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I like when my wife beats mt bottom. She said she did not like it but she's getting better at it. I like when my bottom is all red and there are welts all over it's a big turn on for me.
I always spank my man, but he hates it. He's a little bitch and cries about it. Your wife should feel fortunate to have a man who likes to have his ass whooped. You've been naughty, you need a 'pankin
I love to be spanked by my wife. Some times she will spank me simply because she has had a hard day. She will call on her way home and tell me to report to our room, strip down, lay the paddle and belt out, and wait. Drives me crazy, the waiting!
I love the feel of her solid oak paddle across my bare ass. She has been spanking me now for 21 years and I still love it when I get it.
If your husband doesn't like getting spanked, why does he let you do it?
when out of control due to stress, i do thimgs which upset my wife and then life becomes unbearable. hours of arguments and long periods of silence follows. at this point. i ask for a good spanking. otk.bare with a hairbrush,she obliges and when its over i am crying like a little kid. i remember how a real spanking taught me never to repeat my misdoing. we consentually use spanking when needed and it works,
I LET HER SPANK ME BECAUSE IT TURNS ME ON. THE THOUGHT OF GOING OVER HER KNEES AND GETTING MY BARE BOTTOM SPANKED WITH A HAIRBRUSH TAKES ME BACK WHEN I FOUND A GIRL WHO LIKED TO SPANK. THE ONLY PROBLEM NOW IS THE WIFE DOESNT STOP WHEN I ASK HER AND I END UP WITH A RED HOT BOTTOM.
because he gets excited at the thought of being spanked. he remembers spankings his mother gave him and it turns him on to think his wife can give him a hot bottom
sometimes i feel guilty and want her to punish me with a real old fashioned whipping otk bare;
My wife spanked me for the 1st time, on our wedding night & the hotel housekeeper walked in on us, to deliver extra towels. The women talked for about 3 minutes with us naked & me over my wife's knee, without her missing a beat. My wife won't make love to me, with out 1st stripping me & putting me over her knee. Now, it's Pavlovian, I can't get excited without 1st getting a spanking. My wife says it focuses me more on pleasing her, than myself. After my spanking, she had me pay homage to her naked derrière, (with kisses, licking & biting) before mounted me in a 69 position to our mutual satisfaction.
I have never been spanked like that but I have been forced to strip naked in front of a female friend and 3 of her girlfriends one time. That made me hard as a rock and they loved that as much as I did.
It is a one of a kind feeling standing completely naked in front of 4 fully clothed females. When I looked at them all I seen were 4 smiling fully dressed females looking at me that appeared normal and exactly like they look in public and then I looked down at myself and I see my fully exposed body with a full erection.
It was a turn on to me knowing that they were able to see me completely naked, vulnerable and at a definite disadvantage by being unable to hide anything while the best I could do was to use my imagination to form a mental image of what I thought they may look like naked.
Their advantage over me still stands today simply because they know that I would love to see them naked but I have not and they will never let me but they have seen me naked and could again if they wanted to.
I would love to be ordered to strip naked in front of 4 girls like you have.
I do like to be whipped- once a week I have to strip completely naked everything off, pants the lot and have to stand spreadeagled on the tips of my toes and given 100 lashes with a leather cat-o-nine tails from my shoulders down my bare back, bum, thighs and legs.
It sets me up for the day.
A lot of men enjoy being spanked by a woman. It's more common than you think. My wife's been spanking me as long as we've been married. About once a week she'll have me drop my pants and turn me over her lap and paddle my bare butt good. Both of us enjoy it.
I have been receiving discipline from my wife before we were married. From the start, she made it very clear that she would be in charge of our relationship, & any disagreements or bad behavior would be corrected by her. I loved a dominant woman & agreed to her methods.
In the beginning, I would be corrected for being rude, disrespectful, excessive drinking & the likes. When I was told to go to the bedroom, I knew I was getting a spanking for something. She would sit on the edge of the bed & tell me what I had done wrong. I would then have to get a paddle that was kept in my drawer, bring it to her & was ordered to lower my pants to bear my backside. Over her knee I would go & get 25 to 50 swats, then to the corner with my pants down. After 30 min. I would have to apologize for my behavior & thank her for correcting me. That was 23 yrs ago. a lot has changed since the dinosaur age.
Now I am disciplined for whatever she wants & whenever she wants. I must be completely naked for my punishment & paddles are only for warming up my ass. Leather belts, Riding crops, Switches, Canes & single tail whips are her choices of correction. The basement is where long lasting punishment takes place. there are hooks in the ceiling to suspend my hands & hooks in the floor to keep my legs spread. A gag will be used if I make too much noise & then I really get it. Poor sexual performance is usually corrected with a riding crop whipping of my cock & a strap on dildo up my ass to teach me how to fuck like a man, she say's. I will then have to masturbate onto her hand & lick it all off. Only after my ass & back is thoroughly welted will my punishment be considered adequate. I have always had to thank her for punishing me & then perform cunnilingus & analingus on her until she is satisfied. There have been a number of times when she has punished me in front of her sisters, & her best friends. This was incredibly embarrassing & humiliating. Being laughed at while I'm naked & getting my ass strapped, then having to thank her & remain naked. One of her friends now enjoys punishing me as well, & requires me to strip when she is in our house. She enjoys making me jerk off & lick it off the floor. My wife approves & I am used to it now, & love my wife for keeping me in line.
When I was married my wife enjoyed putting me in tight form fitting bikini style plastic panties and tightly restraning me bent over the end of the bed and spanking me with a rubber razor strap ! first she would give me a good strapping with me wearing my cute little plastic panties and then after awhile she would pull them down and finish spanking me on my bare bottom ! This would always cause her to have a climax while she was spanking me ! and I'd get so turned on by her spankings that I would also end up having an orgasm with out her ever touching my penis ! I just love wearing tight little plastic panties and being spanked !!!
My wife spanks me also. I received a nude over the knee spanking by my wife yesterday. I was spanked in front of two of my wife's friends for wetting my panties at one of her friends house .After I was crying my wife had me lay accross her friends lap still naked and she spanked me too for wetting my panties on her couch. After I was spanked her other friend said I should wear diapers. Her friend diapered me in cloth diapers and plastic panties of which I am sitting here in now.
Wake up! It wasn't normal but it is getting to be. Spanking is passe. You are lucky if you don't get it with the cane or single tail.
I agree, there's nothing like a good old fashion over the knee hairbrushing to get over your anger. The spanker get it out of there system and the spankee get a reminder for the next week everytime they sit down
i feel that god made your bottom to sit on and get spanked when you misbehave. in our family the hairbrush used never failed to leave the receipent crying and promising never to repeat the spanking given, properly administered otk bare, finding the right spot, really hurts and never stops until the top feels a lesson has been learned)
My wife first started spanking me on our honeymoon & hasn't stopped yet. She uses it as foreplay and it never ceases to get me all revved up. She puts me over her knee for a bare bottomed spanking with her big strong farm girl hand.
My wife has been consensually spanking me for many years without ours being a femdom relationship. I don't spank her though because she doesn't like it like I do. While all are healthy spankings, usually given with me naked, there is more romance than discipline much of the time. However, for some careless or irresponsible acts I will consent to a very real and very long blistering that leaves me dancing. There is no force or coercion, I just perfer a good spanking to fussing and tension in the relationship. Because of our male egos most guys won't do this, but I recommend it to those so inclined.
i find that a quick solution to make peace in the marriage is asking for a whipping otk bare with a hairbrush.
a short time after my marriage, the subject of spanking came up, that evening when i was on top making love, she suddenly slapped my bottom. i told her it felt good ans she said that the next time i misbehaved it would be a good hairbrushing for me. later on at a party she caught me fooling around with a woman we both knew. i was told to get the car and not a word was spoken on the way home. when we arrived she said i should disrobe and wait for her in our bathroom. upon arriving she entered holding her ebony hairbrush. i was taken across her knees and given a severe whipping. with my bottom on fire i assured her i learned a lesson and would not ever try such a stunt like i did. i had forgotten how much a spanking hurt.
i find that a real old fashioned hairbrushing clears the air quickly, your bottom stings but this reminder lets you know that when you do something that upsets her she is going to tan your backside, at least its over and the red hot backside beats the old system of argument or hours of cool silence.
after misbehaving at a party, i touched another woman in an inapproiate manner. i confessed this to my wife and she told me to go get her wooden flat back hairbrush she then had me strip naked and took me over her knees. i got my bottom spanked so hard that i will never get out of line again. prompt punishment solves the problem immediately its over and done anf sure beats long argumtnts and days of silence
It's called being a masochist dear, nothing wrong with it. I'm guessing you've done some research on BDSM? If not then do so, you'll find that there are a LOT of people, male and female, who like being whipped or doing the whipping.
Those men who have their wife,girlfriend ,mistress or even their mother or their wife's friends spank their bottoms are very very fortunate, and lucky to have such a wonderful women to punish them . i wish I had sucha women
Is it right to have my wife whip me?
Yes of course it right, I am her slave, her property. She is at liberty to do whatever she wishes with me. And what's more I enjoy having her punish me, as I know it also gives her great pleasure as well, especially when it is not as punishment for a mistake I have made, but for her own amusement, like the following example.
My Mistress Wife who's property it is my privilege to be said I know you enjoy having me use you for my pleasure just as much as I enjoy using you, however, I
want to find out just how much more enjoyable it is for me when you don't want it, and therefore, I am going to beat you for making a mess on the carpet.
But I haven't I protested.. Oh, but you will She replied, and slapped my face for speaking without Her permission, now get your clothing off, She said, and sit
down there on the floor with your legs wide apart.
She moved forward, and placed Her stocking clad foot on top of my soft penis, pressed it down a little, and began to move it slowly back and forth.
I was unable to prevent my cock from growing bigger, and in no time at all it was fully erect, a firm rampant 7" by 2". She continued to massage it until at I was unable to stop myself from shooting off a huge load of spunk on to the carpet, and the underside of Her silky nylon clad foot.
She must have felt the pulsations, for She stopped, lifted Her foot, ordered me to lie on the floor with my face directly underneath, She then wiped Her foot all over my face and then ordered my to lick the under side of the nylon spotlessly clean, swallowing everything, after which I was to do the same to the carpet.
Then as promised She beat me, which strange as it may seem, I actually enjoyed more than at other times. When she had finished, I did what I know she always requires, and that is to get down on my hands and knees, kiss her feet, and say "Thank you Mistress for the beating"
My pleasure She replied.
Up until about a month ago, it seemed we had a very normal relationship. My wife got upset, over something small, and demanded that I be punished, and I received the hardest spanking I had ever had, in my life. Yes, it made me cry! I have never felt so humiliated, and ashamed. She held me afterwards, and comforted me, but explained that this was going to be "how it is." What do I do?
I have been "turned on" by being spanked since before my earliest memories. Parents had home movies of me at 2 or 3 years old spanking my teddybears. I have exchanged spankings (mostly as foreplay) with nearly every woman I have dated since I was 15 years old... making love afterward with your hands on each other's hot welted bottom is the best! Sometimes when I am horny and my gf isn't, she will pull down my pants, I lay face-down on the bed, and she will paddle or whip my bare bottom until I cum (it takes about 200 to 300 swats to make me cum) Sometimes she will get horny from spanking me, and she will bare her bottom for a good blistering, and we make love afterward. Spanking is also a good way to settle arguments, too. We have given each other permission to spank, and we are obliged to bare our bottoms for whip or paddle, on demand. We might start out angry, but after 5 or 10 minutes of spanking, we are very sore and ready for sex. The argument might not be settled, but the anger is forgotten, and the orgasms are amazing... You should try it!
my wife spanks me when i misbehave. she uses her hairbrush and it really stings. she got her first spanking recently and ended up crying like a little kid.
just the thought of getting spanked turns me on. when i do somthing that upsets her; she loses no time in telling me i am going to have my bottom whipped, she takes me to the bathroom, has me bare my rear end and go across her knees. i then get tanned with her hairbrush. at first it doesnt hurt that much but as the pain builds up i start to cry and beg her to stop. no luck she continues until she decides the punishment fits the crime. i end up in my room with a red hot bottom knowing i will not repeat the offense because its not worth it.
as a child my bottom was spanked often by my father. these whippings were otk,bare, and really hurt. when spanking came up between myself and my wife the solution was a good tanning like the ones we got as kids. it works and we both seem to end up otk when disagreenent s and improper conduct uickly and the air cleared.
consentual spanking works. we each have spanked each other hard whipping otk with a hairbrush when necessary. this hurts a lot but the misdoing is not repeated.
On my 50th b'day my wife had me in my birthday suit over her knee in our living room when her mom unexpectedly walked in on us. She stopped in her tracks taking in the sight before her then asked what we were doing. My wife, without missing a beat told her it was my 50th. I tried getting up but she held me down (both my wife and mother-in-law are bigger than I) and asked where I thought I was going since her mom had already seen her giving me a spanking no reason to hide it now. She then asked my wife if she too could wish me a happy birthday and to my horror said sure and over her knee I went. It was the most humiliating spanking I ever received as a 75 year old woman was able to spank me to tears with just her big strong farm woman hand.
See, that wouldn't fly with me.
For me to be dominant over a guy makes me feel like a man
and him a woman.
thats just not the way it works for me.
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my wife and i have just started to spank each other we both have found it sexually arousing at the moment we just use our hands or my trousers belt only done it three times but found it enjoyable so intend to do it regular with different implements any ideas or advice wecome
In a way I think it is both a little weird and normal. I like to be spanked, but to the point I have welts.
my wife spanks me when i misbehave. she uses her hairbrush and boy does that sting she got her first spanking recently and cried like a little girl.
My Wife Spanks me from early days of our marriage, earlier it uses to be just her hair brush. But one it was a real surprise when i recieved a courier cointaining a Big Leather Bullwhip. Since then whenever i make a mistake she makes me strip and uses the Bullwhip over my bear ass and back mercilessly. It hurts terribely and the welts caused remains for several days.
My cyber-lover likes for me to tell him to spank himself and I make him wear that ass out! Apparently there are so many bad, bad boys out that that want to be punishment. Spank it...spank it real good!
it is exciting to be told to report to our bedroom by my wife. i know what is coming and am fully disrobed when she enters holding the hairbrush which is going to tan my bottom. we have a consentual agreement on spanking for punishment which is very effective. this event properly applied to the backside turns me on initially however as the brush continuos the pain becomes so bad that tears flow and a sore bottom reminds one never to repeat the misdoing
I can see the look in my wifes eyes when I am going to get it. She makes me pull THE chair into the center of the room and stand in front of it till she sits down. The she will tell me to go get the brush, when I come bake and hand her the brush I must then pull down my pants and underware while she explains to me what I did wrong. She taps her lap and over I go. She will not stop till I am bright red and crying. With my pants still down it's off to the corner for half an hour.
the human bottom was designed to sit on it and when necessary be given a spanking. as a child the hairbrush otk bare taught mr a lesson which i didnt forget. after marriage i found that man and wife sometimes misbehave causing long drawn out unpleasant arguments followed by long hours of silence and wasted unresolved settlements. we established an agreement which spanking was used for punishment. this works and is over and done quickly. the recipient will have a few after effects with a red hoy bottom but such treatment sure beats the former process. try it---it works.
I love my fiancé whipping me, she uses a cane, crop ,whip and when she really wants to hurt me a piece of electrical wire.... first she bends over and orders me to lick her bum.... then she orders me to bend over...I lay there in anticipation waiting for the pain of the first stroke....
I wish my wife would spank me,I have only had 2 women who has spank me and one was when I was single. We was lovers and one day after making love we was laying there talking and she asked me if I had any fanastises and I told her I wanted to be spanked so she had me turn over and started to hit my ass with her hand but she said it hurt so she use my belt the first time and she beat my ass til I had welts and brusies all over my ass.Man it felt so good and hurt so much I had trouble holding still. From that day on I got at least one spanking a week or more depending on her mood,We had used switches,paddles and canes. The sex after she spank me was great but we didn't last.Now I;m married I can't have the marks but still like to be spank but now can't find anyone to do it.
How it all began.
My new owner than said, Is there anything you would like to ask me ?
Yes please Mistress, I replied, so far all that you have done has given me pleasure, If I am to demonstrate my devotion, I must cost me something, I must experience pain.
No problem She replied, follow me.
She took me naked down into the cellar, fastened my wrists together, and secured them to a steel hook attached to the ceiling. She then separated my feet and clamped them to the opposite ends of a short wooden beam, after which She covered my mouth with several strips of sticky tape.
All this was done in complete silence. She then left the cellar, and went back up stairs for a while. Leaving me strung up for an indefinite period to contemplate what She would do to me when at last She condescended to return.
On the wall in front of me were erected two large full length mirrors, so that I could see Her behind me as She punished me. This was done with a broad leather belt.
Again this was done in total silence, She never said a single word, and I could not make any sound due to the gag. The only noise to be herd was the sound of the leather belt as it struck my flesh
She took Her time, She was in no hurry. there was as much as ten seconds between each blow. After She has given a dozen or more strokes, She left once more for an unspecified time, before returning to continue my punishment which hurt a great deal.
However, the knowledge that I was completely helpless, unable to move, and totally in Her power for as long as She liked, was joy unspeakable.
When She at last released me, I knelt down in front of Her, to kiss Her feet, and thank Her profusely for what She Had done.
Only when She said “That’s enough” did I stop.
For me punishment is my reward for obedience, a job well done.
My mistress wife who's property it is my privilege to be knows full well that I really enjoy having her beat me, and therefore withholds it if my behaviour is not up to her requirements.
However, when she is pleased with what I have done, she will say "Would you like your to have your reward now".
To which I always reply "Yes please mistress" She then gives me what I long for, when she has finished, I am required to kiss her feet, and thank her several times for the reward she has just given me.
She will then say "Enough, no problem, it's my pleasure"
For me there is no greater enjoyment than to be beaten by my dominant wife for no other reason than it amuses her to do so
I'd say "not very" because it's not commonly enjoyed by most people. But, I think the famous Kinsey Report on sex said that about 5% of people have at least tried it. That means 1 in 20 "normal" people you meet...
Is it that important to be "normal"--whatever that is?"
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/living-single/201111/what-counts-normal
I'm sorry mistake made . I meant to say I wish it was lawful for any women to spank any male she wished to .
I wish is lawful for a women to spank any man she shows whenever she wished
I have been spanked by several dominant women in my life.I allowed them because They all enjoyed it and made sure I was hurting before they stopped. None had remorse or felt sorry and relishied in my well spanked bottom. They all believed that I deserved the discipline and repeated the spankings at regular intervals. i allowed them because I believe in female supremacy and it was their choice to discipline me. I found the most open women that were into BDSM play were massage therapist finding they were quite kinky and wild.
The best and most humiliating day I have had ,was when my wife had me in her pink lace panties and bra over her knee. My panties pulled down and beating my ass with my belt as my two daughters 13 and 15 walked in and saw what there mother was doing to there thought to be big tough guy ,father ,the head of the household and my wife had to explain to them what was going on ,and my daughters learned that day that mommy ran the house and there daddy was a crossdressing sissy ,and the best part was the girls loved it and now give me orders,and picking out panties asnd bras for me to wear around the house ,Sissy Brucie
I think it's normal and I very much enjoy it as well. My wife has been giving me corporal punishment since we were dating. One night while dating she asked me what I though of her spanking me. I said I would like it. She got up went to her closet and took one her belts down from the belt rack. She made lay across the bed bare ass and she spanked me good. Since then we were both hooked. She now has a whole arsenal of implements incluing paddles, crops, straps, floggers, single tails, and recently got long bullwhip.
The very last thing my wife did for me was to give me a birthday spanking when I was 30 years old before she left me. She spanked me so hard my ass was wiggling all over long after she finished. My X-wife and I got together after a 14 year time out. the first thing she wanted to do was take me over her knees and give me a bare bottom bare handed spanking! I agreed and she really gave me a blistering! We dated and spent most of our time exploring femdom fun and having bdsm sessions! Sometime when I visited her place she would make me strip naked and use my own belt for a real hard strapping! I became her slave and she preferred denying me sex because she had turned lesbian but still loved to play!
I was 32 when my wife and I met and a week later I was over her lap getting a bare bottom strapping with my own belt. We practiced physical discipline believing that sparing the rod spoiled the husband. I bought my wife a razor strop which hung proudly in the bathroom for all to see. Whenever my wife announced a whipping I retrived the strop hanging proudly in my bathroom. I would be whipped for misdeeds and also just to see if I would obey her and take and extra hard whipping for her own amusement. She loved making my ass red hot with the strop, feeling the heat afterwards. This discipline made her horny and we always finished with a hot 69 to orgasm. The strop always made me sick to my stomach when I knew she was going to whip me because she whipped me a good 200+ whacks on my ass, thighs, and back. After a whipping when I went out in public or to work i knew she had given me a good one as my ass constantly burned and was sore for several days.
My wife whips me two or three times a week. For poor lovemaking, shoddy housework, if we run out of her favorite sweets or just because she feels like it. This has been going on for ten years. I'm always naked. Once she did it in front of two of her friends who both roared with laughter. She usually uses an electrical flex and makes me kneel across the bed.
If I plead with her to show mercy she just laugphs at me and carries on all the more soI've learnt to just stay quiet and take it. The lashes form patterns on my back, bottom and backs of my legs which stay for several days. She goes out with her friends and leaves me at the house with a huge list of jobs to do. I never finish because the list is always too long but if she's dissatisfied with my progress or the quality of what I've done then I'm for-it when she gets back.
My wife has become very comfortable with spanking me. It wasn't always that way and it's been a slow progression. It's great and intimate and sexy and I love her so much for it.