To be addicted to phone sex?

I truly dislike masturbating alone. So I spend hours searching online for girls with sexy voices to masturbate on the phone with. And I have been addicted to phone sex for the past five years.

My phone sex addiction has ruined my last ten relationships and it keeps me from living life.

Normal? Should I seek help?

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28% Normal
Based on 98 votes (27 yes)
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Comments ( 15 )
  • Dhesium

    dont you like the porn tube insted of phoning...Its cheaper 2...

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  • turboacct

    I think phone sex is safe sex both physically and emotionally. I feel that if the person on the other ends objects then it is inappropriate. Phone sex can desensitize you physically resulting in your inability to perform in real life. I hope you meet someone who like to do phone sex and actual sex with you!

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  • Avant-Garde

    No way Jose!

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  • 362led

    Oops I meant no

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  • Pink_bunny

    Cut off your phone line. Then start living..

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  • Dustyhawk

    First of all a one time phonesex cannot be consider as an affair.

    I go to public rooms find a mutual agreement between me and the girl and have a blast with phonesex of course but its only one time. If there is an urge than will find others to be my partner now is that consider as an affair as well ?

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  • psycho_logy

    It is a real addiction. There is help for it. I would suggest getting some help because it does ruin relationships. The sad thing is it is all too "normal". You need a meaningful relationship more than you will ever need this, and you will be a better person for it. Yes. Ask for help.

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  • screaminasian

    My phone sex addiction has ruined my last ten relationships and it keeps me from living life

    c'mon u know the answer

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  • jc82592

    normal-no
    seek help-yes

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  • where can you find someone to do that?

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  • LoneeJay

    maybe you do it because your afraid of commitment. when you find that one it`ll be better than phone sex

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  • littlefrog

    Anything that is interfering with normal life and relationships is a serious issue and should be addressed. I would seek counseling.

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  • I would seek help. The idea of phone sex does nothing for me and I think of it as rather perverted. If you need help, there was a special on this on the news and the average phone sex person is rather fat and almost always gross in general.

    But as a whole, phone sex just could never turn me on so I never tried it.

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  • IveGotBallsOfSteal

    not normal. holy crap phone sex still exists? seek help. obviously.

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  • leahquestions

    Anything you do is bad if it interfers with normal daily functions. We all have different obsessions at times. Phone sex isn't bad occassionally but if you're in another relationship, it's cheating. When you get a girlfriend try phone sex with her instead. The real thing is better, but this goes deeper than that. Some men can't perform and feel better with this "safe sex". He was a weight lifter, handsome rich but had major trouble communicating and yes performing. He waisted 2 yrs of my life.I would of married him but maybe I was the girl in between girls. Get help do not be ashamed. I think you brave to expose your problem. That's step one.

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