Unruly cat
My boyfriend and I of 6 years moved in with eachother a few months ago...with his unruly cat. I am at my end with this cat and if it were up to me she would have been gone a long time ago but I know how much my boyfriend loves her so I don't have the heart to do that to him. She is awful I mean absolutely awful. First of all jumping up on the kitchen counters or on anything besides the floor and her perches and such is absolutely disgusting. And I will say this, she is very spoiled we spent alot of time and money customising the house for her to have plenty of play and lounge space. I have made the boudries very well know and now it's to the point where that little shit waits for me to go to sleep to destroy shit for me to wake up in the morning to. I have tried the balloon trick, I have tried everything and that thing literally waits for me to leave or sleep so she can tramp her nasty litter box filled paws all over everything, knocks everytbing off all shelves and tables, distributes the garbage all over the floor, and everything else you can think of. At first I thought maybe it was adjusting to a new home and it would pass, no she's getting worse and my patience is wearing very thin and don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I have a wonderful relationship besides his cat and it's to the point where I am avoiding going home because I wonder what I will walk into next. I have an urn that I used to keep on a special shelf close to the ceiling and that cat came close to spreading ashes everywhere yesterday and I'm really starting to lose my shit over here. Tips and suggestions please! I always wondered how someone could hate an innocent animal, well I know now how it's possible.