To be so hurt

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i dated my husband from 17 . at 21 we were settled and had child . he went away to work and i got very loney and bored . one night i went out and got chatting to a guy nothing happened but it felt nice to chat .i start meeting him and going for drives and we chat and it felt nice to have friend . but then drunk one night i met him and we had sex . .i thought id found happiness and left my husband and moved in with the guy wasnt long and i was more miserable and now been beaten . only person who helped me was my husband .but no matter what he wouldnt forgive or take me back . not that i blame him . its a long time since now and hes always been there for me and my kids .no matter what . if anyone is with a good man never think the grass is greener on other side . be happy with what u have .

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  • Vvaas
    2 years ago

    damn u sound just like my mum (derogatory)

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    You were a terrible mother. Im sorry. You are being dishonest to yourself you werent looking for a "friend". Your kids are not gonna appreciate you acting so innocent in the matter. You let the family down.

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  • olderdude-xx
    2 years ago

    I'm sorry for what you have gone through.

    Please read "The 5 Love Languages" by: Gary Chapman.

    That will likely explain what really happened and educate you on how to prevent it from happening again.

    If your Ex is willing to read the book you might be able to re-establish at least a better relationship. Very rare, but possible, that once he understands the book that it might lead to more.

    You made a mistake, and it was likely mainly because both you and your ex was ignorant of certain key things in a relationship in your joint past. Knowledge brings better understanding; and at least allows you to move forward and know how you can likely prevent a repeat.

    I wish you the best with this,

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