Was she in the wrong
Hi everyone recently me and my good mate got into a really big fight. I am 22 and she is 34.
What happened was we were going on a night out and meant to meet up. We didn’t meet up in the end because she wouldn’t just ring me and find out we’re I was. I looked everywhere for her. Sending her location to me go try and find her then after I texted I couldn’t find her she just texted what do you mean you couldn’t find me.
The next day I tried texting her again I was sending voice messages on WhatsApp crying because we never got to meet up I was so upset. She didn’t seem to care or reply to my crying she just changed the subject and was just caring about her stuff missing. Not taking my feelings into consideration.
We were meant to be going out to celebrate my graduation as she didn’t make to my actual graduation.
She didn’t reply to me. I went crying to her work place saying she wasn’t reponding and I was worried as I hadn’t heard from her in 2 days.
As this wasn’t like her.
I heard from her after she said her phone, card and ID got robbed. All this would have been prevented if she just rang me and told me where she was. I couldn’t know where she was just by sending her location to me I’m terrible at directions.
She texted me saying she got robbed that’s why she couldn’t text and she got a new phone that day.
I was so upset and started to cry again she replied so rude to me and said her stuff got taken and that I was not ok to go up to her work and start crying she was so angry with me.
I said I was so upset and sorry that i did that but I have feelings and was worried and didn’t know what to do when I didn’t hear back from her.
I miss her so much as a friend and really liked her.
She said the other day she doesn’t have time to be dealing with this that she needs to get her stuff back and sorted and again continued to get cheeky.
I said ok no problem and left it at that.
I have given her a week of space and still no heard from her at all.
She has been posting on Facebook and other social media a lot and more often ever since we fell out.
My mum sent her a message on WhatsApp basically saying she should have no just left me that night it was dangerous and not fair and the way she is carrying on isn’t ok.
She blocked my ma and not me that I do not understand.
Please help I don’t know what to do.
I was thinking of leaving her and saying to her how I am feeling and blocking her and having nothing to do with her anymore.
She had loads of time to get back to me
I am feeling very suicidal because of the way she is going on.
Why didn’t she want to try find me that night, I’m thinking she didn’t want to meet up or she was very drunk while texting me.
She gave me so much support and genuinely cared for me.
Help a girl out do I save this friendship or end it.
She sounds so fake | 1 | |
She clearly wants nothing to do with you get her out of your life | 4 | |
Message her and block her | 1 | |
Text her how you feel and see her response take the risk | 0 | |
She’s not even worth getting back friends | 1 | |
Give her more time do nothing wait for a possible text | 1 |