Should i try to stay friends with this person?

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My friend has gotten angry at me a lot recently and I don't think I'm doing anything wrong. I've apologized a bunch of times and she forgives me but I haven't actually done anything to her; she just keeps getting pissed off over stupid things. Last week she got angry at me because I was hanging out with some of my other friends and I wasn't responding to her texts and she got angry and told me that I shouldn't be ignoring her and I told her that I was sorry that I hadn't checked my phone (plus it was on silent) and she never texted me back and then she didn't talk to me for three days because she was so angry about it. Then this weekend she got angry at me because she wanted me to meet her mom but I didn't want to and I didn't respond to her text. I told her I was sorry but she was avoiding me until I had apologized. (I didn't want to go because I felt like we weren't on good terms and I thought that it would have been an awakward situation I didn't want to deal with.) Today we fought too and I just feel like I'm wasting my time with being around her because recently all we do is argue and I have other friends whom share the same interests as me but today I wanted to go and hang out with them becuase I haven't seen them in three days and she wouldn't let me. In all honesty she acts like she's my mother by telling me what I can and can't do and I hate it and all of my other friends know about this and don't know what to do. I feel like she's afraid of losing me because she doesn't have many friends, but she's just pushing me away because of the way she treats me. So should I remain friends with her?

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Based on 7 votes (2 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Dump her.

    Explain to her that her nagging and controlling behavior is pushing you away therefore you need a break from her and "the frienship". Regardless of whether or not you choose to remain her friend I would certainly recommend that you tell her you need some space.

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    • おいしいケエキ
      8 years ago

      I should have included that I have told her that its pushing me away but I don't know if she cares and even after we have some time apart we still end up arguing.

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  • strangethingshappen
    8 years ago

    Seems like she has a lot of insecurity problems which is why she acts this way. I'm guessing she's either just a nut case, has strong feelings for u which would explain her jealous behavior or she's scared that she'll loose you. Despite the reason, its truly inappropriate behavior & you need to discuss things to her if you want to keep the friendship or improve it. If it keeps happening, and you decide to end the friendship, please give her an explanation as she may be confused. Good Luck!

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    If you need to "try to stay friends with this person", then this person isn't really a friend anyway, so what's the big deal?
    I've never had to "try" to be someone's friend. I either was or was not their friend.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    She's a control freak and not a friend

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