Thinks my boyfriend is addicted to protestutes. hookers, etc....

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My 37-year old never been married boyfriend of 8 months (we've known each other for 20 years) is addicted to porn, strip clubs, massage parlors and anything mentally sexual. I know he did it when he was single, but there is no need now that he is with me and we are living together. I don't mind the porn, but it really bothers me that he is so obsessed with strippers and hookers. And he's a big fan of the NiteFlirt. He loves talking to dirty Asian women and teenage sluts! Since I told him it bothers me, he stopped calling the NiteFlirt.

Is it cheating to go to strip clubs? Is it cheating to want to have stripper club shooter shots and table dances? FYI, my boyfriend has mastered the shooter technique. He tells his buddies his secret technique on how to get more boob action.

I know he loves me and we've talked about getting married.... But not only is the porn / stripper industry a problem, he doesn't want to have sex. We have sex once a week if I'm lucky. The sex is great when we do have it but I'm getting very frustrated and borderline insecure with his obsession and the lack of physical contact I need!

How can someone be so visually and mentally stimulated with porn, strip clubs, etc. and NOT want to have sex more often than once a week with the person he loves? The sex is great when we do it!

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  • Expendable
    12 years ago

    Talk to the guy, he might just listen. He may not know how you're feeling or how much he's being an idiot. He's probably finding it easier to yank himself while watching porn, then not got enough left for you, it happens.

    If that doesn't work, then you'll probably be better finding a guy thats just into you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    When someone is addicted to porn and they watch it all the time, it makes their real partner seem less appealing to them. That might answer your question. Not that you aren't beautiful or anything, it's just that he has gotten used to these images. Honestly you deserve someone who isn't a nymphomaniac and has a sexlife that revolves around you! Remember that if you get married and want to steer clear of divorce, you will have to deal with this all your life =\ you're beautiful and you need someone better

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  • pay2play
    13 years ago

    He don't need help, you do you dumb fuck dump him an find a nice clean guy to settle down with. The smock sounds a real looser. If he's doing all that shit he's fucking them as well. You'll end up with aids or STDs that won't go away. Then nobody or at least self respecting guy will want you. Grow up and get out.

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  • HurrrDurrr
    13 years ago

    He need professional help, or you need to GTFO and quick. One or the other needs to happen before you catch the aids.

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  • Gabriell
    13 years ago

    Weird... maybe he gets it someplace else?
    I think this obsession is no good for him and if it has gone so far as you say it has... I think you should think about dumping him. He will be no good for you and you'll be hurt

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