What do you do when someone hates you?

I feel like this certain person hates me, but we live in the same dorm. what should I do?

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  • ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet

    Laugh.

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    • Chap

      Right

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  • MonteMetcalfe

    Do whatever you'd do if they weren't around.
    Forget them & get on with your life.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    Give them space if its warranted. If I get in a big argument with someone I'll usually go up to them a few days later and say "You arent gonna stay mad at me are ya?" And smile and kind of apologize say u got too excited or somethin. Usually ppl will squash it and yall just dont mingle for a while. Friends fight often as long as one person didnt go too deep and personal with insults you can usually be cool.

    Two of my buddies got in an argument and one of them said to the other that they were fat and still live with their mommy and all this mean shit. Its almost easier to reconcile if one of yall threatened to punch the other than if you said some crazy shit like that.

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  • sweetone89

    Ignore them.

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  • farkelu

    Unless he or she does something to hurt you physically, do nothing. Focus your energy on those who like you, and that you like. Now go in peace.

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  • Somenormie

    If someone hates me then that's their problem not mine, I always not think of it much like it's a big of a deal.

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  • olderdude-xx

    I try to have a discussion with them about why they hate me and see if we can come to an agreement that we are different people and lets just agree to disagree and generally avoid each other.

    That actually works sometimes (and often enough that its worth the effort).

    If they reject that approach I just ignore them and go my own way. They tend to disappear after a while when they understand that they have no control or effect on my life.

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  • Billy247newaccount_35467829

    Ignore them. It's really not that hard.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Try to persevere, and not fuck with that person.

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  • Curiouskitten444

    Tell them they need JEZUS

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  • bbrown95

    I think that's their problem. Unless I did something to them to cause it, them deciding to hate me out of the blue is not my problem. If they have an issue with me or something I do/did, they are free to communicate with me about it.

    I spent way too many years wondering what was wrong with me when someone disliked me for no known reason, only to eventually find that usually, it was a personal problem within themselves. I do my best to be nice to people and treat them well, and if they don't like me, oh well. Their loss.

    I've lived with someone who couldn't stand me before (a very jealous and attention seeking member of my blended family), and I just did my best to be decent when we had to interact, but generally avoided them most of the time. There were times when I really had to bite my tongue because this person was unbelievably petty and difficult to live with, but I always tried to be the bigger person and not to create a hostile living environment (in my case, I wanted to keep the peace in the family).

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  • LloydAsher

    Dont give a shit.

    Some jihadist 4000 miles away wants to burn me alive. Pfff I dont care.

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  • GaelicPotato

    @FAUXRE i have health issues since two years , and this affect my potency therefore i was in severe depression lately until i start watching ur stream , ur beauty and feminine personality gave me back my boxner. thank you so much u improved my health indirectly . thank you for being so pretty so classy and sexy.

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    • bbrown95

      Are you copying and pasting YouTube comments?

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      • GaelicPotato

        My Grandfather smoked his whole life. I was about 10 years old when my mother said to him, 'If you ever want to see your grandchildren graduate, you have to stop immediately.'. Tears welled up in his eyes when he realized what exactly was at stake. He gave it up immediately. 

        Three years later he died of lung cancer. It was really sad and destroyed me. My mother said to me- 'Don't ever smoke. Please don't put your family through what your Grandfather put us through." I agreed. 

        At 28, I have never touched a cigarette. I must say, I feel a very slight sense of regret for never having done it, because your post gave me cancer anyway.

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        • bbrown95

          I take that as a yes. 🤣

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          • GaelicPotato

            Yes.

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  • raisinbran

    Get over it, stop being weak, desperate and socially dependent.

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    • get over what exactly?. i just feel like this dude hates me and i don't know what to do. you think my life is getting fucked over because someone hates me? I'm not that weak.

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      • raisinbran

        Do nothing, any emotion he feels about you is his problem.

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