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First please state what gender you are talking about please. I am mostly curious about what people find attractive. Please be specific and talk about looks/body type.
For a girl, do you prefer tom boys, girly girls, or a nice medium. High pitched voice like Arianna Grande, normal pitch, or low pitched like Whoopie Goldberg
Oh yeah my high school was always talking about Mensa. :)
It cool that you like smart girls. .... my mom always told me guys don't like smart girls
I'm a white male, 54, blond hair, average height, thin and fairly fine boned.
I go for women who are tall, preferably taller than I am; and strong, strong enough to have a good chance of pinning me in wrestling. Tall, strong, broad shouldered, average to slender weight but big sturdy bones, pretty face with full lips and wide set eyes. And in particular she should have large smooth soft strong hands, the larger the better, feminine hands but large and strong, larger than my hands. Long fingernails optional but nice.
She's kind, easy going, with a sense of humor, and a willingness to take the lead sometimes. And the dream is, she's holding me tight in her arms, and she won't let me go, and I can't get away from her no matter how I squirm and struggle.
I'm a a Generation-X chick, I'm straight and heterosexual. I find tall males with blue eyes, full lips and preferably blond hair most attractive.
My idea of a very beautiful woman would be a young Tori Amos before she had all that plastic surgery.
My first ex-husband kinda looked a little like Cillian Murphy so I always feel captivated whenever I see that actor on screen. My most recent ex, who almost became mistake number three was a tall, blue-eyed, handsome, strawberry blond. Unfortunately, he's an insecure, poorly endowed, narcissist with a bad temper.
Right now it's better to be alone.
*raises glass*
Here's to a life where I don't have to listen to screaming and yelling, nor do I have to pretend I'm not laughing at that mushroom cap.
Lol thank you for being so specific๐ I myself am a sucker for blue/green eyes
I wasn't going to comment coz I don't find the topic interesting but, yes, Tori was so beautiful, she still is.
My type exactly, quite witchy too and what a personality!
Hmmmmm, that was revealing. You are visual, you recognize beauty, men are creatures that are induce exquisite moods, even beyond the furthest reaches of fine art. Mushroom caps can be tolerated. My perception of you is gaining clarity.
Ever wonder if its a coincidence you have had failed marriage and mistakes? Its no coincidence. No one goes from 'i love my new bf' to being a vindictive b**** faster than you.
Lets raise a glass to a shallow and disgusting human being that will die alone because she doesnt deserve to be loved by anything other than a cat.
Hey! Don't be mean :(
I think she is an amazing person and everyone deserves to be loved โค๏ธ
Also Cats are freaking awesome!!!!!
Thanks for your support, I really appreciate it. If I were normal I probably wouldn't be here. I figure I probably came here the same way most everyone did, by googling in regards to a personal issue the question, "...is it normal..."? It's my faults and damage that have brought me here.
:-)
Wow! You've chosen to take my life struggles extra personal considering that I'm just a stranger on the Internet. I must have hit a nerve somehow, well, that's your problem. I wouldn't be surprised if you're just some creepy hater using a lame alt to try to bring me down.
Bugger off!
I'm a guy and really find all kinds of girls to be attractive. As a pretty short person myself, I would say that height doesn't matter. I have found girls slightly under 5 feet tall and slightly over 6 feet tall to be good looking. For body type, skinny and healthy is preferable but I have also found "bigger" and curvy looking girls (as long as they are not obese) to be attractive. Regarding tattoos and piercings, those are fine as long as they are not excessive or tacky and as long as it fits into her sense of style. At different times my tastes have shifted from liking girly girls (as long as they are not artificially over the top and can enjoy letting loose and just being "one of the guys" sometimes), to tomboys (even if they have short hair they can still be feminine), to anything in between (the important thing is that they are confident in their personality and who they are). I mean the way I see it is that by finding only a certain type of girl to be attractive, really I am only limiting myself =)
I like women who love finding a good neutral in opinions and ideologies and all, have a bit more muscle on them, long hair. Either fair skinned or dark skinned, I donโt care too much for any medium/tan skin tone. Someone whoโs atmospheric and would rather people watch than be the center of attention, someone humble with their work/success.
I'm a guy and I find shy girls extremely cute and attractive. I really don't care about their body. I also find animal loving girls very attractive.
I like men rough looking, strong, a bit overweight, beards, older (late 30's to 50-60). I don't give a shit if they're balding. I actually am kinda turned off by really thick hair on a guy (on his head! I actually prefer him to have full pubes and I like beards)
I'm a gay man, what I prefer;
Looks - olive skin and dark eyes/hair, facial and body hair (but not too long and unkempt), reasonably fit body, preferably kinda short (I'm short myself and don't like being dwarfed).
Personality - A quiet self-aware confidence, good witty sense of humour. Good fashion sense.
petite elfin woman with puffy hair small tits small waist big eyes big ass big laugh. It is a plus if she is into sci fi cosplay and has a fucked up sense of humour.
I'm a latin Portuguese 26 year old young man, my height is 5'7 feet and i weight 176 pounds, i have brown eyes and short brown hair.
I believe my personal taste in women is pretty eclectic as far looks are concerned, for as long as she carries alot of charm, wisdom, quirkiness and maturity. I think about women like Julianne Moore, Julia Roberts, Scarlett Johansson.
How about your own personal preferences? Tell me of an actor you like or feel attracted to.
One that isn't attached to me and can be independent, smart, motivated, light on the bitchiness and good looking but doesn't have to be a knockout.
I like guys who are at least a little taller than me, (I'm 5'5) no facial hair, dark hair, not too long or too short hair (I hate man buns, ponytails, etc. But I hate buzzcuts.) and a good personality. Someone who can make me laugh and I can joke around with. Body type, average is good.
I'm an 18 year old girl and I like personalities more than looks but if you're tall (over 6'0) and really lanky that's a huge turn on for me. I like guys who are funny, have good music taste, are fun, and have great sex. I don't like a guy who tries too hard to be masculine or whatever and I can't stand judgmental, stupid, or guys that are just like everybody else. I could never date somebody who isn't different or has a weird personality
Definitely like the goth look in chicks... And yes i mean goth, not just red lipstick and dark hair.
Male and I prefer girly girls with a medium pitched voice, small breast and long black hair. I'm also very turned off by uptalking and even more so by vocal fry.
Uptalking is that annoying accent that most if not all millenial girls of California have where every statement sounds like a question. (pitches up at the end)
Vocal fry is that frog-like croak Britney spears used in her songs or that Kim Kardashian does. Basically, the voice lowers so much that a very guttural sound is produced.
If links go through then here is an example: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UsE5mysfZsY
Vocal fry is literally nail-on-chalkboard cringeworthy.
Real breasts, big or small. Blue eyed women with brown/black hair. Women who aren't perma-dieting & are well proportioned.
The most important traits for me are being able to make me & themselves laugh & not to take life too seriously.
Uptalking is extremely irritating & I just stop listening.
Okay if you wanna be specific..... 95percent of guys dont care about ass or boobs or how she looks. She just has to be girly and warm. We hate girls that wanna take the lead or want to always stand out. A girl that will stay home watching a movie instead of shaking her ass at the club. Skinny but not petite figure ;)
its easier to say what i dont like. i like my cock to reach the pussy not some ass so huge it wont reach. is that sexist ? no women dont like to be mounted by whales that crush them because they cant hold up their bodies. i like a woman to shower before sex when it makes a difference. i dont want to make love to a toilet bowl.
lol I totally get what you are saying. I don't get why guys like big butts so much. I get why a guy would like a round firm butt that is proportionate to the women, but I don't get why guys like a butt like Kim Kardashian's. (Not bashing Kim Kardashian. she is gorgeous)
Also being a germaphobe I know exactly what you mean about making sure they are clean lol.
If their ass is as big as possible. Weight does not matter, voice or sense of style does not matter. Boobs in 99.99999% of cases does not matter. There is extreme rarity in girls who's boobs add excitement it sounds like you may be one of them.
Also attracted to high ponytails, enjoyment in kicking guys in the balls, and spandex, skirts, jeans, bikini, stilletos. However all clothing and hair style is only if her body is attractive to begin with.
It is really just ass and or wanting to get guys in the balls that is 100% and the rest are things that make that foundation better.
The biggest bonus is a girl loving her own ass and talking about it extensively and its effects on other men.
Also full lips, physical strength in arms and legs, kindness, love, sympathy, wanting to be around you, bitchiness, cruelty, general body confidence, confidence, good at sucking dick, not seeing male sexuality as mysoginistic, acceptance of their partner, sexualization of their partner, martial arts, and or running/swimming/soccer/volleyball, intelligence, unpredictability, smelling good, low expectations, lots of free time, commitment to communication and giving partner highest sexual experiences, sexual dominance, loud screams and uncontrollable back scratching when orgasming, blonde, straightening hair, tall, being average at the skinniest, enjoying eating, enjoying having their ass grabbed, loving cock, loving balls, needing cock in their throat, needing your face in their butt, confidence in sexual ability, treating sexual interactions as distinct from other ones though not excluding sexual activity in regular interaction. Confidence again, and confidence. And confidence
We don't process attraction the same way. However love is much more similar for boys and girls, maybe even the same.
Green eyes. The rest is usually workable ๐
Tan skin also looks better imo over pale, despite my fair complexion (perhaps its a grass is always greener situation)
But even if they're rocking a 9.9/10 if we don't click and/or they're a shitty person, I wouldn't even fuck em
guys who are easy to talk to, share similar opinions w me (i.e anti-pc, anti-sjw), really chill, would rather watch a movie than go out, basically live in sweatshirts & beanies, share similar interests (i.e idubbbz, stranger things)
Looking for a woman. As far as body type, one of my past girl friends would be a best description of my fav, red strawberry hair, about 5'4 around 130lbs. She had very supple milky white skin, C cup breasts with medium size pink nipples and a natural slope to die for. Her butt was more roundish and very wholesome, I loved humping it. She had a wonderful pussy that smelled and tasted so good I had a hard time keeping my face out from between her legs LOL! She would give me slow and gentle blow jobs that would just drive me crazy too. So that is my favorite type of woman.