Topless in front of bf's friends

Okay.. So I live with my boyfriend, and this one night I got out of bed because I couldn't sleep. I walked downstairs to get something to drink. (I sleep topless) so I was topless when I walked into the living room. And I didn't realise my boyfriends had all of his friends come over. So they all saw my tits. I wanted to go back upstairs but my bf was like 'it's okay' so in the end I felt comfortable and stayed downstairs with them for a while and chatted with them. His friends were staring at my tits for some time but my bf seemed to like it.

Problem is, my bf has asked me to walk in on him and his friends topless again when he has them come over again. I think he likes them seeing my tits, I don't really know why, and I don't know if I should do it again. I don't really mind his friends seeing me topless, but still. Please give me your opinion, is this normal or not?

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69% Normal
Based on 1030 votes (709 yes)
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  • frog_lily

    I see something in the near future.
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    GANGBANG

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    • disthing

      I wish my crystal ball would show me porn once in a while :(

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  • Redcoats

    I wouldn't do it. Sounds like you're breasts are just being paraded around by your bf, that's not cool. But hey, whatever floats your boat

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  • It's like a brag, he's like check out my bitches rack lol.

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  • Sounds like you have absolutely no respect for yourself, and you like any attention you can get.

    If you think your bf's friends thought it was "cool" that you hung out with them while being topless, they did, but they also thought you were a total attention whore, and probably a "closet" real whore as well.

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  • If he asked, and you agreed, then that's that. Do I think it's a good idea? You run the risk of getting pictures taken of you, and maybe one of his friends might think you're just being slutty and take it as his chance to "get you".

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  • Tallie2

    I am a little old to comment on this but I think it is normal and I think its very invigorating. My husband and I were married around the time of the no bra era. He traveled a lot and went to antique clothing stores and bought me see thru nylon blouses. So sheer they were like wearing nothing. We went out almost every day or night and I loved wearing the blouses. Yes I got plenty of looks at my 34B tits. I got many, many more positive comments than negative ones. At home I never wore clothes and I could have sex with anyone I wanted. I only did so with a few friends but only with my husband present.

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  • randyandelizabathaustin

    I don't see a thing wrong with going topless no matter who's around I do all the time

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    It sounds like you didn't mind it either, or you'd not have gotten so comfortable.

    It sounds like you both liked the attention. You because it feels good to be looked at sexually, and him because... well possibly because he likes to watch, or because he can say "yah it's all MINE too".

    If you don't mind... then hell enjoy it.
    Just because they see your breasts doesn't mean it will turn into more than that.

    Unless you both want it to.

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  • audsam

    Please don't do it anymore... Have some self respect :/

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  • Kristen_BC

    Your BF knows your casual habits well...that you are most comfortable topless... So admit it to him! Remember how you stated you even prefer to sleep without a bra or a shirt on... which is very common for most girls, so tell him you also don't mind him seeing your boobs downstairs at night or being seen topless around him. (I also sleep topless too!)
    ( My BF sees and he fondles my breasts alot, its feeling very normal for me now.) Also, you stated that you even felt comfortable around him walking around your home at night without wearing a top, so there's no way you should start wearing tops around your BF anymore. Its just boobies! You shouldn't change your normal habits of being topless at home around him. We All must realize most young people are fine with sunbathing topless and seeing naked breasts around mixed gender, so ofcourse its important that you should continue to comfortably go topless around your BF like you usually would... so Yes, it's normal if he asks you to come downstairs at night to chat with him if he wants when his friends are there.
    Its ok if his friends notice your breasts while your there chatting, its perfectly normal to also chat with them. So
    its obviously normal for them to see your breasts if your BF wants you too ofcourse, so you girls out there, that are reading this and are shy about their breasts, don't focus on whether or not others are noticing you... If you were at a beach destination with friends, you'd be topless having fun with friends and other girls wearing only a bikini bottom too, so there is not a big difference. Your bf should know you really are like most other shy girls because you are not used to it on your first time, but only that you now just realized you are comfortable with him openly seeing and hopefully fondling your breasts (at least sometimes), I know you must like it, like I do! which is normal and that you don't mind going around him at night bare chested without wearing tops at home, which also is normal! Also, your BF is not offended with your toplessness too at all, which is normal for him. So he is showing you that he would be "happy" and not jealous, if you chatted at home with him and his friends, also, which is very normal. Your boyfriend´s preferences are normal, so there is no way you should wear tops around him while relaxing at home, So there is no way you should be wearing a top in front of his friends since he doesn't mind. Thank you kindly for your question and for reading my response. So Yes, it is normal to go topless for your BF.

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  • TitQueen

    My bf loves for his friends to see my tits. He's proud and turned on when they stare.,it makes him happy, so I am happy to do it. And yes, I like it , too!

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  • Mando

    The question is "should I" - not "can I?" Of course you "can" you're an adult, you consented etc.. But you feel uncomfortable enough to ask if you "should" and the answer obviously is no.

    This is not a natural and respectable form of social nudity - such as sunbathing, having a sauna, modelling in art or various forms of naturism.

    This is allowing your husband to sexualize you and put you on display in front of his fellow sleaze-bag buddies. How low. How degrading. That he is manipulating you with your love of him and gullibility to behave this way is disgusting and vulgar.

    They are a group of pigs and he's the worse. Stand up for yourself as a woman. Maybe tell him to ask his mother to do that next time he asks. Your choice is between dignity and being his ho.

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    • Mando

      Oh - just noticed! He's only your boyfriend - not your husband! Geez - you give him that kind of power just as a BF - that's even more pathetic - get out now!

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  • Bigmac69

    Man how I hate sluts

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  • tentacleTherapist

    I don't think you should. Unless you want them to think you're a slut. I would have gone back upstairs if I were you...

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  • iran

    NO, that's not okay unless you like the attention i guess, become a stripper then, but your father, YIKES! You would be in trouble if he found out. You and your BF should be sharing porn with each-other not with his friends, that isn't right at all sorry id find a new bf if he just let you do that, i wouldn't let my girl ever do that purposely, accidents may happen but DON'T make a habit of it.

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  • shuggy-chan

    maybe it a bit of voyeurism interest

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  • topper33

    i think he maybe wants to see you raped or worse. all depends who sees your tits and wants them for there own use.

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    • Ryan556

      Trust me he'd kill um before theyd get that far I would

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      • topper33

        thats good

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        • Ryan556

          Why would he want his friends to fuck her that's just wierd

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          • topper33

            well there is alot of wierd persons out there you have to admite

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            • Ryan556

              Ya and it's a bad day to be alive all the girls in my naberhood are bitching at me I hate girls on there period

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  • smartpatrol11

    I think there is nothing wrong with it. I believe you should also wear short skirts with no knickers and give them a sly flash

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    • theworldsfuked

      pussy, meow :3

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  • Ismiles001

    Normal, sure. Common, probably more so than most are aware.

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  • dudell

    i think it depends on how u feel and ur bf feels, if both ye like it do it. i personally love the thought of it , if my gf was topless or naked in front of my friends it would turn me on so much. she is gorgeous and has great tits and a lovely pussy i want people to see every bit of her.

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  • Ayesh1996

    My gf also smoke with my friends topless. It’s awesome how they peek. Some stare at her tits. Once we were in a hotel balcony and my gf smoking with my friends. She took off her bikini top. After while room boy came and he freezed after seeing my gf tits and I’m sure he had a boner. We laugh about it.

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  • thadtricity

    I used to show off my girlfriend and she loved it! She had beautiful tits. One night I grabbed her and pulled out her tit in front of my friend. His jaw hit the floor! It made her horny as hell! She loved to dress slutty and tease men.

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  • boobygirlie

    Go for it, I so love showing off my boobs. My hubby's friends love my boobs and they so love playing with them too lol

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  • kevin0991

    I think that its sexy I would love my girlfriend to do that because she gorgeous nd I feel very proud of her naked body

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  • eyeamnicegirl

    No, it's not normal. Do what you want, but do know that there is nothing "normal" about being put on display for all your guy's friends.

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  • GandolfoRoad

    Is it normal, no, no it's not.
    Is it wrong? Maybe.
    Your boyfriend likes, but, do you?
    If you don't mind a bit of exhibitionism and your boyfriend and his friends maintain certain boundaries, then enjoy.
    If not, put a stop to it now.

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  • IMissMary

    Walk in naked instead

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  • funbags4me

    its up to you. but if you don't mind it and he doesn't mind it why not roll with it. you to get to have the fun and leave them all hot and heavy when it's time for them to go.

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  • Natzh

    In reply to the original post - well done you. I know where you are coming from

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  • It sounds like you enjoy pleasing your boyfriend and you are willing to do ANYTHING for him. Very admirable.

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  • kathy1992

    After reading some of the replys, ..self esteem issue?? That's a ridiculous thought!! I go topfree at the beach without a problem and that has absolutely nothing to do with having a lack of "self esteem"! If you're already topless and it is your place where you live... correct??? and your bf doesn't care, then it's fine. Seriously, since your bf was supportive that first time,
    unintentional or not, who cares??? I go topfree at the beach with my BF and I feel comfortable with it too.. Sometimes, friends are there at the beach with us..but this is inside your own home!!! So YES, you should continue to feel comfortable topfree and it is completely normal to be topfree inside your own home and that's your business. I don't see why you should have to change your habits around your own home especially when your BF is comfortable with it too! People need to chill out!!

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  • shefali

    I see a gang rape in near future if u agree to ur guy!
    please have a little self esteem for heaven's sake!

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  • yolo

    Women go topless abroad and you are in your own home, but if your boyfriends mates are staring at your tits do you think they are listening to you when you talk, do they take you seriously? I asked my husband this question he said he would not be happy with me walking around with my tits out because it will give them the wrong idea. And he respects me to much to do something like that!! He said it would make me look cheap and slutty and give them the wrong idea and they would probably only come around to look at my tits and not see me as a person. Would you want your boyfriend walking around naked in front of your female friends with them all looking at his penis? Your boyfriend sounds like he is proud of you and wants to flaunt you but you are not an object or a toy. If 1 of your boyfriends mates came on to you, how would your boyfriend react? Probably turn him on, which i think in my opinion is wrong.

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  • plum6

    it is pretty weird but probably just a small sexual fantasy of his, he wants his friends to want you I guess.

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  • Silentnight

    He definitely likes the attention and the look on his friends faces when they see his girlfriend with nice tits, it gives him that guy satisfaction feeling. But if he gets carried away it, it would mean that he is wanting something out of it, like what frog_lily said, a gang bang.

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  • Unimportant

    I want to be your boyfriend's friend.

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  • Couman

    IMHO the first time was actually normal. That kind of random accidental nudity where you decide to just go with it is quite innocent and more or less socially acceptable I'd say.

    But trying to recreate it doesn't work. If you do it again, everybody will know it's fully intentional this time. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that, but you need to make sure it's on your terms.

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  • Reeves

    You seem to be okay with it and your boyfriend seems to be turned on by it. I say no harm,no foul. Go for it.

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  • cupcakes_are_awsome123

    I dont think thats a good idea, what if your boyfriend asks you to go further than just being topless in front of his friends?

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  • prasatko

    Personally, I would never like to show my girlfriend to other men in this way. In fact, I am on the opposite side of the spectrum - if it was possible, I would make her invisible to other men as I am pathologically jealous (I know it is not normal but this is not the case here).

    However, I think that your boyfriend´s preference is normal, or at least there are many men who are the same as him in this respect. If you do not mind it, then why bother?

    You can check out also this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candaulism
    (probably not very accurate, just for basic outline)

    I voted Normal.

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