Should i call the cops when i dont know..

if he's still on crack/meth??

My ex friend is still with this retard after 6 years when I know he's been on meth and he's absolutely disgusting and I'm worried she's in danger. I have been told I can report it to their local police station except I have no idea if he still uses? I'm also in a completely different city.....

Report it 3
You have no proof so that's an issue 4
other 1
No don't do anything 4
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  • charli.m

    So your catfishing idea didn't work? Big shock...

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  • What you are saying is:

    1) This guy might be taking illegal drugs but you don't really know and have no evidence that he is, other than the fact you know he was a user years ago.

    2) If he is taking drugs, which he very well may not be, but he might because he's done it before. But in the event he might be then there is a possibility that his girlfriend (your friend) could possibly be in danger. Of course she may not be in danger, even if he is taking drugs and you have no evidence that she is in danger whether he is taking drugs or not which he may or may not be doing.

    Which ever way you look at it, you have no evidence of any crime being or about to be committed. You have no evidence of your friend being or about to be in any danger. She is an adult and is in a relationship which she chooses to be in. And all this stuff that may or may not be happening, and of which you have no evidence to say it might be happening, is in another city miles from where you are.

    What the fuck are you going to report?!!!

    Personally I think you just don't like this guy. You may not like him for a perfectly justifiable reason. But nevertheless, not being in your top 100 favourite people is not a criminal offence.

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    • Why have I been told many times I should report him then ?

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      • That I can't answer, as you don't say who it is tells you to report him. You also don't say how they justify reporting him when you don't even know he has or will do anything wrong

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  • Blade01

    How can you judge him? Addiction is a disease. He needs love and support, not causing him more problems. If you had better communication, understanding and trust probably he wouldn’t had to lie you.

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  • McBean

    Your ex-friend doesn't want your drama. The boyfriend is human trash. Live and let die.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Just out of curiosity, why is this person now your ex-friend?

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    • I ended it

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      • RoseIsabella

        It's interesting to me that you ended the friendship. Why did you choose to end the friendship?

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        • I've already explained myself in the past

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          • RoseIsabella

            Do you know how many people post questions on here? I can't read minds you know. Anyway, I don't know why your friendship ended with this person, because this is all anonymous. I was just curious.

            If you aren't in contact with this person you should probably just let it be. If you have no proof that your ex-friend is in danger, the police will just think you're crazy is all.

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            • charli.m

              The gist of her gripe is she's hot for her friend but it wasnt mutual. She asked several hundred times about iin to/how to break them up/force her friend to like her back/catfish the bf on facebook. The complete batshittery presented by the OP brings into question their reliability in saying that the bf is this, that or the other.

              Also if you don't agree with OP, you will be accused of being "bias".

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