Stop being in my dreams

I have very realistic recurring dreams about a creepy guy I used to date.
He is creepy because hes extremely clingy and a tryhard romantic, he's also a "nice guy". He used to brag about how he had good economic status and that I should be aware of how positive that could be for me if I end up being his girlfriend and wife. He wasnt even attractive to have such an ego, he was tall which of course he went "you like tall guys? thats attractive right?" and I was like "meh" and he looked shocked. It was hilarious.
I only liked him because he was handy and I have a major thing for handy men. He built his entire house pretty much from scratch and I was attracted to this. I was also wanting his house but in the end its not worth it because he was insufferable and his garden was unimpressive, very small. I couldnt fit a large chicken coop in it and a sizeable greenhouse which obviously is horrible, you must understand that, my friends. One cant ruin my life like that. He promised me those things from the get-go but obviously his garden couldnt deliver so I was doubtful. And preferably sex has to be after or near marriage and he was not having it. And he called me hugging technique underwhelming. I was not having it that it needed practice because I believe I give a good firm, fuzzy hug. Its only a shame for him as I am wildly attracted to men who can build things. Just looking at such a mans hands and imagining what they can do... I saw yesterday a man with worker pants with tools in them at the store and I was very attracted to him. Just a bit old for me but I could see him checking me out. Maybe he could build me my chicken coop and I could watch. I was in those thought processes...
Anyway this guy keep showing in my dreams like no other has. I dont know what is his problem. In my dreams he comes to bother me by hugging me all the time standing behind me and grabbing me. Always standing behind me. I am very attracted to it and I shame me for it in my dream.