Should i kiss her?

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So a girl I have a crush on is coming this saturday for christmas gift. We cuddled once and I feel like we have a connection and that she is special... She was with her boyfriend for a 1,5 years, then she broke up with him (after like month from breakup we had a dinner & cuddling in my bed when watching netflix).

She is back with her boyfriend, but she told me 3 days ago, that she don’t know why she’s with him again and want’s to see me.

Should I kiss her, if I feel like she’s giving me signal, that she wants to be kissed?

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Based on 28 votes (16 yes)

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GaelicPotato

3 years ago | pl

She has a boyfriend. No.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  I know, but he is kinda weird and he forbids her things etc. and it should be up to her, if she wants the kiss? But I get your point. I just know her for few years and I probably love her...
  
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  - GaelicPotato
    
    3 years ago
    
    Doesn't matter. If you don't respect her relationship, you don't respect her. Besides, do you really want start out a relationship with them cheating with you?
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      Maybe I should just tell her how I feel about her. I respected their relationship last 1,5 year, but when they broke up, I don’t think he is right for her
      
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      - thepuppet
        
        3 years ago
        
        It's still not okay to kiss her when she is in a relationship with someone else. Like others have said, tell her how you feel. Have an honest discussion and see where it leads.
        
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      - GaelicPotato
        
        3 years ago
        
        Well, suit yourself, but you clearly don't respect her as a person.
        
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SwickDinging

3 years ago

Don't kiss her, but I would tell her how you feel

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  3 years ago
  
  Okay, thanks for your advice
  
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Ayuko

3 years ago

Let me tell you somethin' you shouldn't kiss that skank first of all if she has a bloody boyfriend and second of all i would declare that as being not normal maybe wait when she breaks up with the little bitch then tell her feelings but you are better off being neutral friends with them. not that I condone you do that now but i would be a bit cautious when doing risky stuff like that.

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BleedingPain

3 years ago

There you see her
Sitting there across the way
She don't got a lot to say
But there's something about her
And you don't know why
But you're dying to try
You wanna kiss the girl

Yes, you want her
Look at her, you know you do
Possible she wants you too
There is one way to ask her
It don't take a word
Not a single word
Go on and kiss the girl

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  That sounds like a part of the lyrics. Anyways, really nice comment
  
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  - BleedingPain
    
    3 years ago
    
    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=TrRbB-qUJfY
    
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olderdude-xx

3 years ago

I think you need to have a discussion with her and what her intentions are with her "old & Current" BF.

If she really wants to break up and go with you... then it's probably OK to kiss her. However, I personally would wait until she has broken up with him.

You might tell her that before she comes for Christmas - and she may break up before she visits you.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Thank you, seems like a good advice. I will wait for saturday though, cause she chose this date from 2 options (tomorrow or saturday).
  
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YE

3 years ago

Don't rush into things, ask her to show you her Negative COVID-19 test result first.

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- JudgeOfNormality
  
  3 years ago
  
  I don't think that's a priority lmao
  
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  - YE
    
    3 years ago
    
    Talk about tempting Christmas gifts.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      I don't get it, please elaborate :D
      
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      - YE
        
        3 years ago
        
        When you find yourself in a situation where you're hell bent on kissing 'a Christmas gift' delivering itself from supposedly unknown communal contacts during a time of a raging worldwide respiratory system localized infection pandemic at your doorstep, then you know that you're really dealing with a 'tempting gift'. But then, that's typical of infatuations, I'm not judging.
        
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    3 years ago
    
    Haha 😄
    
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Inkmaster

3 years ago

Don't mess with a girl that gives you mixed signals.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Might be true...
  
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RoseIsabella

3 years ago

I wouldn't trust a person who was interested in me, but was still in a relationship. I just wouldn't trust them, because once a cheater always a cheater, and I would never want to be the other woman.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  She didn’t cheated, but we have that tension between us.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    3 years ago
    
    Well, if she kisses you that will make her a cheater.
    
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yooper69420

3 years ago

she doesnt seem like the one for you if shes been with a dude for that long and would leave him in a snap. but by all means get that kiss in and ride her to pound town till the suns down!!

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  I don’t know if she would leave him in a snap. I will have a real talk with her
  
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GeekyGold

3 years ago

Don’t kiss her dude, not when she has a boyfriend. The way you get them is how you’re going to lose them. Think about it. She’s in a relationship and messages another guy saying she wants to be with him. Does that sound right to you? Doesn’t matter if her boyfriend is weird like you say, that doesn’t justify her doing that because if you were him you wouldn’t like that. And even if she wants you, your feelings towards each other should not be an excuse to cheat.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Yeah, I don’t like cheating and it’s true, that I wouldn’t like it either (being him). Thanks for your advice.
  
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Pjcsr

3 years ago

Yes, go for it!

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Mini69

3 years ago

Offer her oral sex as a Christmas present. If she accepts you know she is interested in you. If she declines at least you haven’t wasted your money buying her a gift.

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farkelu

3 years ago

Absolutely kiss her. She wants you.

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JudgeOfNormality

3 years ago

Don't kiss her. If she's giving you mixed signals, you have no idea what she's trying to say. Women (young women, and teenagers especially) are weird, and sort of bad at portraying how they feel. Often times they will give signs that they are into you, and they will be, but they don't want you to make a move. Maybe she's wanting to break up with her boyfriend, but is too scared/nervous. Who knows what she truly wants. If she said she wants to hang out, then just hang out. Whatever happens from there, is up to both of you, instead of putting her on the spot and just kissing her. Not to mention, if she has a boyfriend, let her know that if you two are going to be together, you don't want to be a third party, and that she has to break up with the other guy. Cheating is never good, and usually doesn't make room for a clean, responsible break up.

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StylinProfilin

3 years ago

Sounds like shes playing you

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Might be true, but she is one of the nicest people I know. I think, she doesn’t really know what she wants.
  
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