The truth about santa?

Over the years, I've had friends that still believed in santa even though other people their age didn't. For instance, when I was about 12 I used to go to after school. My friend at that time was also about 12. I remember it was around the holidays and somehow the subject of Santa was brought up. I was saying that he wasn't real when my friend out of the blue, said that he was. I asked if he was joking, he said "No." I asked him if it was possible that "Santa" was really his parents. He said that it was impossible, because his parents didn't get up that early. I quickly changed the subject.

I went over another friend's house when I was 11. Santa was somehow brought up and she got angry at me because I didn't believe in Santa! So, to prevent me from being hurt, I lied and said that when I saw the Polar Express that it made me believe in Santa again. It was a load of bull, but she fell for it!

So, I my question is at what age do you think children should be told the truth about Santa?

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  • 1000Dogs

    I'd honestly say that, rather than telling a child that Santa exists, teach them of the meaning of his existence, that is, how he's to represent generosity, and is more of a name people use when they want to be selfless.

    Everyone can be Santa if they can be kind for a little while. That's a much better lesson than just "Be good and you'll get presents."

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    • Avant-Garde

      What a lovely point!

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  • Energy

    How about the whole Santa thing just goes away? I mean it's kinda cozy but at the same time kinda dumb. Instead of lying to your kids, why not tell them that you're the one giving them gifts? So they'll be thankfull to you, and not some imaginary fat guy.

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    • Avant-Garde

      I agree it's stupid.

      My family told me about Santa and one day they just expected me to know that he wasn't real. They didn't tell me nicely. They should of told me the truth to begin with.

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    • taciturn

      But it teaches our kids the eternal lesson that you should do good things solely in order to receive material rewards from an unimpeachable authority!

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    • TaliaNae

      ^^^ True story

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  • Oak

    )': When I was like 10 - 12, I don't remeber, the suvject of santa came up and i said " What are you talking about? santa's real!!" but then my mom and sister told me he wasn't... i didn't believe them until my mom told me herself that she was the one who put the presents there...

    I still feel really sad about it, I wish she never told me... I wish I still believed... On christmas i want to cry a little because I get sad

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  • Sriracha

    When I have kids, I will tell them the story of Saint Nicholas. I'm not religious, but I would rather tell my children that we give gifts to others because we were inspired to rather than pull a huge farce.

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    • Avant-Garde

      That's a good way to do it. If anything, more people should do it that way.

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  • SoccerStud88

    Luke, I am your Santa.

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  • Shilus

    It's better to tell your children after awhile of them knowing he didn't exist that at one point he did, because he did.

    A few hundred years ago, but he didn't do the go all around the world thing XD

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  • Rick_Bawls

    I figured this out on my own when I was five years old. My mom said that Santa would know what I wanted for Christmas. Well, I wanted a Superman doll like they had in my kindergarten class. However, when I didn't get it, I knew that there was no Santa.

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    • Avant-Garde

      You were a smart kid.

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  • Stern_rules

    Until some asshole like you comes along and breaks them

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  • Dozis

    Once upon a time a very rich man named (bip) discovered that people were more likely to do what he said if he promised them presents. So he went to his farm and told everybody that someone wearing red clothes and with a long white beard would have brought them what they wanted the most. But only if they were good and did not complain about their misery and hard work. This way he increased productivity, eliminated the possibility of riots and attempts to his life, plus they stopped asking him for raises in salary.
    In the end, he gathered a bunch of letters in which his employees talked about what they wanted the most, and proceeded rewarding the ones who worked harder with something that would have made them happy but also kept them dreaming about what they wanted the most. Telling them: you are gonna get what you want the most next year if you work harder. Of course from his point of view they never ever worked enough, so they only lived hoping that one day they would get what they wanted the most because he kept them hoping. To run his farm better. After his death the myth of santa was born, because lot's of people realized they could trick anyone the same way, so they started wearing red clothes and fake white beards to keep people hoping that one day, if they are good and productive enough, they will get what they want the most.The big big prize.
    Like this jackass over here.
    Hey! Merry christmas!
    Fuck you!

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  • christophero1973

    If a child does not have the I.Q. to figure out that there is no santa by age seven, they must ride the short bus.

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  • 62704

    Honestly i was never gullible enough to believe Santa existed.

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  • mtg710

    I figured it out on my own, then gave the lies right back to my parents for a few more years, for fear I wouldn't get presents if I told them I knew. :)

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  • theabider

    I never was told that Santa was real. The first Christmas I remember, I was 4, and my mom had me hang up my stocking, telling me frankly that she would fill it with surprises, and that Santa was just a silly tale. I didn't mind. I was never broken hearted over it. :)

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  • dardydardizzle

    My friend is approaching nineteen and still believes in him- and gets presents from him every christmas.

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  • Ihadtomakeyetanotheraccountffs

    Sounds like my experience with religious people.

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    • Avant-Garde

      I know what you mean!

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      • Ihadtomakeyetanotheraccountffs

        The only exception is that I'm not afraid to tell them I don't believe in their God.

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        • Avant-Garde

          I don't believe in their "god" either, but I often don't say it aloud. I hate getting guilt trips from people who are against the fact that I converted from their religion.

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          • Ihadtomakeyetanotheraccountffs

            You should! At the very least if they ask or if they're talking about their beliefs. Watch this video about closet atheists (not saying that you are one, but still):

            <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_w8dKOqLDLQ" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_w8dKOqLDLQ</a>

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            • Avant-Garde

              Thank you:)

              When, I talk to people about my religion I usually only talk about the buddhist part, but most of the time when I try to bring it up they: ignore me, try to silence me, say I'm lying and that I'm saying these things, because I'm easily influenced by people, etc.

              I don't even like to bring up the belief in god in front of most of my friends.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    I say... If Abby from NCIS says he's real... who am I to argue with her?

    I mean it's not like it's going to hurt someone else if you believe

    Nor does it hurt you if someone else believes.... so why bother bashing someone if they still believe? It's a bit childish to bash over it in my opinion.

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    • Avant-Garde

      I by no means was trying to bash.

      My view is why do parents lie to their kids in the first place and refuse to not own up to it for so long? Why do parents allow their kids to live in a lie that was fabricated by them?

      It's like sending a lamb out to the slaughter.

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      • Oak

        I disagree. I would definitely tell my kids that Santa exists, it makes them happy and they get presents every year.

        They do it because it makes kids happy, that's all.
        I was really sad/mad when I was told that Santa didn't exist.

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        • If you weren't told to begin with, you wouldn't have to have been sad or mad. That's the point.

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          • Oak

            Don't tell me you never believed in Santa, or the Tooth Fairy, or anything else...
            The thing is, it's fun to believe in these things. Don't you guys have any good memories of the holidays, eager for Santa to come and excited? It's part of a lot of peoples' cultures.

            I'm not religious, so holiday cheer and Santa Claus are the best things about Christmas for me. I wouldn't want my kids to miss out on that.

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            • No, I did. I just don't think it's right to be lied to. Also I don't really remember my childhood really that much. I don't think I would want to intentionally lie to my kids just so they can be excited for a few weeks only to have to admit that it was all not real.

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  • Darkoil

    I'm guessing that most dress up santas are actually pedos, here kids come and sit on my lap.......I have a present for you.

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    • Avant-Garde

      Exactly! I think the whole concept of Santa in general is really creepy.

      "He WATCHES you when you're SLEEPING."
      "He KNOWS when you're AWAKE."

      Why doesn't this occur to people?
      Also, why would a grown man want kids to sit on his lap and confide their wishes to him?

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  • PurpleMelon

    The gap between those ages in the poll are too large bro. I'd say about 11.

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    • Avant-Garde

      Sorry about that. I tried to do the cornerstone's of each age group or just try to go by five's.

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  • ThisIsNotAUsername

    I was brought up as a Jehovah Witness and never got the joy of being told about Santa... Or Christmas for that matter!

    Maybe because I was raised without Christmas and the story of Santa I believe that children should never be told about it, you're introducing a lie into the very beginning of your child's life, after all!

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    • ariannel

      I was raised as a JW as well and I never believed in Santa. I'm not a JW anymore, but my future children will not believe in him either.

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    • Avant-Garde

      I think it's mean to lie to your kids about where the presents come from. Why can't parents just tell their kids that they buy it, not some creepy man with a bag. I guess it's a way for them push the blame on someone else. The blame when the kids hate the presents. So, they blame it on someone else.

      I heard Bieber's mother never told him about Santa, but he didn't ruin it for his friends.
      I think it's good that she didn't lie to him. It would of prevented the whole Santa is real crap.

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  • bananaface

    I stopped believing when I was six, and it didn't spoil anything, I still act like a 4 year old when it comes to christmas:D

    They aren't missing out.

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    • Avant-Garde

      Yeah, the flip-out when the family doesn't follow the list.

      I had an argument with mine, but it was more about how superficial they were acting.
      And that they got me things I can't use.

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  • PumpkinKate

    In a backwards world, Santa is some fat bearded jerk who sneaks down the chimney and steals all the kids' favorite toys.

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    • Avant-Garde

      That would be awesome!

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  • Runaway

    I think the best age is about 9 to 11 but past then, they should know Santa doesn't exist. I think 8 or under is too young and they should still have that time to enjoy the spirit of Santa Clause. When I was I think 10, I came to my parents room one night and asked, "Santa isn't real, is he?" By then my parents knew it was about time and told me he wasn't.. and I'm glad.

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