Watching my wife

I think its a normal feeling for a man to have. Many men have it, not many couples act on it, because the wife doesn't want to, or the husband would get jealous in real life.

I would love to watch my wife fuck another man. Not just any guy. I am about average; 6 inch penis. I want to see her fuck a man with a large penis, at least 9 or 10 inches. I want her to experience feeling a huge cock. i want to see the look on her face as he fucks her in places I can't reach, and makes her come. It is just sex, she still loves me, but I want her to feel how good a huge cock feels inside her.

I have finally come to the realization that the thought of my wife having sex with another man excites me. I thought I was insane and completely alone until I found this site and started reading some of the posts here. my fantasies about this are not as extreme as some of what I have read here, and I still have alot of fear about the aftermath. I have masturbated many times thinking about the men my wife has been with before, and often times imagine them doing to her what I am doing while we are having sex. My feelings are unexplainable. I am jealous, angry, hurt but very excited and turned on at the same time. I told her to go with another man a few nights ago and she finally did. At first I was hurt, but I was actually getting aroused when she told me what she did. We have still not made the decision for her to do it in front of me, but I am starting to think more about it. We love each other very very much, but we enjoy unusual sex at times. Our sex life is wonderful, but this fantasy is growing more in my head by the day. I have watched her with women several times and it was great, but my wife is obviously more attracted to men. I don't know why I am so aroused at the thought of my wife having sex with other people. For those who have done this, did it strengthen your relationship or did it damage it? Any advice anyone can give me would be appreciated. It is good at least to know that I am not alone.

Guys like me, like guys like you... and their wives.

Perfectly NORMAL. My wife is 39 and over the past 10 years her sexual horizons have continued to climb. Our situation is a bit different in the way I have no desire to watch or take part in 3somes, 4somes or any other combo. She is free to explore as she see fit but no secrets are kept. She has experienced over a hundred lovers in that time spaning thru-out the sexual spectrum. Her resume incompasses every man from passionate caring lover to a cadre of dominate masters. She tends to drift off in that later group more so than not but thats ok. It's not for all knowing your wife of nearly 20 years has been taken to some undergroug BDSM club in Manhattan. It is however admittedly bizzarly exciting knowing of the unknown that is taking place w/ someone you love deeply.

My thing is business of which I run two. Time these days to keep it running & profitable is difficult to accrue for both. Giving her freedom to enjoy all life has to offer is a necessity. Trust between two people is of the utmost importance.

Yes it can work - maybe you have to be a little creative about it. My GF wanted to, but was really, really shy about it.

We absolutely love it now. It happened to her quite by suprise one night (kind of). After tying her up and blindfolding her as usual (we love that), this time I quietly snuck in our neighbor (someone she absolutely adores and is always flirting with!!) and let him take my place and have sex with her. I had 'coached' him a little a week before so he knew exacly what to do to have her unconscious within minutes!! He did everything imaginable to her - it was fantastic! He was literally on her for over an hour and she was completely out of her mind with passion - it was unbelievable. When I told her she got so turned on it was crazy she wanted more with someone new. She still wants to be tied and blindfolded so the other guy thinks she doesn't know the switch has taken place - is she naughty or what!! The crazy thing is that everyone wins!

yes I wouldn't tell you family. I'd say it's a private matter and I think you're a very lucky man. Wanting to watch your wife with other men is a very common fantasy and you're lucky that your wife is keen to please you by tucking in.

As a professional massage therapist who, as a sideline does erotic massages for married women with their husbands present, I can tell you that this is very normal. Of the couples I've worked with in this specific area (mostly from out of town) the massage almost invariably leads to full sexual intercourse between myself and the wife with the husband sometimes participating but generally just encouraging. After more than 75 of these sessions, I conclude that both the husbands and wives are totally normal and view this more as an extesion of their love and trust in each other than anything else. These clients are from all walks of life and range from the very young (one couple was in their early 20s) to the somewhat elderly (one couple was in their 70s). For most, this would be a once in a lifetime event which would leave them with highly erotic memories for a lifetime....the memory of watching a loving and faithful wife wantonly and enthusiastically fucking another man's cock directly in front of her husband. I suspect if you asked 10 totally honest men, at least 9 would tell you that the idea of watching his wife give up her vagina to pleasure another man's penis, as long as the event was with the husband's consent and also for the husband's excitement, excites the hell out of them.

Can some one help me get my wife fucked.

Yes you are normal, I get a real kick out of watching my wife with other men, I am not a cuckold, she will ask for my permision first and she shows total respect, and some times i join in at the end, it is a very big turn on for me, my wife loves doing it so why stop her, most people don't understand so it is simple don't tell any one, you only live once in this place, and it is over very quickly, so take the moment and keep it private, we don't use swingers clubs, we seek out on other sites, and always play away from home, good luck, get the most from it....Kev

Normal? I don't know but I know I love for my wife to fuck other guys. There is a certain amount of jealousy in there and I think that's part of the excitement, kind of like skydiving. But if there was not even a hint of jealousy, then I don't think the thrill would be there. My wife is out, as we speak, having sex with another guy. She'll tell me all about it when she gets home. I'm trying to get her to do a gang bang, we'll see? Sick? Maybe. Fun? oh hell yes!!

When I was fifteen I had a boyfriend who SAID that he would like to see me with other guys.

Like a fool (And I was) I went along. First one guy, then (on different occations) another, another and then two at once while he watched.

Went on for about six months, THEN I got hold of his cell phone one day and read a few texts. Turns out the bastard was pimping me out!

That ended that.

Tobra - STILL PISSED!

When my husband first wanted to watch me... I couldn't believe it. I was offended. But I was hot to feel another man and didn't want to cheat. This was hot when we did it. But I also go and dates and tell him about it as we have sex. That is really hot for both of us. I suggest you try it both ways. I prefer the dates... so sometimes I bring them home if the guy is receptive to it. How I do that is a whole other story. I am the last woman you would think would do this.. but it is incredible sex.

When after approx 10 years of marriage I told my wife I wanted her to fuck another man, it didn't go down as well as I'd hoped! But, after several years of nagging her she agreed to do it. I found a guy through a website, booked a hotel room, and a week later watched as he gave her the sort of fucking I'd been dreaming about! That experience broke her in, and demonstrated to her that this was an ok thing for us to do, under certain conditions. I don't really care whether it is normal or not, because I came to realise that it felt right for me and that's all that mattered. Other guys with big cocks fuck her (and I watch), but I'm the one that cuddles her, loves her and makes love to her. We all know that women can fuck several men in succession, and truth be known,I want the woman in my life to have that experience once in a while, and she does, and we're cool about it.

This took us years to finally do, we've done it and it is great. I too love seeing give and get pleasure. It is extremely exciting, I video taped it and watch it often. We are now into swinging and have had some great experiences, we went to a 'swing' party recently and I got to see her in action. We finished at about 3:00 am and went home and were both super excited and had great sex afterwards. It was an extreme thrill having sex with her after a night of her having sex. I recommend it to couples who are 'both' into it.

i too have the same fantasy. i realy love my wife moy but i would love to see her in action with another man. we have been together alot of years and the fantasy still persists and the more i think about it the more it turns me on. I sometimes wonder if im sick in the head? all i know is if my wife got dirty with another man it would drive me crazy with lust for her and the thought realy gets me horny. I dont know why this is i sometimes feel a hint of jelousy but the sexy part of it is i would like to see her do this and to watch her with another man is the ultimate fantasy. even the thought of sleeping with other women doesnt bother me because im happy with moy but i cant get rid of this fantasy. I worry she will think i dont love her and the truth is i do and always will and if i allowed her to do this i couldnt ever blame her if i didnt like the reality. truth is i think this is something i can be happy with as its only her i have ever had this feeling about and no one else will do and so i would love to see her get down and dirty with another man. I would even have a threesome but I would not touch the other guy because that would be a big turn off for me! at the end of the day she changed her mind and wouldnt do it and i respect that but how i would love for her to.

i am also one of these husbands who enjoys the thought of his wife passionately having wild sex with another man. im not bisexual nor want anything to do with the man nor want to be with another woman since a lot of wives feel thats what we may want but actually its a very unselfish thought of us where the wife would simply enjoy herself ?? my wife however is very conservative so bringing this fantasy up hasnt been easy ?? Suggestions ??

you are a very lucky man to have a wife who lets you watch her with other men .there are hundreds of men who envy you i wish my wife would. do it with another man so i could watch yours roger

I wish my husband would have the same fantisies as all of you! I have them myself....especially since he never wants to have sex. I'm not bragging but I'm a very good looking women & have always had men flirting w/me & presueing me. I'd have no trouble finding someone & at the rate he doesn't want to I'm afraid I'm going to go out & end up seeing/screwing someone anyway. I'm 5'7", 120lbs w/long brown hair. For my body size I have rather large breast. Before anyone says why don't I talk to him....I have so many times I've lost count. I'm in my early 40's & he's 12yrs older than me. I'm @ my sexual peak & want it all the time. He doesn't care & thinks I'm supose to deal I guess. Yes I have my toys but that only goes so far for so long. I want the real thing. I'd like a dick up me instead of all the toys sometimes. I'm sitting here trying to think the last time he f@#!%d me & honestly can't remember. I know it's been 2 months prob. That's 59 days to long if you ask me. I can walk around the house in my sexy pj's hoping that'll "get a rise" out of him but no such luck. What's the deal? Any idea's? I've stayed faithful for our entire marraige but I'm scared that's gonna change if something doesn't change w/our sex life! I'm up for any suggestions!

I have the same fantasy,my wife wants to have another guy and have me watch to make sure that she is safe.She also wants me to have another guys wife.She said that would be her ultimate fantasy,but she wants to just go with the flow no pre planning.She said she might even want to swap partners in the same bed.

My ex husband of 23 years, whom I am still close to. We split because he wanted to live somewhere I didn't so he moved! Anyway, We were married about eight years when during sex he whispered in my ear how much it excites him imagining me fucking another guy. I said NO! This went on every so often for the next 3 years when on one occasion I was seriously aroused and about to orgasm and he asked me again and I said I would. I did and he loved it! I could not believe it! For me it was sixteen years of fantasy! taken out to dinner, drinks, dancing and hot sex! I would come home and the house would be spotless! Then I would lie down on our bed and he would clean my soaked pussy! I miss it!

yes enjoy sloppy seconds

Hey, there is not much more I could add about how I feel about this as everyone has covered most of how I feel. I love the idea of my wife being with someone else even with out me there. It's so exciting. My wife has given me a hall pass for a week in one week so I told her that I want her to be with another guy aswel but she says she's not interested in sleeping with someone else. I think it would be different when she's drunk. Is there anything I can do or say to her that would make her feel as excited about this like me?

I have to tell you that I think it is very normal. I love to watch other men watch my wife in a lot of different settings. Most of all I enjoy watching my wife being fucked by other men and often women.

My first experience came one New Years Night where she drank a lot of different mixed drinks and got blow away. When I got her to the hotel room she stripped and went out onto the balconey and got severl mens attention that were in the parking lot. She laughed bounced her tits and came back into the room. I had shed myself of my clothes and pushed her to the floor where I fucked her harder and deeper than I ever had before. After I finished, she told me to do it again. I could not at that moment. She got several beer bottles and started to fucker herself with them and I took the opportunity to ask her if she wanted me to go out and get another guy. She looked at me and asked "would you enjoy that" I said "yes I would love it". She paused for about two minutes and then looked at me and told me to go out and find soneone with a big thick dick and bring him back to the room.

I left and approached a guy in the bar next to the motel and he agreed but said he had a friend with him. I thought if one was good two would be better and if she resisted it would be easier to control her with three of us.

We got back into the room and she was on the bed totally nude and semi asleep. I told them to have fun with her and that they could do anything they wanted to her. She woke up while the first guy was entering her pussy and the second guy was parting the lips of her mouth with his dick. She did not resist and they both dumpped loads deep into her. As they got off of her she pulled one down to her and told him to do it again but harder and longer. I decided to join so all three of us filled all of her holes. Her ass jerked and twisted as she was being fucked in her pussy and asshole at the same time. This rotation when on for about four hours until we all were exausted.

She woke up about 11 A.M. the next day and we left the motel and went to eat. On the way home she asked me what happened to her last night and I told her to just think about it but that she should realize that she would most likely never be satisfied that way again. She still asks me even though I have told her all the wonderful details.

I am trying to get her to do it again because that was the most exciting time of my sexual life with my wife. I still use it as a turn on when we make love.

We've been together 25 years, and I've watched her make love to others, several times. She’s blond, blues eyes, petite, 5’3”, 110lbs and very, very pretty. She turns her share of heads. It never gets old. I get to enjoy her presence all day as we also work together in a home-office.
I've watched her when I knew she had no clue I was watching such as when we drove down to a Mexico coastal condo with another couple. We were there no longer than an hour and she and the other wife were at each other on the floor for their first time while us husbands watched from the kitchen bar stools. There was also a hot tub a couple hundred feet away under the windows of the complex's bar. I was tired and wanted to take a snooze. The three of them walked to the spa and had no idea I had followed them and watched from a short distance. It was especially erotic knowing that if someone was near the windows of the bar, they could look straight down and see her and the couple. I watched as he sank his cock in her for his first time and as they fucked while his wife sat in the tub and masturbated while she watched from just a few feet away. It was voyeur watching voyeur watching my with and him. It was a rush and a half.
The fun came when they decided it was time to return to the condo and I had to high-tail it back with a raging hard-on, and then catch my breath before they walked in. I pretended to still be asleep as they came in and continued their play. After a few minutes I snuck out of bed to a spot where I could watch. I think it was the other wife who noticed me standing near the doorway and whispered something to my wife. She turned her head toward me for a second and gave me a sheepish grin and then continued with their play. I remember vividly to this day and use that memory while jerking off.
We've been in the "lifestyle" since before the Mexico trip and have had many occasions to watch each other in many situations. We've never had a problem.
One fantasy I have is to catch her with either a guy or a girl when she had no idea I be there.
We're very secure in our relationship and I'm confident she knows there is no possibility of me becoming attached to anyone else.

hello my name is james me and my wife recently descussed this topic and are more than willing to do this , but we have no idea on how to go about finding someone to forfill our needs...........can anyone help us i live in virginia

Your a ver lucky man, I wish my wife was as open minded as yours.

Hey man,

Don't sweat it. I'm a bi man in a very loving relationship with my lady who I've been with for three years. Catch is. you see that bi part? We lost our 3-some v-card over a year ago, and I found LOVE watching her. Sometimes this is helped by the male also being bi-sexual but our most regular "extra" partner is straight as a rod (to all you homophobes out there don't worry gay isn't contagious and i can play with her around straight guys and not uncontrollably attack him) and I love him being a part of our experience.

My biggest tip as you get more and more comfy with this idea is keep an open line of communication, don't be afraid to set boundries, and do some research you are far from alone.

There have been a couple j*ckbut comments/replies to this (i.e. calling you gay, etc.) ignore these. I believe it just shows your devotion to your wife's pleasure.

I mean obviously I'm a layman and no shrink but I know from my experience that, while not for everyone, it's a wonderful thing. Many people also seem to think that a 3-sum etc. is a reflection on the status of the relationship (i.e. one partner isn't doing their job). But this is ridiculous. Many of us men (as I'm sure the OP does) finds their partner's pleasure extremely erotic and fulfilling. Your are not only enjoying yourself but by keeping an open-mind you are being generous and loving through this, albeit naughty, and I wish you both the best of luck.

- To infinity and beyond

If the truth were known proberbly more than 50% of guys would like to watch their wife being f**ked by another guy and like me they have a guy in particular that would let f**k their wife,I am one of the lucky ones I have a guy a guy fucking my wife occasionally...

Best thing in the world is to watch your wife take another guy's load

I have read a lot of these comments although not all as some appear to be gratuitous story telling and most probably fantasy.

Having said that, there is nothing wrong with fantasy, but just don't expect that everyone 'secretly' wants this. There are very many couples who do not involve others in their sexual activities because; they don't wish too! If your partner is willing then fine, but you should not expect it and therefore feel disappointed when your partner doesn't cave into your pressure for her to be unfaithful, albeit with your permission.

For some this can mean the end of a relationship, or can cause an unnatural strain on the sexual side of the relationship. Sometimes it can be great to make what you already have be fun and exciting, sex doesn't have to involve extra people in real life.

What you need to understand is that in a genuinely loving relationship many women cannot separate sex from making love and forcing them to do that is destructive and confusing. I am not denying some women do have this ability, but it is not as common as you would like to think it is (has the fact that a number of the women appear to 'not remember anything' or the fact that you kept part of what happened a secret, not given you a clue?).

Basically, keep it as a fantasy where it belongs, unless you are both in agreement right from the start.

I have watched my wife have sex with 2 other men while I fucked her from behind. It is really a turn-on! I don't know why I get so excited by seeing my wife suck off two cocks. Is it why I want to have these cocks inside my mouth, but am too shy, or is it too much of a turn on to see her suck off the cum shot off in her mouth while my cock is stroking off in her cunt?

Oh, just want to make sure you all understand I don't allow all men to ejaculate in me. Just the ones I date and feel close enough to after many time together. Just like dating in the real world. But my husband does love when I feel comfortable allowing it to happen. It spikes our already hot love life. He calls it an added bonus.

My husband enjoys hearing about my date fun. For me it is just great sex. A win win.

My wife is being fucked by another man right now. She's been out for 5 hours. This is the first time we've done this. Got to say my heart is racing. Can't wait for her to get home.

My wife, Sarah, has been with her lover only three times in the last six months; the first two times was with me watching and participating a bit; the last time she went with him at his house and only told me about it afterwards. I don't know why, but the date and hearing all about it afterwards along with lots of loving was the biggest turn on for me. I can't wait for her to "date" him or another guy again... Soooooo hot!

Very Normal...If you loves your wife too much.

The idea has always excited me.
Have you tried topless beaches?

I love watching others appreciate her beauty.

Its normal....dont sweat it.

My wife amd I talked about it for a few years. I asked her if she would. She said yes. So I had a friend cone over her had his eyes always on her chest or ass. So I decided he was the one. I left and he was to come over and I was late coming home.Ha ha. So she put her legs apart and let hi get a long look at her pantie covered pussy. It did not take long. When her tits "acidently showed a little later, every thing was a go. Watching him mome over to where she was seated and then him making love to her beautiful breast and then pull her panties down and start to lick away at her pussynwas a rush plus. The they both stood up. I had told her only do what she wanted. So seeing her standing there and her being caressed allove while she held on to hes very hard thick and longer than my cock excited me.Then she pushed him back to the sofa and she sat on his cock. It was a rush seeing that thick cock slide all the way in her tight pussy. She rode him like a pony. S

i also fantasize my gf getting fucked by others. even i imagine all her 3 holes filled with cock at the same time. i want to do this in real but i dont know how. she lives in mumbai.

I had the same fantasy for years and would talk about it as my wife and I made love. One day on a weekend getaway I told my wife I had a big adventure planned, we were going to visit a swingers club. To my surprise she said "sure". I will shorten this story quite a bit, we met a guy that night who came up and kissed my wife's hand and asked her if she would give him a blow job! She replied, I'm not ready for that yet. Later the same guy came back and introduced her to his friends, one of which got down and started blowing him right in front of my wife. He said to my wife, "I bet you haven't seen anything like this before close up have you?" and then took my wifes had and put it on the back of the girls head and the other on his ass. Then he had my wife pull her head on his dick back and forth while visiting naturally with my wife. Later that night we visited a back play area and sat on a couch watching others fuck and suck. After a few minutes our friend came up dressed in nothing but his boxers and sat on the couch next to me and visited with us about our experience. All of a sudden he turned to my wife and said "you have very nice tits" to which I replied, "do you want to see"? Without a word he moved to her other side and began sucking on her nipple. I responded by pulling down her dress on my side sucking on the other. It felt weird as we both sucked and our beards scratched each other! Within a minute or two he was down between her legs licking her leg and working his fingers into her clit. She held her hand there looking to see what I would do. When she saw I was ok with it she removed her had and let him move into position and started licking her pussy.

I have to say I was in heaven while I sucked on her tit and watched him and then her reaction to all that was happening to her. She started to breath heavily and I knew she wasn't going to last much longer. Then all of a sudden he stopped. I told him to "get back down there as she was about to cum" and he quickly moved back into position and began licking her for all he was worth. I took her hands and placed them on his head and then went back to sucking her breast. In short order she began having powerful orgasms. When she finished she smiled at him and he moved up to start kissing her and I moved down to lick up her juices while watching the two of them from below. They kissed, he suck on her tits some more and then the next then I knew she was stroking his cock while watching me lick her pussy. It was unbelievably awesome for me. She didn't suck on his dick or go any further, but the night was still surreal. I have finally achieved my fantasy, and so did my wife.

It's your personal sex life, so why would you even mention this to your family?!

Anywho . . . If it makes both of you happy, it really shouldn't matter what your friends and relatives think.

Sorry guys and girls. I know some have asked me questions about my experiences, Well, we are still doing it and we still enjoy it tremendously. Our sex is incredible. For me it is incredible with or without my husband. LOL. When I date, I love telling my husband about my adventure as much as having a hot date. And I still love having him there watching. What do I like more. I think for me personally, going out on dates is very exciting and hot. I usually only go out with guys I am very attracted to. Being seduced and the excitement of being 16 again makes me feel alive and hot. When we meet couples or single men, it is great but different. Love having him there but it takes a little while for me to relax and enjoy myself. Don't know why, and may never know why. But he loves "sloppy seconds" as they call it and frankly now so do I. I still can't believe I can have two men ejaculate in me on the same day. It is just so exciting. My initial battle was with myself, my christian upbringing, not wanting to be a "loose woman" or unfaithful. Now the thoughts are never in my mind. I am an adult and I make good decisions that are good for us. Nothing wrong with enjoying sex with the man or men you choose. And it is not wrong. He loves it as much or more than I do. Before we started this, our sex life was barely alive. Now, it is very much alive and maybe better then ever. I just can't believe that I am so happy with sex again. And he is too. We are both living our dreams and fantasies. I will be more specific if you ask.
Thanks

Would you mind watching me shaft your wife. I'd like to watch you watching me and see your facial expressions when I cum in her pussy. I'd love to see your smile as I take my dripping dick from her pulsating pussy.

My wife and I did this several times with my best friend, she got really insecure afterwards, maybe because she suspects he and I were up to something else, which we were !! we met seperately and sucked each others cocks until we swallowed each others cum, neither he or I saw that coming, it just happened one day at his house during the game, I still get hard thinking about that, AND thinking about my wfe fuck other men in front of me...I wanna suck cock while it fucks my wife's pussy !!

It's a huge turn on to think about my wife getting screwed by another guy or girl.

Our fantasy in bed began years back and was about a threesome with another girl. The fantasy became real about 5 years ago and since then when we travel, we try to find an attractive girl to hook up with. My wife is very attractive with a sexy body and other girls find her very attractive.

We've had about 15 threesomes these past five
years, have filmed them and sometimes watch them which is also a big turn on.

Anyway, my wife recently said that, after all the girl threesomes we've had, she now wants to get screwed by a different cock and wants me to film it and join in if my want (but noy with the guy).

She is due her turn...I'm just wondering how things might change or how we both will feel afterwards. I'm guessing not much different than the girl threesomes.

Any advice?

I love every aspect of it... The look on her face, the lust, and the jealousy which I use as a tool to get even more turned on. We tried it on vacation for the first time about 10 years ago and it was the perfect spice we needed. Our already hot sex life became even more crazy. We did it 4 or 5 times again since, and every time we did it, it got better. No rules, no boundaries, I let the guy do as he pleases with her. he can kiss her, he slap here around if she lets him, he can penetrate wherever he wants, and He can ejaculate wherever he wants. The only stipulation is that the guy must have a bigger penis than mine (the larger the batter). This is not for weak or insecure people. You must walk in it understanding that this just sex and walk out unscathed.

Don't know what the previous commenter is on about, but back to the subject:

I constantly fantasize about my wife working her hips on another man's cock. She has been faithful throughout the last twenty years, but has confessed that a previous lover, an older man who actually was her first; had continued to fuck her occasionally even after we were married. She says she loves sex with me, but at that time in her life she just couldn't help herself with him (she says he was 'rather large'!!!). So now the thought of her and this old man and what she did with him really turns me on.

ihope that my wife an i can get to try this

I'm interested in doing the same thing with my wife and she might (maybe) be interested as well. But I'm not sure how we go about apporaching it? I mean, she could probably go into a bar and sit by herself and get picked up and act like she's interested in something, but then how would you broach the subject of being married but still willing to do something so long as he's willing to have me be in the room?

There's at least another recent post on this same topic. It is completely normal but best kept private since society hasn't yet fully accepted this lifestyle. Swingers participate in exactly what you enjoy and have grown in popularity in recent years. There are many clubs worldwide that engage in such swapping/sharing with other couples. Do a google search and numerous clubs will pop up. It isn't as unusual as it used to be.

Lordy, Lordy......I can honestly say that my marriage lasted as long as it did because I let & even encouraged my wife to screw other guys in front of me. (We were married for 29 yrs) Divorced over other things. If you would like to read a little about our experiences check my profile ( my cumming ) here on IIN.

This should be called: "this is my fantasy", never laughed so much at all this crap. Get a real relationship you know the one, where love is part of it? Where marriage vows are meant? Where being faithful means something?

And you women in here, get a real man who can satisfy you, then you won't need an 'outsider'. And if your man can't get it up, there are other ways to have a satisfying sexual experience with him.

It's like sex has become the total focus of your lives, not a way to express your feelings for each other.

I totally support 8serene8's and spicemix's comments, says it all really.

Yes, I fantasise about watching my wife have sex with another guy. First I would like to see him slowly undress her, then to caress her breasts and pussy, and for her to lick and suck his c*ck. But so far have'nt plucked up courage to suggest it. How do I persuade her? Any tips?

my second wife was a whore when i met her. that was what excited me.

Can someone introduce me to those who wants their wives being fucked....i wanna fuck a young woman and make her cum....drop me a msg

what i want to know is do you get to have sex with other women as well or is this one sided

Watching your wife being fucked by another man is an amazing experience. First of all, you suddenly realize that you no longer look at her as your possession that you should jealously protect. She is just like you a person with fantasies and desires. Secondly, she starts to appreciate you as well as your relationship more because she knows that you love her and want to see her happy. Finally, it is a liberating experiences. Suddenly you look at life differently and start to enjoy it more because you realize that it goes by so quickly. For those of you who are curious to try it out - I would like to say go for it! But please first work on your jealousy.

I don't understand how any man can want this. Most men are naturally competitive with eachother and very jealous so...

I think this is more of a fetish for people to jerk off too than to actually participate in.

I feel bad for anyone who has this fetish in real life, because if their wife is participating they don't respect you as a lover.

what will u do if she gets pregnant by another man by chance.......

no..its not normal...why in the world would anyone share his wife..whats the use of marriage then!!!!

I have been married twice and both my wives liked being had by other men. I watched and joined in on a lot of the time. They both liked to let other men look at their bodies.
My first wife liked more than one man at a time. Her favorite was five that way she could have every hole filled and her hands full. It was really sexual watching her enjoying herself. She got more enjoyment when her boyfriends left and she had me in all the holes they were just in.
My second wife liked to go out and seduce some man and come home with a full load in her, and have me go down on her while she told me about her evening.
A woman's pussy is really hot just after she has been with a man with a large penis.

I would love to see my gf with other men. The more guys and the bigger their dicks the better. I love her very much but I feel maybe my cock isn't enough. I'd love to watch but if she won't let me I don't care, I just want to know she is being filled in all her holes at the same time. I think watching her pussy being filled with a cock twice the size as mine would be so exciting. The thing is, I don't know if she'll be willing. Help!

I would like to witness my wife is being fucked by another man. I want to see her moan when she cums because of another guy's cock. Am I okay?

i am 31 yrs old and my penis is about 6 inches. i had dreams that one of my acquainted men much older than me and my wife was fucking her in his house. i fantacized about the same and masterbated. my wife has a good figure but small boobs. i keep fantacizing about ny wife naked with that older man. having dreamt about the same many times i one day talked about the same to my wife and asked her if she would call that man for an intercourse at an apartment and i would see them from the wardrobe. she is actually confused. i think that sometimes she wants to be fucked by that man and sometimes she is hesitant. i really want to see my wife fucked by that older man. what do i do?

I find it extremely erotic when my wife makes love with other men. I love her and am pleased when she has enjoyed herself with other people.
Sexual intimacy is probably the most intense pleasure in life and i love her to receive love and sexual pleasure from others.
I am proud of her, she is her own woman and if she wants sexual intimacy with others why should i deny her.

I would never have thought of ever watching my wife have sex with other men, but one night while we were having sex she wanted to use her dildo while we had sex, this really aroused me & we discussed the thought of bringing other people to the bedroom, we tried it with someone we know & it turned out to be a nice erotic experience, only bad thing was my wife got way too drunk & doesn't remember some of what happened that night. Were trying to bring a girl into the mix now but we haven't found someone willing. Overall I enjoyed it & would do it again, I enjoyed it so much that now I only enjoy watching DP porn now.

me too,i have the fantasy for 6 years,and i told her as well,she thinks i am mad,but she don't mind that.she has kissed a man 5 years agao,sometimes she was told me how did he met her,and kissed her feld her ass in the car,he was trying to feel her pussy,but she was stopped him,but she never have done anything further then that,once was very close,he took his cock out,and put her hand on it,and she got a shock,and took her hand back,her pussy getting wet... when she was home,the frist thing she did was changing her knicker...i asked her what was going on ,she still say they didn't do anything...so....i only pertanted what was happened in my mind...she said she won't do that,but i don't kow why she was weared sexy knicker go to work all the time..i don't mind she do that behind me,just need her to tell me what is the story about their sex after..or any other men she likes..

It's so erotic watching my wife get other guys off. I love it. I love telling her to slow down when he gets close so it's prolonged. I love the intense look on her face when she knows he's close.

Very normal. I love watching my wife with other men, especially when they cum inside her.

Wow, interesting reads. I fantasize all the time about watching my wife having sex with another man in front of me, but not really too sure what I would feel like afterwards. In the heat of the moment it would be great, but afterwards? I'm not so sure.

I don't think either of us would feel comfortable with anybody we know or in our neighbourhood, but maybe on holiday in a different place I was thinking of hiring a male stud to sort the wife out?

Please advise your thoughts.

Well! its interesting to know that u too. I think its not bad if she also likes it. Unfortunately I cant disclose my desires to my wife as she is very religeous. tell me what I should do? Any idea?

are you guys serious? im sorry but this is very fucked up! is it normal to fantasize about these things? totally, to act on them? mmm not really! you men go on a rant about how much you love your wife blah, blah, blah and then promptly proceed to disclose the most disrespectful details of your "free porn" possibly made up stories. some of the above stories sound like nothing more then a selfish pig of a man pimping out his wife like a piece of meat to his buddies. and the stories about your wives taking sleeping pills or being drunk at the time and not remembering what they did, disgusting! you seriously call that love? thats not love that's lust, the most fucked up kind of lust ever! my husband and i are very happy together, and we have a beyond fantastic sex life one that isn't only kinky, sexy and wild but is also filled with love and respect. and you wanna know what turns him on the most? watching me get hit on by men who think they actually have a chance and watching me shoot them down. thats what drives him crazy, knowing that i could if i wanted to but dont because my man is the sexiest man alive and no other man could ever measure up. ladies you should be ashamed for letting your guy convince you to partake in such dirty affairs! you people say thats normal? i say maybe if you act like an animal you should be treated like one. only animals have no regard for what they do. people like you are the reason the world is riddled with sexual diseases, all you care about is sex and have no respect for your bodies and taking care of them, and no respect for each other. and you say your relationships last so long because both parties are willing to whore around? bullshit, your relationships are probably just to stuck in this sexual perversion you call 'normal' to go anywhere. if you want to see your wife having sex, get a big mirror and put it by your bed so you can watch yourselves, or grab a camera and film it, that's what we do and its safe, sexy, and very enjoyable. fantasizing is normal, acting on those fantasies can be dangerous, hurtful, and ultimately ruin what could have been a beautiful relationship. i complain about the manly ways of my husband from time to time, but stumbling across this discussion made me feel so lucky and grateful that at least he's not a disrespectful pig!

I like for my wife to fuck my buddies but the main reason is so that I can suck their dicks. My main suck bud and I thought this would be a way for us to be able to suck dick without having to sneak around. He likes to fuck her and I like to suck his dick. I'd rather suck him than fuck her.

Reading this comments made me realise that the world is coming to an end and people are really getting insane...I am not very religious, i really love sex but some fantasies must be kept fantasy..I can't imagine someone who really love his wife to feel cool by another guy fucking her...I am sorry, partners who involve in this act are either PERVERTS, GAYS, LOSERS who cannot satisfy their wifes or THOSE THAT DOESN'T LOVE THEIR WIFES...I can't imagine the type of advice u would have given ur children if they have a relationship problem with their love ones...

i have been married two times. when i was with my first wife i got her to go a nudist camp even though she was very shy. i liked the folks there seeing her nude. later i go her to take off her top on a beach at panama city, fl and walk down the beach . she left her top with our towels and i could tell she was getting off on showing her breasts. some frat boys came up and talked with us and when they were leaving one of them asked to hugh my wife bye. when he did he slid his hands onto her breasts and she was moaning. he sucked her tits and she loved it. another time, several yrs. later we were having a party at our condo and one of the chicks there got her to try some free base coke. she hit the pipe about nine times and chick who turned her on took her to the bathroom, stripped her naked and then took her back out to the party.

No it's not normal if you really love your wife. It's quite disgusting if you ask me.

I like the fantasy but could not live with the reality. Dose that make me insecure or not normal?

My wife and I were about 36 and 39 when we rode on country roads late one night with me driving, her in the middle. Our friend kept the wine coming and he started french kissing her, which both of them knew i wanted. Later his 8 inches uncut hard appeared out fron his underwearless shorts, and it found her hand and all 3 of us enjoying it. She I think because he is a good 2 inches longer and much thicker than me, so it felt so different to her. They continued kissing and she holding his hard and this went on for a couple of hours. I was rock hard with excitement. More later...

My fantasy started by asking my wife to tell me about her wild days before I met her. She is drop dead gorgeous, blonde hair, blue eyes with the most perfect enhanced "D" cup breasts and an EXTREREMLY tight pussy that is absoluetly gorgeous (I'm not just saying that. I post pics of her on showyourcunt.org and all the guys make comments as to how perfect her pussy is). She is EXTREMELY sexy, sexual and sensual, very open about sex and lost track of how many one night stands she ad before we met including menages..all of course while she was drunk. I finally talked her into letting a friend film us fuck which he did several times that eventually led to him having sex with her but he turned out to be gay and that was a turn off for us. Plus he was blonde haried and blue eyes which isn't her type. Over the years we would hang out and get drunk with an out of town friend and my wife would give me head and I'd eat her pussy in front og him then he came over during the day and we got drunk and started talking about letting my friend screw her. She ended up being the one to make the first move by saying "let's just go upstairs and do it". Which we did. He fucked her doggy while deep throating me and came in less than a minute (I told you she was a turn on!). I video taped them and he taped us afterwards. I love jacking off to the tape watching her reach under to guide his cock into her cuz he was only average size. I then told him not to cum inside her and she joked "my tubes are tied, don't cum inside of me"...God her saying that makes me just want to cream my pants now! Anwaty, she wants to keep sex just between us now but I'm pretty certain I can get her to do it again. She relaxes and gets real horny when she's been drinking...

I find it fun to watch me wife take another mans cock in her and I really love to see them empty thier nut sack in her pussy. One time when she was doing me and a friend I was close to her cunt. Watching this bigger than my cock slide into her all the way. About 9 inches of thicker than me, stiff cock go into her box and then he held it there. That got me more excited than usual. I made up my mind I was going to sneak something naughty. So I was there and was moving his dick up and down when I told her to come here and like him. Which she turned to do but I snuck and put his cock in my moth. I wanted to see what she like to do. The I put his cock in her pussy & watched as he empty into her. She then licked him off. I was so proud of her.

OK...question? I just met a guy who wants the same thing. I actually don't object to flirting and dancing to turn him on...and I have no objection to an MFM 3-some.

However, I would HATE it if it was the other way. I don't want my man wanting, looking or touching anyone else.

Can this ever work?

i have wanted to watch my wife have sex with another man i told her that about 2 years into my marriage she said No way not ever then a few years later i found out she cheated on me 4 different times i asked her how come she didnt tell me or ask me since she knew i wanted to watch her have sex with another man she had no answer well now it 30 years later and im still wanting to watch her have sex with another man sometime shes say ok and nothing happens im am at a stand still i guess i am just going to keep dreaming about it

I the wee hours, I stopped the truck and asked her to go down on him, and after some urging she did but didn't stay down long enough to finish him. Watching her suck him was so hot. Later we took her home and then I drove him home. In his yard he pulled it out again, still hard and waved it at me. I didn't know what to do but i knew he had blue balls from hours of playing with my beautiful wife. The rest is history, and we all had fun. She never knew about the latest part, but she and I had super sex when I got back home.....There's more when someone inquires.......

Yes it is normal, according to the percentage of 88% This is not a fantasy it is innate. I could get into religious hangups caused by most monotheistic religions, but it's pretty well known that when polytheism was not only the norm, but practiced globally, when all civilizations became called civilizations they were actually civil. It's in our blood to share, monotheism made us (humanity) selfish.
This is a real dilemma for people who struggle with open communication. Because in order for all parts of the puzzle to be put together without losing any pieces, both lovers must trust, adore and respect their partners fully, without exception. When the communication barrier is no barrier at all, life together becomes perfect. Then the offering or giving into sharing every aspect of fulfillment: mental, physical and sexual tensions become a sexual completeness you could call "the secret of life".
Only a giving, loving, very communicative couple can enjoy sharing to such an extent without problems. If you can not talk about it you wont enjoy it.

I've been with my guy for about seven years, I was 19 and he was 26 when we met and I had only ever been intimate with one other guy and that was a grand total of three times we had sex. I really love him and vice versa, our sex life was good, like most couples it dwindles over time but we would try things. One thing that frustrated us both was we tried everything but I couldn't orgasm vaginally. Most times I will work my clitoris while he is inside me, usually toward the end. He has gotten me to orgasm going downtown a handful of times but it takes forever. I was completely naive about penis size, then learned a little from girl friends so I gathered he was about average, true he's about 5 inches in length but it is very thin, talking under 4 inches around, I began to wonder when he bought sex toys which steadily got bigger, between the sensation of being filled and his total lust for watching a large dong working my... I, we were soon talking dirty which led to him suggesting, acting out and well a threesome followed. It was average at best. He couldn't get erect, I was shy and the guy came in about two minutes. I wasn't really interested after that but he kept at me and it was a fair point that the guy wasn't much bigger than him in the penis department and that I should at least try a big one. It was when he showed me adult dating sites that I started to come around to his wish. I decided that he arrange it, all I would do was look at a picture of the guy, non nude as I found them hilarious but a normal picture as there had to be an attraction of sorts. A few false alarms then I remember how he wouldn't tell me details while we were waiting to meet the guy which only made it in a way hotter and less than an hour before meeting the guy my other half told me he wouldn't be joining in that it would make it easier for me that he would be silently watching and that it had been talked through with the guy who had done this before. I won't go into details and the penis size naysayers can still carry on, but I can tell you it was amazing, he was a good lover, his penis was very big especially how thick it was, I was so aroused and he took his time but it wasn't an issue it just felt amazing right from the beginning and I had my first orgasm.
We love it, my partner now fiance happily agreed to the guy staying the night and had a quickie with me while the guy was showering, we had sex twice more during the night and I came easily, he left in the morning while I was asleep and I woke to my boyfriend thrusting away.
This is something that should be talked about, at that time it was a good week if we had sex three times, that day he was all over me and we did it three times and every single day for a few weeks. This is a pattern that replays every time I have sex with another well hung guy while my guy is watching and we both are very happy, separating, love sex and intimacy.

My wife has been used like this for a number of years and to watch the enjoyment she get from it on her face is amazing and erotic. She gets so turned on and especially loves a big black cock and having her pussy filled with all that black seed. She hates condoms and always does it bareback. Over the years she will have taken something like 100 us different cocks inside her, she loves to experiment with new guys but also has a regular group of guys who come around weekly to sample her delights. It's a big turn on for me seeing being used this way especially by a 'new' black cock and usually ends up with me shooting a load over her face while he bangs and fills her pussy with his black seed.

we are married for over 30 y and in the last 10 years we had that experience with other guys #1 i choose the guy he has my cell #

we never meet in his or our house always a hotel #2 we only do this

no more then 2 time a year #3 we usually don't repeat the same guy

#4 i always participate in the act or if not i just watch but never send here alone with a guy #5 it is my fantasy and i am in control if it was here fantasy it will be my problem .so be in control don't over do it and do it in a hotel don't bring it home like they said what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas

we use it to help our sex life and so far it works for us .enjoy your fantasy

My husband and I have been swing for 15 years and counting. The swing life is tons of fun but you cannot be insure. You need to make sure that BOTH of you have agreed upon rules and ALL rules are followed. You CANNOT do it for the other person and be forced into it. We play as safe as possible.

We play couples when we can as it is harder to come by at times as I enjoy watching him have a female. I also dabble with a female when he is playing with her.

However, my biggest enjoyment is when he shares me with another guy. He truly enjoys giving me that pleasure. It is unbelievable feeling to be pleasure over and over by two men (never tried three but that sounds fun:)). To have one in you riding it nice and slow and to be fed until everyone comes over and over.

Ladies, you should not knock it until you try it. I never thought in a million years that I will be doing this. I am from a very conservative background and I decided to give it a try thinking that I will not enjoy it and here we are over 15 years later.

Men, your female will enjoy this but you cannot force them. Talk about it very slowly during sex, introduce sex toys and eventually tell her during sex that this would be even better real. She will eventually come around..you will be surprise after a while how much she will want to make it real.

I am so happy that we gave it a shot.

Have fun and communication is key. Remember, it needs to be no pressure!!

Anne

I believe most men like it or at least like talking about it. My husband always starts saying such things into my ear when he is doing me, and I enjoy the thought, but not sure if I ever dare to try another man while my husband watching...

what the hell,how can u watch ur wife enjoyed by other man
if i had a wife,i would not even tolerate a men who watches at my wife with bad views or with bad feelings of love and sex
ur wife is ur property, now ur wife is a slut who is not interested in u and ur weird penis as well

I wish my man would let me fuck other guys, let alone enjoy seeing it.

My wife who is naked 24/7 at home and seen by my friends our neighbors, family, even the mailman who sees her on a daily basis,etc. has been fondled, groped and fingered by just about all of them. We are currently discussing her having sex with other men. There are a number of guys we agree on but we still have our doubts about doing it. I can only imagine how exciting it would be fothe both of us and the guys who would be given the honors. We have a doubts about family members (like my brother, uncles and cousins) would that be advisable. Would it be better to have a married man since he's less likely to talk about it? Would like to hear other opinions........please respond

To those who criticize men who let their wives be fucked by another guy, you don't know what you are missing ! it is an incredible experience, very powerful and high sex. The look of my wife looking straight in my eyes while enjoying taking the load and swallowing the cum of another guy is so exciting, so intense that you remember it and replay it many times in your head. It reinforces love between each other, not weaken it, what do you prefer ? that your wife sucks another guy in your back? i don't care who is the other guy as long as he s clean, respectful and nice, he is just a sex experience, there is no cheating , just better sex. Then she tells me how it made her cum hard by the situation and our mutual excitement, she tells me about his taste, how much, and when is the next time. When you do that, you never experience boredom sex.

I have been married for 8 years now. The thought of watching my wife has been something that really turns me on. It is true we don't quite understand this. All we know is that it is a major turn on. Since we are visual creatures and knowing how much of a Taboo this desire is makes it that much more intense. I imagine my wife riding another man with a bigger penis. But I can imagine her body movements, expressions, loud moaning etc. This is pretty intense for me. We talk about this all the time. She enjoys the fantasy. We talk about her being fucked by friends, coworkers, a couple of my cousins who can't keep their eyes off of her. My wife says she would do them all! But not sure we are their yet. But yes, this is much more normal than one would think. Just most men are ready to really admit their desire because of the nature of it. It's involving the wife!

Want a rush without the guilt, pay a professional couple to have live sex for you and your partner, neutral place, hotel, you and your partner robed, to start with, no interaction with the other couple besides watching, or have one gender at a time over to masturbate for you both again no touching, or have them watch or film you and your partner, as normal agree to all boundries beforehand, best way to add some spice without jealousy and guilt.

Lovey stories, my wife Ann was a hot 5'5" 130 pound 33/34 b 26 36 long legged blond soon turned into a full blond with a pretty face, she was 17 and I soon had her dressing in mico mini's tube tops, no bras, sexy string or bikini panties, sexy thong heels on her 7 1/2" square toe feet and I let her dance with other guys at a nightclub in the city by us where we're known, she go in first and soon be drinking and dancing I didn't want to crimk her style in any case she was soon necking with the young Italian males who hang at the club and than one night it happened she got into a car with one and when I went outside she was not only had she was gang done by 3 of them, after they were done I took her and striping her put her in my car nude taking her to our apartment with her feet on the dash I played with her as the wet juice ran out than made her walk nude and drunk into our apartment We screwed all weekend after that at the college I was going to she became a nude art department and photography department model and soon a camera club model, which was just another way to leaglize a peek show place... she worked her ass off putting me throught college more to follow...J

A lot of couples are doing that now . Me and my now ex-wife did the wife watching and wife swapping . I liked the wife watching better . We did it with strangers , friends and with men she only knew . She went out a few times while I stayed at home and while I was at work . One time I just dropped her off at the motel door so she could be with a man we had met before and I went home . He brought her home when they were done . That was fun too . I would eat her cum filled pussy while she told me about the men fucking her when I was not there ..

You are different my fucked up in the head friend!

It's normal. Look up the phrase NTR.

do you get to have sex with your wife if not you are what is known as a "cockold" where the man never gets to sleep with the wife some times the wife will have the man in a chastity device (loving my one) and wont let him out, unless its to wash his well you know what.

It's great to know this is pretty normal, I don't have to question myself anymore.
I brought this up to the gf a while back when we were discussing fantasies, I only mentioned it because she said her big one(or rather the big one she'd voice) was to be with two guys and experience a double penetration. Unfortunately she followed up with saying it would most likely be a deal breaker in our relationship because it would lead to me wanting a FMF......told her I've been there and its too damn much work....LOL
She has tossed out scenarios/stories while we were making love which caused me to hammer the hell out of her but recently even that has gone away and if I mention that I'd like to hear her do it again she gets pissy.....
She is a wild one down deep and was when she was younger but now seems to be trying to bury it..... wish she would let it surface a bit more, even if its only verbally fulfilling our fantasies.

I would gladly give all the help anyone needs :)

you are making your wife a hoe.I i'm only 18 and if i get mary i would not like that.

seeing my wife drop something on the floor and some guy goes to pick it up and seeing her open her legs and seeing his reaction to this display turns me on. Funny how cluzy he becomes constantly dropping things to find out if it by accident or intention. He soon finds out its a invitation. Love to see how fast she can seduce him. Strange how many guys will fuck a woman even if her husband is watching. I really like to watch her face as a different cock fucks her and empttys all its cum deep inside her. if you are clean ya all cum

Those Guys dont Feel Jealous and Hatred to watching his wife making sexual Fun with other Guys in front of them they are not Man rather they are Transsexual Coward, Homosexual Pig and fucking Filthy biggest Gay disease in the Earth and should have been burnt without single bit of fuel

My last marriage broke up because my wife would not stop being unfaithful. I tried three-ways, MFM, but it wasn't enough, cause she cheated again. I really enjoyed watching my wife with another man, and now that I am remarried, have offered it to my new wife. I love her beyond words, and know I would feel some jealousy, but just the thought of it gives me a raging hard on. I don't want this to get out, so I don't want to do it with anyone we know, but I don't know how we can trust someone (diseases)without knowing them. It doesn't really matter, because my wife doesn't want anything to do with it. She might think I would want it the other way around FMF, but she is very wrong. I want to see her totally satisfied, and one man (especially at my age) can not do that. She is gorgeous, and a lot of guys would want her. I think, if she allowed it, she could have 20 orgasms in one meeting....how awesome would that be for her!?! I would love to watch her having an all out, blown out orgasm, while some guy is pounding away at her.

its actually a woman objectification. and signs women in the west are getting less smarter everytime.

it is a disorder hasnt yet being officialize. much like fetishes of oftenly men in power to be chained, whipped and sexually molested by a mean buxom. these watching sex partner swapping has become more and more apparent in the west proves there are an "IMBALANCE" in the western culture, for if everything is well and balance there wont be such excess of sex behaviour. but again the western culture itself would prevent the correction of this since since that would go head to head with western ideas of "liberalization" and hedonism. so we all doomed. if you have a small children for those of you still sane, find other much less "liberal" place to live, we need to save some of the still "steril" generations and be avoided from these things for the future of mankind. thanks.

Background.. Been with wife 16 years, she has only had me!i have no gay thoughts , no desire to cheat, love her loads, and she tells me she loves me about 10 times per day, she is a perfect wife and mother and she really is beautiful and we are best friends and soul mates.
I will be graphic as its easier to write. About a year ago whilst fucking her I asked her if she would like another man to fuck her as I would not mind if she did , I said call it a gift for being so damn perfect and loyal to me, well many months of questions and doubts later we got to the stage where she trusted me and felt comfortable pointing out men she would enjoy being fucked by!.It is great fun , a real turn on for both and great to really get to know what your wife is really thinking. We recently started to talk about a mutual friend (male), he fitted the bill perfectly as she knew him and his history(important to her), and I know the fact he was meant to be at least 8 inches turned her on.Well we finally arranged to go to his place for food and drink and we had a plan that we all agreed to and that was to have the one drink and I would take her hand and lead her to his bedroom, when there the planning kinda stopped but we all knew my friend and I would spend all night taking turns fucking her pussy and mouth and no doubt cumin in her as many times as possible, I'm not gunna lie , I was looking forward to see my wife being fucked hard by my friend, I wanted to see how sexy she looked with an 8/9 inch cock hammering her pussy.I also wanted to see how out of control turned on my friend was as he took her pussy and to see that moment when she felt another man make her cum and when she realised and felt another man filling her pussy with cum...damn , two days before my friend injured his shoulder and cancelled, he then entered a relationship so we had to cancel.We all still talk and even this week he told me if he ever becomes single the first thing he's going to do is fuck my wife lol.The wife is very choosey and is still looking for the lucky man, I for my part don't even understand how my life and wife are so perfect that I yern and have tOld the wife id love her to be regularly fucked hard and cum filled by many many men, it will happen, but at her pace and with whom she chooses.

3some sex, especially MMF is awesome. If you do it once you want to do it again and again and again - and that goes for both sexes. The only thing that I am sorry about is that my wife and I only started with this when we were in our mid-fifties. We could have had so much fun in our thirties and forties. Well, for us it is rather late than never. A word of advice is that you should first work on your jealousy. Once that is out of the way you open up a new sexual world with a lot of fun and enjoyment.

I want to know why it turns me on so much? Me and my girlfriend met on an adult dating site started out as sex she had done threesomes 3 guys a girl had pictures she had sent me really turned me on. We had a threesome with a her and another man he was longer than me it was awesome watching her suck his cock. Both of us were on the bed ironically she spent more time on him. We ended up having a kid together and naturally all that stopped. But now the kids are getting older we go out drinking a little more. She has a hard time having orgasms unless it is anal. She has an Orange personality if anyone is curious look it up fits her to a T. Anyway ive suggested we do something but she says if she loses weight etc. Anyway we were out a party with some girlfriends of hers at work. She is the life of the party (again orange Personality) she went around showing her ass. A female coworker was showing her piercings they were in the bathroom looking at it. One girlfriend she has at work kept saying her man wasnt that big. At the party someone showed my GF a picture of his cock it was big and she was trying to feel him up as she was getting drunker and drunker flirting with guys talking about nice cocks I really think if someone put the moves on her she would have done something. I fealt mixed emotions turned on but only if I was there to watch nothing behind my back. Well it never happened but I'm thinking the right person it would since she has had 3 some experiences in the past. There is going to be a party in a few months at this bar that is attached to the hotel with some of her coworkers. I really want to find someone hot that I can have to seduce her while we are there at the party, when she is a little drunk ask if they want to go somewhere and he will say your man can come too. Am I crazy anyone think it could be pulled off or is it sleezy?

These all are fantasies n we have no right to control other people's fantasies

I love it. I like to see my wife flirting, having foreplay with other guy in very discreet & secured manner. A guy who has love, admiration & bondage. Foreplay would include kissing, touching, holding, grabbing, running, lifting. All till their heart desire.
But no sex for some reason. I don’t know why, but no sex. They must know this boundary.

I have never been so turned on as I was the first time I watched my wife suck another mans cock. We picked a guy from a list of candidates that responded to an add we had placed. Set up a meeting and within a minute of entering this guys house they had their hands on each other and within five minutes she was sucking his cock long and deep. We had the best sex of our marriage when we got home that night.

I too love my wife to make love with other men.
Sexual intimacy is life's most intense pleasure, i love my wife and like her to enjoy herself with others. I find it extremely erotic when she gives herself to another man.
She is happy when she has a lover, and if she's happy, i'm happy too.
We've been together 30 years, she has had several lovers, and i love her just as much as when we first met.
If it's worked for us this long how can it be wrong?

anyone plz suggest.

IT HELPED OURS, BUT SHE HAS SINCE STOPPED

Hello, my first time here and I love it...........

Hello people we was really hope n to get some feed back, on our prier posts

Yes. That's the winning formula--that it's a turn on for both of you. That way you continue to have an important relationship thing in common

I think your assumption that your hubby doesn;t fantasize about you having sex with other men may be false. He may just be scared or plain clumsy about sharing something that really turns him on.

Many men who enjoy their wives having sex with others are like your husband, somewhat inadequate beween the sheets. It the love they still have for the woman they can no longer satisfy that drives the fantasies. He may desire more than you know to see the flush on you face and glassy eyes of post-coital bliss from being with a lover.

You need to be as creative as possible in drawing him into sweet fantasies of illicit sex. Give it a good try, and good luck!

I would like to watch my wife. She is very good, most exquisite in fact, and she gives fantastic head. I apologize but we are not allowed to use the kind of language that could adequately describe her masterful oral talents. I have already seen in action with a dildo with a suction cup, do I already know that she would be smashing to watch; dazzling, absolutely dazzling! Unfortunately the simple truth is that I simply cannot include myself in her relationships with others. You see we are followers on the path of the Goddess, and when Tique becomes Freya incarnate she can and does have sex with whomever she pleases, whenever she pleases, wherever she pleases. When Tique is Freya incarnate she has the first word, the last word and all words in between. She has the one and only say about where she goes who she takes with her and whom or what she does when she gets there.
I suppose for anyone who isn%%u2019t familiar with what I'm talking about this would all sound most peculiar and possibly rather ridiculous and comical. I can already shouts of outrage from the men, but I assure you what Tique is doing is a MOST SELFLESS ACT. As High Priestess to Freya she is the only one who can command our efforts to raise and then craft the tremendous and unseen energy and then with absolute and perfect surrender expresses it and me through herself to Freya Thus she completes the first half circle of our and the earth%%u2019s relationship with Freya. Next she places herself on Freya%%u2019s altar in sacrifice and surrenders herself completely to Freya, completing the circle of our relationships, the stands to walk the Earth as FREYA INCARNATE. From that point on she is Freya%%u2019s vessel and Freya%%u2019s altar. It is upon that altar that she commands the sex that will deliver unto Freya the most divine and precious gift; Her own orgasm. She is the only one who can do it. I can%%u2019t and doubt anyone else can do it with such adeptness. This is where Tique demonstrates her greatest asset and most precious quality, Herself. There are many Priestesses who invoke the Goddess, but none who do it in this way, and there are none on this Earth who become truly and completely the GODDESS INCARNATE. She alone It%%u2019s quite awe-inspiring. I've known priestesses who've been in the craft for over 30 years. I've met Selena Fox. But I have never known anyone who's had such sheer natural ability and such perfect Grace.
So Mote It Be!