The thought of my gf and her ex having sex makes my blood boil?

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I was talking to my girlfriend of 1 month today, and she was talking about how she had a miscarriage after her and her ex did it raw. I was already feeling terrible for her for what happened and the fact that her ex was such a numbskull dumbass and didn't use protection made me so upset. but weirdly the thing that bothered me the most was just the thought of the two having sex. she was like "it's not like I could tell my parents we did it raw". the words "we did it raw" just made me feel ill. I never thought of myself as a possessive person or anything, and I really don't want to be possessive but jesus its driving me crazy. I want to kill this kid (not actually but you get the message). Is this normal? or am I just overreacting?

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  • Tommythecaty
    2 years ago

    You need to calm down.

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    • Somenormie
      2 years ago

      I second that.

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  • litelander8
    2 years ago

    They didn’t have a miscarriage from unprotected sex. That was worded terribly.

    Obviously if she got pregnant, they had unprotected sex. I don’t think I’ve used the term “Raw-dog” since I was 15. It’s pretty gross.

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    • olderdude-xx
      2 years ago

      Every form of birth control has its failures... Condom failures are fairly common because most people get a bit sloppy on using them.

      Very few people can do things "very good" past the first few weeks of using condones. They degrade to "average" on what they do (somewhere on my computer from years ago I have a study on this and the increase in pregnancies and STDs from "near perfect" use to "Average" use, and finally "poor" condom use habits (with much higher pregnancy and STD rates).

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  • olderdude-xx
    2 years ago

    Sex without protection is a very natural thing to do; and it is quite common among people where other forms of birth control are being used and STD's are being controlled by limiting partners and STD testing.

    Pregnancies and STD's can occur even if you are using "protection" (the failure rates are noticeable).

    Miscarriages are not caused by how a person had sex, they are caused because something was wrong and the body rejected the fetus. Studies have been done and generally there is a significant abnormality in the fetus or in the mothers health.

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  • newnormal
    2 years ago

    Hey man, dont ask about your gf and her ex and tell her not to reveal any information which hurts you. Its normal to think of this way as men are genetically like that

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  • OSCARUK
    2 years ago

    While i don't wish to trivialise the whole miscarriage issue, my girlfriend, my and her family, our friends, relatives and many many people around the world, including this website have been affected by miscarriage in some way.

    The issue of miscarriage in this instance is entirely separate from the basic issue of jealousy or feelings of inadequacy on the OP's part.
    Everyone has a past and its immaterial whether they 'did it raw' or not.... It happens, its not entirely her ex's fault they did it raw, she is in control of her own body and could have insisted that he used a condom.

    If they had sex, its pretty much guaranteed that at some point she also had his dick in her mouth.. And most likely a condom wasn't used for that either.. Again... It happens,

    Everything she did with him, she will most likely do with you too.
    get over it.

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  • Curiouskitten444
    2 years ago

    Not sure why everyone is mixing things uo with the miscarriage and sex. You said she had the miscarriage AFTER having unprotected sex which resulted in the pregnancy then miscarriage.

    Anyways, sorry to hear it bothers you so much thinking about it but youre going to need to move past it if you want this relationship to work.

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  • Irizu3748392746483938
    2 years ago

    Nothing not normal about that.

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