Should i tell my friend that his friend is a fckboy?

Recently my friend has been inviting a longtime friend of his whenever we go out. We all chip in on food and drinks, and usually whoever has the most money or is the most generous may spend the most. That has been all of us at one point. His friend is fair with money I'll give him that. My problem is that he tends to always act sarcastic towards me and tries to undermine my intelligence. He and my friend will indulge in conversations about sex, and never talk about anything else interesting. I don't mind. When I'm not interested anymore I turn my focus elsewhere and let them talk. But when I do occasionally join in on their conversations his friend responds as if I'm stupid or tries to dismiss me with unrelated answers. He even responds to things I say that need no deep response, petty things. I mentioned how I was cold and then he gave me some sarcastic logic. I do defend myself. But I think I deserve equal respect. He doesn't do others like this. I wanna mention it to my friend but he'll justify it.

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  • Digsbie

    If your friend is allowing this he might not be the friend you think he is.

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  • ifuckedyourdaughter

    Just tell him

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  • Blackhawk6969

    If your friend doesn't realize this is happening, tell him. If he shrugs it off, shrug them off and find new friends. Real friends will take up for you if you need the help, phony friends will just leave you to fend for yourself.

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  • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously

    Hang around with someone else this whole mess is so childish it borders on ridiculous. Seriously?!? Just no!

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  • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously

    He is playing a role but so are you. Instead of reacting to the way he is why don't you just act your normal self? If it means calling him out on the comments he makes so be it.

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    • I said I focus elsewhere when he and my friend does whatever they do or talk about whatever they talk about. I join the conversation only when I really have an opinion. Even when I take interest in his conversations, he bitches. I told my friend to turn on a song, he complained about not liking it. So my friend turned it off. Only because HE bitched. If either one of them chose that same song for themselves it wouldn't have been a big fuss, and everybody would've moved on. Since it was me there has to be some sarcastic opinion. I'm not playing a role, I mind my business. He obviously is trying to fit me into some idea he has of me, and I don't appreciate it. Would you, yourself, allow yourself to constantly have to defend yourself against on asshole? He doesn't pisses me off because I don't let him. But I shouldn't have to do this everytime we hangout, the whole time we hang out. He overanylizes me or just thinks I'm an easy target. He acts very friendly and open to strangers that has no connections to us.

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  • sandnigga

    Depends on how he's saying it to you.

    You might just be overly-sensitive

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    • Nah. He constantly does this everytime we meet, the whole time we hangout. After awhile its not something I feel I should put up with. And I'm sure you wouldn't. If he can have a normal conversation with my friend, and not with me then he doesn't respect me or think my presence or opinion matters. I leave him be, but he pays more attention to me than I do to him. He hardly knows me. If I did the same thing to him he'd want to fight, I bet. Awhile ago someone accidentally bumped into me at a club and accidentally made me bump into him. So he pushes me without hesitation, knowing we're in a crowded place. If it were my friend he'd joke it off or rationalise it. Sensitive people complain about irrational and things. I don't.

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      • sandnigga

        I dont know. I would have to see this whole situation myself

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  • Ellenna

    I have no idea what a fckboy is but he sounds like a total arsehole. How does your friend react to this? If he's joining in with the putdowns or even saying nothing, Digsbie is right, he may not be the friend you believe him to be.

    Depending on how unpleasant you're finding their company, maybe it's time to move on.

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    • Yea. He sides with this guy and other guy friends over me. I come around more often than his other friend does but he has more regard for them whenever they are around. They just gotta show up once, and he treats them like they've been there all along. They get along with eachother because they don't see eachother.

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  • Zmma.e

    You should tell him how you feel but if he gets defensive, don't be surprised.

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