What’s poly relationships really like?

So me and my boyfriend have been thinking of having another male or female into our relationship but everyone keeps telling us that we are asking for trouble or that it won’t work out because polyamory relationships aren’t what we believe it is.

According to everyone it’s all about sex but me and my bf don’t believe that. We form emotional bonds with others before even thinking about the sex. But to each their own. What does everyone think here?

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  • Curiouskitten444

    Im poly as well and theres a lot of shame put on poly people. We dont have to own that shame. Its about loving more than one person not about sex, unfortunately a lot of unethical people claim to be poly just to get away with cheating and its left people with the wrong idea about polyamory. Ethical polyamory is about knowing your boundaries, respect, honesty and trust. I believe you and i wish you luck in your love journey ❤️❤️

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  • Sanara

    I think if one of you have ever worried that your partner may cheat on you, then poly is not for you. You would get jealous. Otherwise it may work.

    You both have to get along with the third person, unless they only meet up for like an one night stand. It can be purely sexual and it can be a serious romantic relationship depending what you make it

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    • RoseIsabella

      Why would anyone in their right mind want a partner who goes out, and has one night stands?

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    I couldnt imagine listening to two women nag. Its hard enough listening to one nag.

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