Strip club anger for men

You work in an industry that objectifies and degrades women, what do you expect? Strip joints attract the worst kinda pig headed, pathetic, horny, superficial, loser types of men who think they can buy whatever they want from whomever they want. Of course your going to grow to hate men after being surrounded by the biggest losers and jerks. I don't care how much money they have their still losers to me because it's about what a person is on the inside as far as I'm concerned.

You can call yourself a "pole artist" all you want, but when it comes right down to it you are a stripper! Those dudes don't care about your pole or dance routine or how hard you work to stay in shape. They just want to see you naked body, your tits, ass, and yes, your hairless lady parts all spread for their ugly, bulging, hungry eyes and throbbing naughty bits. You think you're beautiful, but the sleazy world in which you make your money is rotting your soul and making you ugly on the inside.

There's a reason you're feeling this hate. Get out of that shitty, underbelly world where you're losing yourself. You're worth more than their dirty money!

Yeah, I'd say it's pretty damn normal. Over the years I've known quite a few exotic dancers, and I don't think I ever met one who worked in the industry for longer than about 6 months, who didn't dislike men, all men. Not that some didn't have boy friends or husbands, but that really didn't change their feelings, deep down inside.
I don't it's even unreasonable or hold it against the girls, but I think it goes with the territory, so to speak.

So, you're paid to make men sexually attracted and only seen for your sexual aspects and now are complaining when they treat you accordingly and not this "empowered" idea you had imagined?

Also, hating groups of people because you put yourself in the environment where people only come to you for the reason you intentionally put yourself in? What the hell. Would that not also mean men have the right to view you in the exact same manner because they are male strippers?

No offense but if that's your mentality then you're in the right line or work...

Why do you work there if you don't like the customers.

You are preforming a service that attracts perverted and sexually frustrated men. It's no surprise who your target audience is.

Your a stripper not a ballerina.

My best friend was a stripper. I saw the behind the scenes part that the guys don't normally see. I'm not judgmental about it. I just think that the hours you spend working in that environment isn't a good influence on who you are on the inside. As she put it, "It turns you into a money grubbing bitch". Those aren't my words, it just doesn't seem like a positive place to be, especially to earn a living so many hours out of your life every week. Regardless of how much money you make. Easy come and easy go and THEN what do you have?

You can't judge an entire sex on the actions of some strip club rats. The majority of guys who go to places like that, especially more often than the odd bachelor party, have mad problems. Mama issues and problems respecting women. You can look at it as you at a performer, but the people who go to strip clubs DONT. They're looking to get smashed and cop a feel during a private dance. You also have to understand that the whole vibe of what you do oozes sexual energy. The two titans that make resolve crumble; pussy, and alcohol. That's like a rock star gettin pissed that chicks are throwing their panties at him. It's called an "occupational hazard" if u don't like it, get a new job. Lol

You sound like a nice person and I don't mean to offend you, but as a female I could never imagine exploiting my body that way, and still expect everyone to treat me with the same dignity and respect as they treat everyone else with.

You're a stripper, you take your clothes off for men, for money. Nomatter how classy you try make it sound, that is exactly what it is. I'm not saying you're a bad person, but come on. You cannot be a stripper and then play the "men don't respect me" card.

You make yourself a sexual object for men by taking your clothes off for them like that, and that's why they see you as an object. Doesn't make you a bad person, just a naïve one.

Honey, get yourself out of that industry and into something respectful. You won't regret it. I'm honestly not sure why prostitution is illegal, yet stripping and porn is legal, because its the same thing. Selling your body for money is wrong, and it shouldn't be legal, let alone socially or morally acceptable.

I'm sorry if I offended you, but you came to this site asking for opinions, and now you have mine.

I hope you take into consideration what a toll this profession might take on you later on in life. Quit, get a respectful job, find yourself a decent man who will not see you as an object, make a life for yourself and be happy.

"Now, I hate men..."

Fuck off with that misandry.

It's not normal to hate 49% of the world's population based on what's between their legs.

A "pole artist"? And I'm Trilby the Flying Hamster.

You sound like a troll.
If youre for real then you have a strange idea of "empowered"! If you want to be artistic why cant you dance with clothes on? Men go to strip clubs because they are pathetic jerks who want to get off, not to appreciate art. Go to a real dance academy and maybe you will be appreciated rather than treated like crap.

Your lustful shame is riveting. You're a bad bad girl. Better get a new job.

When you take your clothes off for a man who has no personal relationship with you, (husband, boyfriend, fiance), he is going to look at you as an object. If you didn't want to be looked upon as an object then why are you a strip dancer. In my book anyone who takes their clothes off like that is someone that has no respect for themselves. If you don't have respect for yourself then how can others have respect for you?

you have a make a choice.. one or the other.

1. easy money

2. self esteem/self respect

You work in an industry that objectified and sexualizes all "performers". Men and women go for the erotic atmosphere of you girls dancing. It's not empowered, you are being used to make a profit and that's what the industry is. What do you expect?