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I just saw a tweet that said how we always talk about what our type is, but we never discuss which kind of people we usually attract. I thought it was interesting.
I personally think i attract either very very horny men who are bordeline abusive or women with mommy and/or daddy issues that are unstable and have considered su1cide at least once.
What about you? Im curious.
I don't think any of my girl friends were similar in any way in both looks or personality.
1 was a tall burnett country girl who was so chill & laid back you'd sware she was a pot head (still friends with her to this day)
2 was a skinny, mid height, blond preppy who was kind of shy & soft spoken.
3 was a short hyper as fuck hispanic, real bubbly & talkative.
4 was a ratchet ass hood rat black girl who was always yelling & getting in fights, we got a lot of stares (I liked her a lot, would probably be with her today if she hadn't got arrested & we lost touch)
And if you count one of my close friends (we might as well have dated, we were very intimate with each other just without sex) she was a butch built like a brick shit house, haven't seen her in a few years since she joined the army.
I always attract the creepiest most desperate men around who don't take no for an answer and wouldn't recognize common politeness if it bit them in the fucking face. Bi women and lesbians like me too, but I don't mind usually as long as they don't read my vibes wrong.
I occasionally attract normal, nice, attractive guys as well, but it's a rarity.
Simps and fuckboys seem to be the only ones who show interest in me. Neither of wich are my type.
As for women I only know of one in person that was interested in me. Truth be told I was interested back but in a relationship so we never exchanged numbers or any of that. She was a heavier set gal wich interests me cause that's not typically my type
I always attract men who are geminis. That's the common red thread i've found and me i'm a libra and according to astrology we are a horrible mismatch.
I always connect amazingly with geminis at first which makes sense since they're known to be good communicators and charming.
The one thing these men has had in common has been getting bored easily and either cheating or just disappearing on to new things. They are very neat and serious, deep thinkers. I am attracted to deep thinkers and good communicators but I need some humor and some bohemian vibe. I'm a creative person, those men I attract are logical, practical thinkers. I am also distance taking and reserved in a way that attracts them because they want to pick me apart. They want to understand why i'm like that and "fix" it. They make me reveal too much about myself which no other type of men can. They get annoyed with me also because i'm not more impulsive and prepared to try new things. We end up fighting nonstop.
Even recently I happened upon a man online who seemed interesting. We got to talking and I find out his birthday, look it up, loe and behold... a fucking gemini.
The complete opposite of what I am attracted to :(
They're usually fat, bald, glasses and older.
They're almost always autistic or really weird or cringey.
(not that there's anything wrong with being autistic as I'm autistic myself)
Some of them are creepy particularly if they're older.
I seem to attract very creepy middle aged men mostly. Sometimes I meet a guy my age whos well adjusted and genuinely cool but it's rare.
I dont really attract people because I have realized that I send mixed signals with my appearance. I am working on changing my style slowly so I can become more feminine again.
I actually have zero idea whom I attract. Mainly because no girl ever came up to me and wanted to go on a date. I always had to go on the hunt for one.
I attract a lot of girls when thry first meet me but once they get to know my personality they run
The types of men I attract seem to be guys way older or way younger than me. The older guys seem to think that because they're retired and loaded, they can hit on anyone they want. I find it gross. The younger ones are just clueless and awkward. It's kind of cute, but it's not what I like.
The types of women I attract are mentally unstable, baggage ridden, suicidal, spoiled brats who still rely on their mommy and daddy to pay all their bills. I've never met a lesbian who actually had her shit together. XD
some people usually get attracted by me when they find out they have the same interests as me.
I did at some point attract those really desperate relationship girls and it got to a point where I reject them.