Vanilla sex is torture, but torture is kinky, iin?
I find vanilla sex - ie just romantic lovemaking in the missionary position - absolutely torturous and boring.
However the fact that it's so torturous and boring sort of attracts me to it, in a sort of self-flagellation sense. It's kinda kinky to me to torture myself in this way.
Is it normal?
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29% Normal
Based on 7 votes
(2 yes)