Well im a 26 year woman virgin

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I am 26 years old, 27 this year, and im a virgin. Ive dated a lot of men but I couldnt get myself to sex. I feel an irrational fear at the thought of it. I want to get over this but I cant. Every guy I have dated it has ended mainly over this. They wanted a relationship with me but I had to say I cant and they got frustrated with me. I will never find love if I am this way forever.

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  • Meatballsandwich
    11 months ago

    24 Year old virgin here. I'm not ashamed of it. Had the chance to lose it at 16, but declined the offer since the girl was under the age of consent. Now I've just lost interest in it and I'm more interested in other aspects of dating and relationships.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    11 months ago

    Have you considered speaking to a counsellor about this? Perhaps you have trust issues or past traumas causing your fear of intimacy?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 months ago

      Yes but feel embarrassed about it but I want to fix the issue

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  • litelander8
    11 months ago

    I’ve come to the conclusion that I don’t like really get turned on. But I enjoy sex once I get down to it. It’s kinda weird.

    But obviously you shouldn’t force yourself. I do agree that you’re limiting yourself on the men who will want to commit over sex. Just a fact of life.

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  • iEatZombies_
    11 months ago

    You're not doing anything wrong and you're not broken. Wait until marriage, and marry someone who will help you feel comfortable with having sex.
    Sex is more than just a physical act so it's perfectly fine that you're protective about it.

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  • dude_Jones
    11 months ago

    It sort of progresses like this. Acceptance -> Attraction -> Enchantment -> Arousal -> Erotic touch -> Sex -> Orgasm.

    As you can see you are at least 5 steps away from your goal and you don’t have a road map. At this point, I would suggest a good hot romance novel followed by a warm bath. When your mind becomes relaxed visualizing this process and can think about all the pleasurable feelings associated with it. YouTube can help with videos on flirting, kissing, suggestive sexy talk, and other womanly things.

    Get out there and play the game. Life is passing you by.

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  • Doc69moose
    11 months ago

    Get drunk, get naked , tell him go down on your hood you be ready then you be so hot you will cry mama ..🤡

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  • NoRestForTheWicked
    11 months ago

    If they are pressuring you into sex, no matter what age, then they are not someone you want to be intimate with. It will only get worse in bed. You need a partner who listens and goes at your pace. Respect is about reaching an agreement that serves both people. Find someone who respects you first. Then be intimate. There's no need to rush intimacy. The right person will understand, and allow you to build up trust with them.

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