Should i trust him again?

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I just want your opinions on this ;
I have been talking to someone for a while and we are planning to meet up, I honestly thought he was genuine and still do, we both really like each other or so I thought. We both have screen shots of snapchat of each other and he keeps saying I'm all he wants.
He showed me his camera roll last night and there was another girl on there so I asked who is that? He made up a lie and I knew it was a lie because it had the snapchat writing on, we argued and I stopped messaging he then said it was a friend. He lied because he was scared of my reaction... But I thought we were closer than for him to lie :( it's hurt me a lot seeing another woman on his images if I had someone else on mine he'd hate it. He says he's sorry and that I'm all he wants, but I just feel so hurt, like is he hiding something else ? Or what's going on? When someone tells you you're the only one then you see that with the message 'miss you' it kills.

Apparently she's married.
And I do like him a lot.

Forgive or forget ?
Am I over reacting ?
Been hurt in the past doesn't help.

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Based on 17 votes (7 yes)
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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    7 years ago

    This was a little confusing. Did he admit he was lying or could it still be just a friend? You can miss a friend.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      I said I'm going and he admitted straight away he lied because he was scared of my reaction. It hurt the lie, and so did the fact he screen shot another woman :(

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      • AbnormallyAwesome
        7 years ago

        Well, if you haven't even met yet and he's already being dishonest and you can't trust him, I wouldn't expect it to get much better. Good relationships are built on trust.

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  • _Jesus_
    7 years ago

    I don't know what snapchat is but it sounds stupid

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  • FORUMiadableFucker0
    7 years ago

    Get off the internet away from weirdos and find someone else.

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    Forget him. He's already lying about women he's seeing while talking to you.

    However, it's obvious you're going to make excuses for his behavior and continue to talk to him because you like him so much. Just be careful, and don't have such high expectations for this guy/relationship, because it'll only hurt more when he disappoints you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Yeh but he was scared of how I'd react

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      • Tealights
        7 years ago

        So?

        Being scared of getting caught is normal, he tried to deceive you. Like I said, just be careful and don't expect much.

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  • jethro
    7 years ago

    How do you know he is married?

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