What do you think about guys being shirtless in public?

Ok, so I'm a 22 yr old guy, in good shape, and often go out jogging shirtless. I live near the beach. Also, if I'm driving my bike to a friend's place, I prefer going bare chested. My friends do the same sometimes.
The other day, we were sitting in a park with our shirts off, and this woman started yelling at us for being indecent!!
What are your thoughts on this? Do you go out shirtless too?

I'm a guy: I go out shirtless often 611
I'm a guy: I don't go out shirtless 370
I'm a girl: I think it's ok for guys to go out shirtless 94
I'm a girl: I don't think it's ok for guys to go out shirtless 70
Other 51
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Comments ( 60 )
  • Shackleford96

    There's nothing wrong with a guy going out shirtless so long as he's respectful about it. That woman was just being a bitch I think. I mean, come on really.

    There are certainly places where it would be less acceptable or inconsiderate though.

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  • Holzman67

    Haha I used to have this shirtless friend and one day we were hanging out and it was a really hot, sweaty day so I took my shirt off and he got really mad and made me put it back on. I think he saw the situation as gay somehow. Sorry for the pointless story lol

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    • nkwacky

      Lol.. What's gay in two guys being shirtless?? Not like you two were making out!

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      • Holzman67

        Haha he was this macho homophobic egocentric guy. The type that frequents dance festivals shirtless, in expensive sunglasses, more for the photo opportunities than the music. No longer friends with him I dont miss him much!

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    • CandyD

      it's a lovely and sexy story.

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  • dirtybirdy

    Depends on the guy.

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  • SpecialBreed

    Fit men, go for it, flabby/old keep it on, nobody wants to see it.

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    • henry888

      Why?
      Are you saying the reason people go shirtless is for others to look at them? You don't have to specially look at him - or is that your thing? Personally I believe people have the right to get tanned or cool down without discrimination. Of course there's a time and a place - beach: ok, business meeting: no.

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  • BunFun

    To put it plainly its too god damn cold here to do it but if it was we'd be shirtless together all the time. No homo. All of the HOMO

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  • loopoo

    Of course a man can do it, men do it where I live all the time, but oh if a girl does it think of the uproar it would cause. Not really fair.

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    • nkwacky

      Well, i'm sure women themselves wouldn't wanna go around topless.. Considering they have boobs. It's ok for us guys cause we don't.

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      • loopoo

        Both male and female 'breast' areas are made of breast tissue, areola and nipples, women's are just more prominent and sexualized hence why we have to cover up our bodies

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      • westoptic

        I'd love to go around topless. But because my breast tissue and nipples have the functional capability of feeding an infant, my natural state of shirtlessness is considered obscene and offensive.

        It would be so nice to be able to take off my shirt on a hot day and go swimming without people freaking the fuck out over the fact that I, and 51% of the population, have mammary tissue. I've seen men with larger breasts than mine.

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      • Chaosmuffin

        That's what society wants you to think, I wouldn't mind if girls did it but my pants would.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    I think it's not fair. I will always have tan lines because women are not permitted to go shirtless.

    Otherwise, I think it shows arrogance when it's overdone, but overall i'm indifferent.

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  • Avant-Garde

    A man has his right to go shirtless as long as he is respectful. There's a time and a place for everything.

    *Man stands on outcropping overlooking the panorama: tall evergreens reaching for the heavens, a waterfall with waters of the purest blue.*

    *The wind is wild but gentle as it caresses the man's nipples*

    *The Man's hair chest moves like giggling school girls*

    *A falcon cries. Flying high until its nothing but a shadow in the sun.*

    *His chest is proudly bared. Bared because he is proud to be a Man*

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    • shuggy-chan

      *Man stands on balcony overlooking the parking lot: tall lightpost reaching for the heavens, a waterfall of sewage from a pipe of the purest filth*

      *The Sweetbreeze is annoying as it caresses the man boobs*

      *The Man's hairy tits move like wiggling walker of old women*

      *A pigeon shits on his back. Flying high until it lost in the flock of dirtybirdys*

      *His chest is horrible bear-like, bear because he is a hairy, obese, Man*

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      • Avant-Garde

        *Someone has stopped walking and now stands firmly on the sidewalk*

        *This someone unravels the tie on its hair. Their hair grows quickly by every second.*

        *They start to strip*

        *Skin sagging, their mountains come down to their knees like flat tires*

        *The wind is blowing these pendulous things every which way*

        *The wind blows harder. The saggy mountains begin to spin like a propeller.*

        *This person ascends into the sky as the people on the ground look on in horror*

        *This person knows who they are after: The obese man.*

        *Still looking him in the eye, the person comes to a stop, hovering a few feet away*

        *gasp*

        *screaming*

        *Something is coming out of the pendulous airplane*

        *Is it a baby? Ah, no its a... a*

        *A gigantic penis!*

        *Looking one last time at the obese man, the saggy being whips its cock and slaps the man hard*

        *The man is silent*

        *The crowd is speechless*

        *The being with the giant penis disappears in a puff of smoke*

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        • shuggy-chan

          *rage... a smoldering, dark fury starts growing in the bear-like Molly-Whopped Man*

          *With each deep breath taken by the man, feeds the fire in belly till it swells outside of his body*

          *but this rage compresses to a Cold Fury, a chill fill the surrounding air*

          *The man throws back his head and lets out a howl that rattles the very soul, and then with his no sweat-frosted hands, grabs his top and low jaw*

          Snap! PoP! Tear*

          *Scream and hysteria fill the crowd as the watch this horror, of the fat, fuzzy man literally Splits himself into a pile of gore and out of the wreckage of a man... *

          *a tiny hand reach up, and drags behind it a creature of true calamity, from the rage was born a pygmy polar bear demon*

          *the diminutive Fiend's nose inches forward and sniffs the air then a cruel toothy grin spreads across its almost cute face*

          *It has the scent..... then hunt is on *

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    • nkwacky

      Lol.. You should become a writer!

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      • Avant-Garde

        Thank you! I have actually decided to become one:)

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  • anti-hero

    I would go shirtless, if not for my deep shame.

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    • Avant-Garde

      This is a judge free zone.

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      • anti-hero

        LOL since when? LMFAO

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        • Avant-Garde

          *grabs a piece of chalk and draws a circle*

          You are now in the zone.

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          • anti-hero

            Thanks :)

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  • SplinterWingz

    Well I for one have no desire to have to look at that. Keep the bloody clothes on, i dont care if you're about to get heatstroke. Deal with it, women have to

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  • TheHappyGoLuckyKid

    It's okay as long as your not next to horny teenagers~!

    ~That nerd who's not horny

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    • nkwacky

      Is the horny teenager in question under or over 18 years ? :-P

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  • finlay01

    yes i do.
    i usually go out shirtless.

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  • GreyWulfen

    I think there should be more shirtless guys outside. Who doesn't like the view of a shirtless, muscular male? ;)

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    • nkwacky

      Hey, I'm glad someone appreciates our shirtlessness!

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  • zxc

    in my country its okay for men but not for women.

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    • GoraIntoDesiGals

      Too bad it's not the other way lol

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  • imadragon

    I couldn't care less. They can do whatever they want, why is this even an issue?

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  • Holzman67

    I live in a coastal city with a beach lifestyle. So its widely accepted to be in public places shirtless and shoeless in the suburbs close to the beach, with the public assumption being that you've been to the beach that day. One pointless trivial thing I've always wondered is where the cut off distance is from the beach where people start thinking instead god this guy is really lazy at dressing himself. Lol

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    • nkwacky

      Hahaha.. It is laziness for me.. I go to the beach in just shorts, then if my friends decide to go to the mall nearby, I just directly go to the mall without swinging by my house for a shirt.. Lol

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  • q25t

    If it's okay for the beach, it seems like it's probably fine elsewhere.

    I'll go shirtless when exercising, but for some reason it's awkward when I'm just walking about.

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  • SuperBenzid

    Personally I don't think you should have to wear any clothing at all in public land. The human form is not indecent, it is our natural state.

    On a personal level I think I would still wear clothes but it is the principle of the concept of indecency and the laws around it that bother me.

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  • gummy_jr

    What do you think about a guy with big floppy man boobs and a saggy stomach being shirtless in public?

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    • nkwacky

      That's why I said, I'm in good shape. My question relates to toned guys who work out.

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      • Justsomejerk

        I see a lack of equality here...

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      • gummy_jr

        Oh

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    • henry888

      Entertainment.
      Other than that - no big deal for me. People should be treated equally, they shouldn't have to do it for other's appreciation (or not).

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  • kyron

    I'm a shirtless guy mostly around my own house. I'll walk shirtless along the Riverfront in NOLA during the sweltering month of August to harvest the barest of breeze.
    I agree with many other commentators that men and women, in this regard, should be held to the same legal standards,

    I disagree with the conclusion that often seems to follow, that of banning mens shirtlessness to.

    The proper conclusion is to get the law out of peoples business, not expanding their meddling with our bodies by also banning male public appropriate shirtlessness, but to embrace the legal right of women to the same freedom.

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  • Murun

    It's not indecent, you just look like a dick.

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  • jaredthesubwayguy

    hate shirts and only wear one when I have to

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  • TrunksHitachi

    I'm shirtless all the time. In the commodity of my home, washing my motorcycle, while swimming, while I'm with friends, while I'm doing workout..

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  • henry888

    Ok, so your 22 and in good shape, and without stating it in your question, but later clarifying it, you meant, 'is it ok for young fit guys to go around shirtless', implying 'of course not old/hairy/fat/skinny/... men!'

    were you assuming that your appearance is important to strangers in public places?

    was your question moral? aesthetic (based on your own self-image)? or is it about attraction?

    Yes I'll go to the beach and work in my backyard without a shirt and I'm not 20 or super-fit. I do not forbid people doing what doesn't necessarily appeal to me, and I'm hoping others won't do the same to me.

    As for people displaying themselves in the shopping mall, in office buildings, on trains or whatever - well how gorgeous you are doesn't come into it. It's just inappropriate.

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  • SplinterWingz

    I actually find it quite disgusting. I dont want to see guys with their tits out reguardless of what they look like.

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  • Monkeybutts

    I think its gross and I think if girls have to wear shirts men do too esp the ones with man boobs. I hate seeing a guy shirtless, like cover it up! Hide ur goodies. Its nice when a hot guy gives u a sneak peak of his chest on accident when he stretches or does something that accidently lift uo his shirt but not when he purposely do it and reveal EVERYTHING. Ew and when guys wit nice bodies do it then the fat guys with beer bellies always feel like they have the right to do it. Its disgusting. I work at a kid friendly amusement park and I always make sure the guys put their shirt and idc what they think. Show some respect.

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  • AgentM.Kenna

    As long as they have a good body I'm okay with it ;D

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  • Justsomejerk

    It's ok if you can see water.

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  • Elliemental

    As long as it looks good I don't think there's a problem! No moobs, scary nipples, excess skin, infected scabby skin, runty or fat blokes though! Sometimes showing a nice body can distract from an unfortunate face!

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  • LittleMissy

    I prefer not to see it tbh.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    I guess there's nothing wrong or shocking about it but it shows lower class status.

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    • nkwacky

      How does that relate to class

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      • GoraIntoDesiGals

        It just does. You don't see Warren Buffett or Bill Gates do this in public, right?

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        • nkwacky

          But you do see hot actors roam around Shirtless all the time!

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          • GoraIntoDesiGals

            Actors and rocks tars have money and fame but not necessarily class.

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