Should i pursue this

My husband and I live in a female led relationship. I am really into feminised men. I persuaded my husband to convert to women’s underwear about 3 and a half years ago. He resisted at first but eventually I got my way and chucked away all his male underwear. Then in the winter that same year I got him wearing tights under his trousers instead of wearing socks. Again I was met with some resistance but eventually got my way. He is no longer permitted to wear socks from 1st October to 30th April, only tights, hold ups or stockings with suspenders. He has a range of all these things. In the summer months he wears socks for work but has to take them off when he gets home. He also wears pretty night dresses for bed at my insistence, despite the fact I wear pyjamas in bed. I insist on the night dresses to make up for the fact I have to see him in male clothes during the day. I more recently got him wearing bras when he is not at work. He has some small breast forms that he puts in. I now want him to start wearing skirts around the house. I recently took him shopping for some and made him hold them up to himself to see what they looked like. He would have had to try them on in the shop but couldn’t because of COVID restrictions. Although I made him buy them he says he doesn’t want to wear them. I have made it clear to him that as we are in a FLR I will make the rules and he will comply. But now I am wondering if I am being too harsh. He has resisted every step of his feminisation so far and has been suitably punished until he complies. But I do love him and don’t want to make him really miserable.

I should insist on the skirts when we are at home 0
I should insist on skirts at home and then progress this further 5
I should not make him wear a skirt if he doesn’t want to 9
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Comments ( 31 )
  • Schizotravestie

    female clothes are unpleasant to wear compared to male clothes.
    it is abuse.
    you do not like him.
    You are mean.

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  • ellnell

    I think you should pursue paragraphs.

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  • Tommythecaty

    Written by a guy.

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  • bigbudchonga

    He sounds like the most pathetic man alive

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    do you also have a redundancy fetish?

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    • What does redundancy have to do with anything?

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      • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

        because its the third fuckin post youve made about the same exact thing this week

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        • It’s the first post I’ve done since about 6 months ago.

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          • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

            what an amazin coincidence then

            i guess theres a whole fleeta women dressin their men up like dolls & bein all demandin & bitchy

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            • Not sure about a whole fleet but you would probably be surprised just how many of us are out there

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  • lolasprat

    For how long have you been married?

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    • 7 years but it’s second time round for both of us.

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  • Bazinga

    Better to let him have a choice. You could have him pick out earrings, necklace, bracelet, and rings to go with his blue jeans. If he is truly happier, he will fuck you real good.

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    • He will fuck me when and how I want anyway. He has already been trained to fuck me to orgasm without cuming himself until and if I permit it. I do agree about the jewellery though. I have already considered having his ears pierced, but he can wear it with a denim skirt if he likes the jeans look.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    If he’s “resisting” every level of this feminisation then why (in the most polite way) is he still married to you?

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    • Because he loves me. He craves the domination, but at the same time he resists it because he feels humiliated. For me it’s a judgment of how far to push him. He has given me the authority to take him down whatever road I choose, that’s the commitment he made by agreeing to live in a FLR. But it is a long slow journey, I love it when a man is feminised, so this is the path I chose for him. But I couldn’t just one day say from this point forward you are to live and dress like a woman. It has to be a gradual process. I could have chosen a different lifestyle for him, it would still need to be a dominant lifestyle, but it didn’t necessarily have to include feminisation. I chose it because I like it and in a FLR it’s all about what the female wants.

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  • I love him very much, however, his comfort is not my primary concern. It is about control and being in charge. My desires are primary to his, he agreed to that when we started our FLR. Having said that none of what he wears is uncomfortable and it is his comfort that influenced my decision to allow socks instead of hosiery from May to September. His humiliation is another matter and it is that which makes him reluctant.

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    • Schizotravestie

      tights, stockings or stockings with suspenders, maybe not uncomfortable? and bras ...? it's horrible.
      you just have to try and wear it all yourself if it's so comfortable!

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      • I do. Just because I like feminised men doesn’t mean I don’t wear feminine clothing myself.

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        • Schizotravestie

          so you know very well that it is not comfortable

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          • Not sure why you think that way. I find most of my clothes very comfortable.

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            • Schizotravestie

              I think like that because for 30 years I haven't worn women's clothes and now that I wear them I understand very well that it is not comfortable

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