Should i be worried?

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So last year I started talking to a girl online. We talked about a book series I'm writing and she helped out with it. I found she had a lot of questions about suicide on yahoo answers, and I told her she could always come to me if she needs help. There was one instance where she wasn't messaging me, and I got worried, and I found out she tried to kill her self (thank God she survived!) she's seemed mostly fine for the most part, but for someone reason she hasn't messaged me back since July 2nd, and the last comment marked as read was from the 5th. This is so far the longest she's been absent, and she even told me once she would never just disappear. It's really unfortunate because I don't know her in real life and we live very far apart so all I can do is wait. Sorry for the long post, but she means a lot to me and I just need some advice.

My answer is too long so I'll comment it 1
Yes 7
Maybe 6
No 1
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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Call her. How far do you live from each other?
    We should never underestimate a cry for help.
    In my experience, if the suicidal person suddenly seems happier or is silent are warning signs.

    Pushing the suicidal friend away, being harsh or bailing on them if you think they are attention seeking is appaling behaviour.

    I've been heavily depressed and left by those I loved the most but fortunately, I had support from a group of people who helped me without passing judgement. My own spirituality helped me too.

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  • TheDuke
    6 years ago

    She more than likely got put into a psych ward for her a suicide attempt and depression....which is actually a good thing because she is in a safe place and is getting the help she needs.

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  • Tsubakimasiato
    6 years ago

    She never told you where she went and now suddenly disappears!

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