Tobplay out thoughts
my wife had affair number of years ago we split up then after few years we got back together . but anytime i bring up the subject of why and how all i get is reply of i was a fool or i dont want to talk about it i try to forget it ever happened or iv put it behind me why dont u . well very easy to put it behind u whhen it wasnt done on u and at times i think her replies are easy way out when all i ask is why . am i been wrong should i put it behind me . last time i asked about it she twisted it all around saying i slept with loads when we split up . but i was single then and its different . one night we had a blazing row about me wanting sex and she didnt and i said pity u didnt always say no . i admit i was wrong saying it but her reply was yeah and it was great . really annoyed me she did say sorry n it was heat of the moment . its got to stage during sex i get thoughts in my head wondering did they do this and that