Telling her after 6 years! is it normal and do i stand a chance?

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Well I have loved my friend ever since I was the age of 16 & now I'm almost 22! I regret being a pussy and never having the balls to tell her! I'm a girl as well and she has a bf...
We are no longer close as she lives in another city but we are planning on meeting up for the first time in over a year! I am going to confess but I'm nervous as hell and I doubt she'd leave him :( I want us to have a future! It would be my dream and I'd do anything to make it work even if it means leaving my family! She hardly ever communicates with me either but is excited to meet up!...

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  • IMissMary
    7 years ago

    Big mistake to jeopardize your friendship for a fantasy of yours. First you should at least assess the situation and see if she even goes for girls, is really tight with her bf [ie willing to break up with him], etc.

    Just to go in all filled with dreams and emotion without thinking is kinda reckless.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      It's merely a fantasy...I mean fantasies are usually extreme and very impossible situations or things that'll happen ie- A woman fantasising about becoming a shemale or a man! I have thought about this my situation/feelings many times & I'll regret it for the rest of my life if I don't at least get it off my chest! We used to be close and she'd always tell me she loves me heaps and how we had a connection one time & it was intense. I feel like there could have possibly been something there along the lines of a romantic connection. Either way, I don't feel this to be a fantasy because this is reality and I'm going to tell her .

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      • IMissMary
        7 years ago

        Oh I thought you said you were going to confess your feelings to her when she visits.

        I guess the whole thing is a fantasy.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          7 years ago

          Um YES? Didnt I just say that above ^
          You don't make sense! We are going to meet up half way. Obviously you have never been in a sort of similar situation or you'd understand -_-

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  • pizzabrowniesushi
    7 years ago

    my stepdad was in love with my mom for five years but was too afraid to say anything.

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  • Gratata
    7 years ago

    you can achieve anything aslong as you want it enough, go research and finding out how you could tell her and in what way.
    the human brain is easely manipulatable soo if you really want it you should do your research

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Thanks, I definitely hope so! However I don't want to have to manipulate her into having feelings for me. I would prefer they came naturally

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  • sunshinemoonlight
    7 years ago

    If she has a boyfriend then I really doubt she would like you like that.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      You can love more than one person

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