Talking experience, lets discuss

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Yo! So I was laying on the bed and thinking about my life and I realised that im afraid of other peoples. Sometimes with some part of people im scared to ask them questions or discuss about something or almost with all peoples I cant talk much becouse I do not know about what. Im boring person and, frustrated person how should I overcome it? Is it a formula how to be a man who is not frustrated about his life and being a brave man? How to be the man which others follow just to talk, not the men who is followimng others to listen and say few words? Is it a formula to overcome the fear of talking and overcome lack of words?
Please discuss about this does any one had it and how you overcome it?

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  • CDmale4fem
    6 years ago

    Well, Raj Koothrapaly on Big Bang Theory has a drink or two in order to talk to females. Have you considered that ? Also, just Get out there and realize you can be just as radiant as anyone else. Read or watch the news, there are plenty of things there to discuss, the "me too", discuss how to solve the problems of the terrible school shootings. If you have hobbies, try asking others about their hobbies, if any. The thing is, people won't be offended if you are just trying to hold a decent conversation.

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    • Foreigner16
      6 years ago

      I didnt considered that but I want to talk easily and have more words to say about that we can discuss with others truly I wish I could be different person but I cant so I must to change myself some how. Anyway thanks for answer 🙂

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      • CDmale4fem
        6 years ago

        You gotta start somwhere. The more you are out and about in work, social events, etc. You will be having more to talk about.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    There is no miraculous cure, good communication takes practice.

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  • redrainbow22
    6 years ago

    Just try to gain confidence

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  • e51pegasi
    6 years ago

    Have you been watching those L'Oréal men expert or Hugo Boss fragrance adverts on tv again?

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    • Foreigner16
      6 years ago

      No I didnt 😀

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      • e51pegasi
        6 years ago

        Come on then we're all friends here, what's the problem? Is it shyness or wanting a little more out of life?

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        • Foreigner16
          6 years ago

          Truly I dont know what is L oreal men expert or Hugo boss becouse im not interested by that. I think both im shy but I often I can overcome it just im silent person and I just dont know how to talk with others cuz im closed man I like to be alone sure Im not too brave to talk with girl in my school that im looked for but I just dont know what to say that is my biggest problem how to talk that people will be interested by me?

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          • e51pegasi
            6 years ago

            Why don't you start by learning some social skills, talking to shop staff, people in cafes, people in parks. Joining a club you are interested in, photography, cookery, walking. As CDmale4fem said socialise/talk to people as much as possible.

            Once you have better social skills, then your self-confidence should get better. Self confidence will help with many aspects of your life especially if you are looking for girlfriends.

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