Trapped in sexless marriage

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My husband does anything I ask of him outside of the bedroom but he can't maintain an erection and he only gets turned on when I play with my pussy, he loses his boner often during sex and watches a lot of those vids were the woman plays with herself. He often makes excuses as to why he doesn't wanna have sex, he's tired, he's stressed etc but will play video games till 3am. I believe he has porn induced erectile dysfunction.

I refuse to play with myself now when he asks me to even though I'm pretty much open minded in bed because I feel like a living version of the women he watches online. We can't even have sex without him going limb and I'm sick of it. We've been married for 3 years in our late 20s and I'm so sexually starved and have cravings it's so unbelievable. I honestly have thoughts of cheating.

Husband makes me feel ugly, undesirable and bad about myself. I'm a former model, tall slim and cute. Am I wrong to be disgusted by him?

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    1 year ago

    You should try telling him this. Tell him this is a serious problem that needs to be sorted out, maybe you could both go to a sex therapist or something.

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    • bigbudchonger
      1 year ago

      Agreed

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  • Curiouskitten444
    1 year ago

    He probably does have porn induced erectile dysfunction. Wouldn't be the first case I've seen. Best to ask if hes willing to go to couples therapy. I totally support people quitting porn. From experience it's made my own sex life much more intimate and sensational.

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  • justme31756
    1 year ago

    LOW T CENTER NEAR U

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  • Orphan
    1 year ago

    Get a few FWB. Just makes sure he's aware of it

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  • Tommythecaty
    1 year ago

    Op refers to their own self as cute.

    🤮

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  • RoseIsabella
    1 year ago

    It's time for y'all to have a conversation.

    *I saw Dr. Phil in my mind as I was typing the above.*

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  • darefu
    1 year ago

    20 something and ed, yep, there is more going on. Porn, gf, lack of attraction to you for some reason, it can be a lot of things. But he should be looking to fix it unless he's okay with a dead bedroom. If so maybe looking for entertainment else where but talk to him and exhaust other means first.

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  • Tinybird
    1 year ago

    Boohoo, I'm never going to be able to have sex ever anyway or marry because of what I find attractive.

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  • newnormal
    1 year ago

    Looks like you're a dude but here goes. If he is not getting a boner it can be a health issue. One thing is see a doctor. Or you can spice his food with boner pills like viagra. This can give him a strong erection. If he is not willing to get help after you discuss it with him then by all means cheat or sleep with someone in front of him. That way he will know his place.

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  • Iambillythemenacetosociety
    1 year ago

    How are you exactly "trapped"? Is he putting a gun to your head and forcing you to stay? If not, I don't see how you're " trapped".

    By the way, just because you think you're cute doesn't mean you actually are.

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  • jethro
    1 year ago

    Maybe he would enjoy watching you have sex with another man. Make him a cuckold. Then he gets his real life porn and you get the sex you want.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    1 year ago

    I dont think its too much to ask that he wants you to play witb your pussy. It shouldnt be that big of a deal. Tell him to go to the doctor and get viagra.

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