Should i tell them i miss them?

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I have an online friend but we're not that close. During this lockdown we've been chatting (it was roleplaying) everyday till mid-May, when we both had to focus in our studies. After that, we kept talking but not as much as before,and our conversations are often awkard. They also keep posting stuff saying they're not okay, and whenever i ask they say i wouldn't understand. Now it's been a month with almost not talking and i really miss them, but i don't know if i should tell them. Should I or not?

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  • Boojum
    3 years ago

    If you really miss talking to them, what's stopping you from telling them that?

    Are you afraid of rejection? If you suspect there's a real chance they might list all the reasons why they don't want to talk to you and then emphatically tell you to fuck off, then maybe it's preferable to leave everything in the gray zone of online friends we've lost contact with. But if you think this is unlikely, I don't see why you shouldn't tell them you're sorry that you haven't been in touch more and that you haven't been able to help with whatever they've been going through.

    As is often the case in life, it comes down to trying to figure out what you have to lose by doing nothing, and what you might gain by taking some action.

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    • BHC_Fawn
      3 years ago

      I don't really know.

      As I said, we're not very close and both of us are pretty introverts, so our conversations tend to be uncomfortable, cause we both want to talk -at least me- but we don't know what to say. I think I'm scared of telling them but things will just stay as they are. I don't know if I'm being clear. What I mean is that maybe if I tell them, they'll reply (or not), but we won't talk more, and that's why I'm doubting.

      Anyways, sorry if I'm bothering you and thanks for your advice.

      Stay safe.

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  • ellnell
    3 years ago

    Sounds like an annoying person to me. You don't go around saying you're not okay then refuse to say why unless you're just making up that you're not okay for sympathy and attention. Plus if your conversations were awkward it doesn't really sound like you were great friends. Still though, if you really miss this person you should say so, or just send a text asking if they're okay.

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  • have_a_good_day
    3 years ago

    Nah, that nigga is an attention hoe. Focus on yoself and I can guarantee you that caps won't be busted in yo bitch ass in the foreseeable future

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  • olderdude-xx
    3 years ago

    Yes, you should tell them.

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