you he would consider going to see his ex, you should be 50/50 on that. It all comes down to trust but I don't know why he would want to see his ex. Unless they remained friends and he's told you that.

    So in conclusion, no it's not normal that your pubic hair worries you. As for him maybe cheating on you, yes.

    P.S: If your boyfriend is named Mathieu and plays as a goaltender, I probably know him.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    Simple - do what you want with your hair.

    it's not like he's going to insult you over it... men don't insult the pussies they want to be inside

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  • Cassiep02

    I wont have mine any other way than shaved.

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  • bleach_baby

    ...i would be worried too....if my relationship were so unstable and shallow...that it rested on the length of my pubic hair

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  • do not shave your body at all and personally I do not believe men or women should shave.

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  • RW321

    keep your pussy hairy shave everything else. eating hairy pussy is great!

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  • moomus

    If u feel comfortable with having sex with someone, u should feel comfortable enough asking that question. Ask him!

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  • TerryVie

    i'd continue shaving, if i was you, i also prefer that. in fact, i never even started letting hair grow "down there".

    The interesting part for me here would be: Where from do you know his ex didn't shave? And where from do you know that these "french guys" find it hot?

    I mean, if your BF went up to you and told you "Oh, you are shaved....my ex had a nice hot bush down there" then things seem quite clear, hu?

    You have more "information" to work with than we here.
    You may, however, try watching some porn movie, or old erotic movies, and then just casually ask wether he likes that?(such as, it just came to your mind, you didn't set this thing up and worry about it for the last month...)

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  • lc1988

    Just do what you're most comfortable with. Maybe keep the middle unshaven or something...I dk.

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