Stop beating around the bush
If you want life to be better for yourself, just better yourself, incase you can't tell better means to be better than you were previously, you don't have to be fancy, have a luxury car, a luxury yacht or impress people with wine, flaunt money or wear a business suit and become a corporate pimp CEO to be better than yourself, just improve your life and your habits, with a personality change. And don't beat around the bush, if you're not wanting improvement just accept yourself the way you are, be more consistent, be more authentic, if you're classy stay classy and if you're normal stay normal and if you're religious stay religious, be real.
Don't want people to change things for you or expect them to be consistent when they're not, do it yourself.