To hate perverted men!!

lol, half the people voted "No" because they are perverted men.
I know how you're feeling. one time i visited with a bf and was feeling frisky, i asked him to come to bed with me but he didn't, i ended up falling asleep, and when i did he started watching porn. How do you think i felt when he left for the bathroom and woke me up on the way out, just in time for me to see that smut on right in front of me.
I expected that he would watch porn on days that we didn't see eachother, but he had a horny 20 year old chick in his bed and opted to jerk off instead?
I'm sorry but no matter how you try to justify that kind of treatment, it's plain humiliating. You feel inadequate and it takes a huge blow to your self esteem.
Really you can't blame yourself, its their own problem and a growing addiction. One day you will find a real man who knows how to treat you right. There's a ton of assholes but they're not ALL pathetic douche bags who can't pleasure a real woman. Some know the difference between actual sex and fantasy land porn actors, or should i say "fake titted loose vagina std whores".

Finally someone understands me:) thank you anon7 for backing me up because men will never understand how much this ruins our self esteem which is selfish!!! They have to respect our boundaries and if I want to be the only girl he looks at then he should do it or leave me alone to find a mature gentlemen because there are some out there who will make me the only one

& I hate annoying sluts who need attetion all the time

besides what about the test for stds goes wrong then they could probably die ever though of logical jew?

i was trying to be nice but you are being mean to me for no reason at all

Thanks for posting that now I understand and I'm not so angry towards my boyfriend anymore. If he had put in this way I would of understood thank you. And maybe I should start dating women cus I have no idea why I think so low of men.

This is being often posted around here. In short.

"You should never say no to sex, in fact provoke for more and you should also stop masturbating"

Failure to do so, denies you the right to complain about it.

i would rather a man seek pleasure from sex than seeking it from cruelty. dont spose that helps but that is my comment

All men? It's nice being stereo typed because I has a penis. It's not my fault if your boyfriend does it to you. I don't do it so don't say we males all are.

Uh-oh! Looks like someone caught someone doing something.

Writing about it on IIN isn't going to help address your problem. If anything, you will probably be inundated with smart-alec remarks.

Men are visual creatures, and we crave visual stimulation of various kinds. Whether it be art, an action movie with lots of special effects, or, in some cases, lots of different women presenting themselves in different fashions, different men will seek out different ways to fulfill such stimulation.

Many women share your feelings, and many women enjoy checking others out just the way you described.

I'm not saying it's right or wrong... It's not my job to judge others.

You two need to establish an understanding... a common ground of mutual acceptance, appreciation, and respect, and there is only one way to do that.

Talk with him.

So, in order to make this a bit more clear: Higher sex drive + need of visual aid for masturbation= Men watch porn.
If you really don't want your guy to watch porn, he shouldn't be left with uncovered needs(usually the amount of this "needs" will sound absurd for a woman) else he will wanna masturbate to cover his needs. And how he can do that? Same way you use a dildo he needs to watch porn to get his dick erected.

There is more to this cause of the differences between males and females(gene vessels etc etc) but i wont get more into that, but i will address some other of your points. We don't care if they have fake boobs cause we don't touch them. We don't care if they have streched vaginas cause we don't fuck them. We don't care if she is acting, moaning, cause we don't look to satisfy them. If the whore in that movie have a boyfriend thats THEIR problem. NOONE forced them to do porn.(well if they did its illegal and they should be hunted down, but they didn't). They want some easy money? Well news flash nothing comes easy in life.

As i said earlier sex is what bonds this society together. We need each other physically else we all be roaming alone. Men and probly women, wouldn't talk to eachother at all without sex, their luck of common interests make sure of that. If you really hate sex, then natural choice is the one to blame. We could be "cloning" ourselves like some organisms and live a lonely life, instead we accidentally tried this method(which requires sex) and is working... so far.

ok.... well how can you say men are perverts? in fact they are not thats there nature thats the way they were designed perversion goes down another road

wow, a whole lot of comments on this seem to be deleted.

One thing I have to say right now: all guys, to one extent or another, are perverts. I am sorry, but you are just going to have to learn to deal with that and get over it.

Anyways, you said some shit that is not necessarily true. I'm fairly certain that most guys know that porn (btw, stds are quite uncommon in the official porn industry, and the actors get tested every two to three weeks) is acting, and most guys probably don't care to much about that. Most guys watch porn quite frequently, and enjoy it. It is a stimulus that we enjoy when we masturbate. And really, you shouldn't feel insecure about your man masturbating, though I can see where you are coming from.

Men are... practically unfathomably horny. Don't hate us for it, we are programed to want to fuck just about every woman we see. Spread our genes. You shouldn't feel inadequate because you cannot subdue every single urge your man has. That would be just about impossible.

You argue that all guys want women similar to those in porn. Well, I could quite easily argue that women only want muscular assholes with power and money (the power and money thing is actually supported by science). I could argue that women really don't care much about personality. They always seem to go for the douchebags. Always.

Anyways, not all men want loose floozies. I don't. I like the concept of an easy woman (if that makes any sense), but I would never want to try to be in a relationship with a whore. I look for women who are smart, gentle, caring... I don't want to take to much room with adjectives. And sure, I care a lot about how a woman looks, but, believe it or not, I value personality more than physical appearance.

I am by no means a muscular individual. I am not rich, I have little power. I have been told that I have mesmerizing eyes, besides that, I am probably and average to below average individual, from a physical (easily visible) standpoint. But... I have been told that I am a smart, nice (in some cases, nicest person that that particular individual has met), wonderful guy. And you know what? My personality counts for nothing. I respect women, I want smart girls, for all purposes, I'm a nice guy... Meh, it doesn't really count for much, in my experience.

So yeah, thats what I have to say. Read it if you want. Or ignore me, after all, I'm just a worthless virgin.

you are no better if you are still with him knowing that and im not like that i want a nice girl big boobs would be nice too and a beautiful face and if i would get treated like crap it wouldnt be worth it and boobs are not just for babies it comes back to guys boobs because they saw them as babies dont you ever happen to think that? its natural

that is something that you will never understand. my further comment will more than likely upset you. men have dicks. end of story. it is a natural instinct to stare at women. just like a lion has the instinct to chase after running prey. we work off of visual images. you run on emotion. get use to it because thats just how it goes.

no offence but if you seperate movies from reality you would understand that this doesnt happen alot

I POSTED THIS: yeah I'm fucken angry because why can't a guy be loyal and just want one girl. And I do please him whenever I can so I don't understand why he needs other girls!!! What if most women watched porn everyday instead of having a guy!! The guy would start thinking oh maybe I'm not big enough or maybe I'm doing something wrong or maybe I'm lame in bed and weak and can't last long enough. This would severly damage his self esteem just like what guys do to us!! And all guys have immature 13 year minds that's why they can't get over looking at boobs. They're for babies jerks!!! Ps sex maybe fun for most men like they make it seem in porn but guess what!! Sex for girls isn't that fun unless he's huge and fast and strong and knows many positions if your not this then trust me your girl is faking orgasms. If a guy is fantazising about other women stop living a lie with ur partner and get the balls to actually get with ur dream girl instead of being lame and just watching them over the Internet!! Lame losers!

Wee are not perverts it's just that so may chick think it's all about looking good. Hay !!surprise!! It's not you have got to be good at fucking, shagging, screwing,love making and that a fact. If the sex is good we won't have the time, energy, or inclination to look at anyone else. Your all up for it until you got your man AND the cold shoulder once a week sex.

Well girls wake up and smell the other woman on your man.

Get your acts together or put up & shut up

Women are quite superficial too, you pick the "hot" egotistical bastards that could two shits about you or your feelings over the guys who would actually care for you and love you and treat you like you deserve but oh well, you can continue to date douchebags and complain when they break your heart while the guy who would care for you sits alone.

i hate shallow constantly pissed off women

I love how men say..."get freaker in bed, watch porn with him, try new things, etc." Guess what, I was the one in the relationship to bring home videos, I was the one who said let's try this new thing together, I was the one who bought outfits, took pictures of myself, and made videos of myself....This way he had NO use for porn. He had everything sextual he could ask for. (he also declined to watch porn with me, but still looked at it when I wasn't around). I was at a loss because I had literally tried everything. It made me feel like I wasn't good enough, and I even asked him if he would stop looking at because it was really making me feel uncomfortable that he would do it behind my back but not with me. Still he snuck it. So, in my opinion as a wife who has done everything (and I do mean everything) to satisfy her man sexually and yet he still has to have his porn....well, I just told him to enjoy his videos and until he respected my wishes and my self esteem he would get nothing from me. This statement didn't bother me because if he chose porn over me (or went to another woman) then it would show me where out relationship stood. He decided to finally let go of porn because he wanted to be with me. I am not saying all men will react this way, but as a woman you either have to stand up for yourself or put up with their crap. I would definitely try everything you can though to make your sexual life together a good one before going to an extreme like the one I had to do. Hope this helps. :)

roxco just stop be for i get y mom on her btw say what u want to me idc and really she works for department of defense AKA military goverment dude if i have to i can track u down and have the military put u in military confinement

I would cherish a smart girlfriend your boyfriend is an idiot

Polygamy is in fact natural. It's all these social constructs such as marriage which aren't.

LOLZ is there any other kind? Love 'em or leave 'em :)

im sorry

Yeah, overly pervy guys are a pain (I'm a guy and I hate them) but remember that not all men are like that. Like, I can notice an attractive woman, but If I have a girlfriend than I'm not going to be looking, because I won't care.

that

oh sorry

I said fuck off "quab" not you

*didnt

i dont do anything why are you getting all mad?

i already said i wasnt like that

who are you talking to?

hello?

How old are you anyway?

yeah me too i like the texas chainsaw massacre the beginning

Yeah I do, mostly ones based on true events like the excrocism of Emily Rose lol. What about you?

do you like horror movies?

Alright take the lead with the conversation

anything really

Okay about what?

hey we could have a conversation here if you want

Okay I will

you should put it in the feedback to see if the site managers well do it

Yeah it would be

i really wish this site had a chat it would be awesome to talk to people

When pigs fly I will

dont worry yull find that guy out there it takes time.

Well I wish I could find a guy like you but it seems impossible now a days:(

btw my sexdrive isnt as high as it used to be in fact im not that horny all the time as i used i think me and my body are maturing and my mind and body want to feel love and be loved to have sex and thats the truth so stop bitching and believe me.

you sure do assume that all men are like that im not like that!!! not every guy is like that i want a girl with a good personality as well is that so hard to believe?

Sounds like you either let yourself go real bad and became insecure or are nothing to look at in the first place?
The same feelings you have are the same reasons why many women cheat on thier men. Looking is fine, touching is a problem if you are not in an open relationship.
If you think men are scum, look at why women go to male strip clubs, and where the term MILF came from. Its really a womans world, learn to tap into it, and learn to like yourself. Even a woman that is not a 10 can be confident and go from a 7 to a 9 and be good enough for me. Cut nagging, give him great sex, and a reason to stop looking. Maybe you are the probelm, and not him! When is the last time you told him how handsome he is, and how much he turns you on versus bithcing at him? God you are so dam needy!@

Bigguy 2010. - well put

BTW. I have sex with my girlfriend just about everyday, and sometime multiple times a day, and I still love my porn. No im not a perv, and NO my girlfriend is not a whore or freak, we just enjoy "making love". But porn I'd just always so nice. Woman have sexy bodies, and we love looking at all the different ways god made them. So fuck off birch, get a real man, and stop feeling like your not good enough, bc you probably are without that mouth of yours. Being insecure bc we look at porn is just retarded. Find a real man who pleasures u in more than one way, and you'll see what all the hoopla is about. Ha

you hate all men?!?

Boobs! And why does looking at other women make him perverted? Maybe he's an undercover cross dresser a like there pretty dresses- lol

Totally agree with Bigguy2010 on everything he said and also things like this shouldn't be posted on IIN

I know plenty of men who are NOT like that! They are more into happy family life...

Yes Sir I tip my hat to you

wtf? men arent perverted they are just very sexual people why the fuck do girls assume we are perverts? its not our fault that women have nice tits we wanna see and squeeze.

Why can't guys be intellectual human beings instead of always thinking about retarded ass shit like sex or cars!!! When will they start to make rational logistical decisions like caring about the enviroment or family or going to college to learn new things but no all they think about is sex like it's the fucken greatest thing in the world. News flash when your old and weak Sex won't even matter anymore because your bones will hurt too much to do anything so stop acting like it's the only that matters and start living for real!!! Stop thinking with the head of your penis and start thinking with your real head!!!!

To the guy above!! What if your girl was constanly going to gentelman clubs or looking at other guys through porn and you are right there!!! Wouldn't you star to doubt your self maybe like she settled to be with you but actually she dreams and fantizises about guys who look the total opposite of you!!! Maybe she's with you because she has a low self esteem and she thought she couldn't do better but really she's dreams and lusts to be with the tan muscular huge guy frm the movie!! How would you feel!! Exactly asshole!!! Guys need to get over immature shit and deal with real women not airbrushed fake boob bitches who will never give you a chance unless you have lots of money!!! Ps these whores vaginas are soo open and streched out frm fucking constantly that they can't feel a dick anymore all that moaning is called acting because they can't feel shit so gave fun watching Std streched out vaginas with fake ass actors!!! With ur Retarded little pubescent mind. How would you feel if your girl was doing porn too but a guy never cares that these are actual women with boyfriends who have to deal with perverted guys all over watching their girl!!!

Most guys will never mature like you!!! That's why boobs still amaze you because you have the mind of a twelve year old lil boy who just hit puberty. Grow up already, they're just boobs.