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I have been thinking about this for quite some time I just want him to drip candle wax all over my nipples but don’t know how to ask him to do it
You could start by asking for more attention to be brought to your nipples.
Try this, “I have a secret desire. I want to tie you up and drip candle wax on your nipples. Mmmmm. But, I don’t get to do this to you until you drip candle wax on me first.” Be sure to speak very very slowly.
That could backfire. I fucking hate nipple play. I don't enjoy sucking or nibbling on my partner's nipples but I'll do it if it's what she wants. Anyone doing things like that my nipples during foreplay is an immediate mood killer
Her partner might be like you. Why don’t you suggest something that would work for you in case he is like you.
Do the low, slow, sexy voice for sure. Talk about how much the idea of turns you on and how just thinking about it brings you close to coming. Describe it in a way that he gets turned on by the thought of doing it to you. Moan and (if you're sitting or laying down when asking this of your partner) maybe writhe or touch yourself a little. Any reservations I might've had would be completely gone if my partner invited me that way to drip candle wax on her. Nipple play is one of things I enjoy giving more than receiving, and a sexy invitation would be more than enough to get me on board
I don't know how normal that is, but is it really so weird that it's hard to talk him about? Is he squicked out by the mere mention of nipples or something? Just go buy a candle, I don't understand what the big deal is.
I've seen it done in porn and I can't see how it's exciting but whatever floats your boat. Get a vid of it and show him when you 2 are having sex and ask him if he's willing to try it.