Threesome with best friend and his girlfriend?

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My best friend whom Ive known for the better part of a decade has told me he wants me to have sex with his girlfriend. She is also one of my closest friends, theyve been together for around five years and I guess exploring their sexual interests.

I love them both more than anything in the world, so of course I want to do it, but I'm worried that it might cause problems, I have this fear that it might make things awkward or one of them might somehow get hurt and that it might make it hard for them to be around me, and I just couldnt handle that. But I also feel like this could turn out to be awesome, and if they just got someone else to do it I would feel like I wasnt a good enough friend for them to trust me with this, and Im sure I would be jealous as all fuck.

Am I just overplaying this? Should I just do it? If they love me we could work out whatever may come of it and move on right? Anyone here that has experienced this before?

Bad idea 116
Good idea 243
Can be done carefully 294
Not worth risking friendship 126
Not a big a deal as you think 139
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  • TwoThumbs
    10 years ago | pl

    Um...dude. No freakin' way. When you have sex with friends....you're no longer friends. Something chemical happens. One person will get weird and shit WILL get flipped. Also, they wanna try this little experiment...let them try with a stranger. Unless their friendship doesn't mean all that much to you.

    Then sex away.

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    • Ernienlisa
      10 years ago

      It is not as difficult as people think...... There is a huge differance between a loving couple relationship and sex! Sex is sex it's just fucking

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      • TwoThumbs
        10 years ago

        Sex is just sex....with a stranger. Sex is not just sex with a friend. It's not...because it changes they dynamic of that relationship forever. Once you cross the sex bridge you have crossed it. If one of you liked the sex and the other doesn't...you stop having sex and one person gets offended. IF you both liked it and you're already friends....what does that mean? Now you're sexually attracted to someone who you enjoy their company and the sex is great. That sounds like a relationship to me. The only way I see this not ending is disaster if the sex is horrible..both people hated it....then there's less to get frustrated about.

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  • Fall_leaves
    10 years ago

    This is probably the worst situation for a threesome. It's easier when you're all just friends and no one is dating each other, but your friends are in a long term relationship.

    I wouldn't even try it, there are so many things that could go wrong.

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  • Jeaneathean
    10 years ago

    No. No, and no. And no. (In response to your final paragraph)

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  • bleach_baby
    10 years ago

    Unless your best friend is at least a bit gay then he will flip out and stop being friends with you. Reason for this being that if they want to have sex with you and not a stranger, it's probably because they're exploring each other's fantasies and his girlfriends is having sex with you (unless he's bi). Would you want to hang out with your best friend knowing your girlfriend fancies them and having seen them having sex?

    RUNNN

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    • golden_showers
      9 years ago

      ur too damned uptight

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    This is not a good idea to have sex as a three some with two of your friends. You may be a better lover naturally and this of course will have a bad outcome with your friend. If they want to do it, let them pick a person that is not friends with both of them. This is the worst plan for a friend. Stand your ground.

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    On the one hand, I don't think a really good friendship would be damaged by having sex. Especially if everyone is into it and no-one feels pressured and everyone agrees that it doesn't mean anything, I don't see what could go wrong. On the other hand, obviously there's a lot to lose.

    You can judge the risk better than anyone else since you know them as people.

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  • jr5646
    7 years ago

    start out slooooow.... both guys give her sensual back rubs... both of u suck her tits at the same time... she could suck your cock while he fucks her..... IF the guys focus on pleasuring her it'll work out.... if she is 100% comfortable it'll work out just fine! sensual is key.... hard core fucking will eventually happen down the road!

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  • golden_showers
    9 years ago

    just let her blow you, don't penetrate

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  • nige21
    9 years ago

    Only you can answer this one have your friends talked it through properly and are both 100% ok with it

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  • barebackbottomboi
    10 years ago

    Enjoy it

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  • Mister-M
    10 years ago

    I have some friends who've done this kind of stuff and there's two ways it can end.

    The first one is the good way. It will actually bring you even closer to your friends, because you'll be sharing a crazy experience with them, a crazy story.

    The second one is that it can become awkward. Don't let it become like this!

    But I've heard from many people that they prefer to choose someone else who they don't know, but who is clean of course and with who they are sure the person has no STDs or whatsoever.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Do you want to blow your buddy? You do, I know you do!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I probably would if it came down to it, well I know I would actually if it went down like that, but this whole thing probably isnt gonna happen, I dont want to lose them over something they could easily do with a stranger or another friend.

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      • peterr
        10 years ago

        You are a worthy friend and I wish you were mine but I wouldn't hesitate to get you alone if I could. That is for sure.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          10 years ago

          Nah man I aint blowin nobody anytime soon lol.

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          • peterr
            10 years ago

            That is perfectly okay my friend.

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  • D0nk1n40
    10 years ago

    You could just go for it. If you are good friends with them both it shouldn't be awkward

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