Turning wife from prude to slut. please read before voting

This is going to come off as a cuck and maybe there is a little of that. It's really just sexual frustration.

We are an older couple 50+ and for various reason seem to be losing our libedo. I'm visual and touchy feely, like to be playful and turned on for sex.

I hate roll over here, give me that, wam bam thank you, now go to sleep.

Both of us used to be playful, role play, nude beaches, dress up/down, exhibition,tell fantasies of bi or multiple partners, even tryed a couple times but timing or interruptions came up. We have done anal and toys. However, for the last 10 years it been less and less playful.

It's straight intercourse maybe a bj the last five minutes before bedtime. Although it has now been a year and a half since either. She says she is still interested, but timing is an issue.

I even came up with a list of things we/she could do to help wake the drive up. Yes it had some risky, kinky, and multiple partner, things on the list. I'm willing to compromise and replace people with toys, or out of house activities with in house stuff. She said she would consider it. Well that was a year and a half ago. So I guess that was a bad move and I got my answer.

Problem is I'm starting to lose my libedo now, physically not mentally. Things still get up with imagination and night dreams. Everytime I touch or start anything, it's that hurts or it seems like a chore to get her to reciprocate. In turn physically I lose interest, especially when she says "I guess if you must" instant droop.

We had the talk again last month, she said, "she'd consider it". Add to this, I recently found out our adult 30+ bi daughter is into multiple partners, swinging, anal, and deep throat bjs. Everything I've tried for 30 years to get the wife to do. How ironic!

I love my wife, have never cheated on her, always wanted her to be my playmate/play toy not somebody else. Even when I think of another girl it's with her involved. I know, it's been 30 years dude, give it up, it's not going to happen.

The question,
A. Do I just suck it up and move on with life sexually frustrated for however long that may be?
B. Continue trying to move her back from prude to slut or promiscuous.
C. Find something on the side.

Thanks for reading, if you got this far. Sorry so long.