Tobplay out thoughts

my wife had affair number of years ago we split up then after few years we got back together . but anytime i bring up the subject of why and how all i get is reply of i was a fool or i dont want to talk about it i try to forget it ever happened or iv put it behind me why dont u . well very easy to put it behind u whhen it wasnt done on u and at times i think her replies are easy way out when all i ask is why . am i been wrong should i put it behind me . last time i asked about it she twisted it all around saying i slept with loads when we split up . but i was single then and its different . one night we had a blazing row about me wanting sex and she didnt and i said pity u didnt always say no . i admit i was wrong saying it but her reply was yeah and it was great . really annoyed me she did say sorry n it was heat of the moment . its got to stage during sex i get thoughts in my head wondering did they do this and that

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  • olderdude-xx

    Your completely missing the boat an what the real issues likely are.

    I suggest that you get and read the book "The 5 Love Languages" by Gary Chapman.

    You might wish to get her a copy as well (and you will likely both read it at a different rate).

    If you can start to fill her love tanks.... a lot of other issues vanish.

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