What's the worst date you've ever been on?

Pizza. He didn't offer to pay which was fine but he's the one who made the date. While at the pizzeria, he was obnoxious and told me tmi about his life which largely included him talking about how his mother and her boyfriend have loud sex. We hugged good bye and he later textd me that he wanted me to drive an hour to his place just to do it. When i said no he said he thought we were f*ck buddies. I deleted him on Facebook and blocked his number.

The guy had decided I wasn't his type from the beginning and he was looking at his phone and lining up the next date at the table while I was eating.

I do not have any data to back this up, but I wonder if stories like this are more prevalent today than say 20 years ago? Prior to dating sites you went on a date with someone after you got to know them a little bit anyway, after meeting at a bar or whatnot. Not to say they all went well, but i guess some element of surprise, mainly in the looks department, were eliminated. Although even though you saw them, i suppose they could still turn out to be bat shit crazy.

I've had pretty good luck with dating compared to other people it seems Haha.

I left a date after about...idk...20 min because he said flat out racist shit. As in- don't want a black waiter touching my food. I just walked out. That has been the only date that I left with no explanation!

I had one REALLY bad date with a pedantic, arrogant guy who just talked down to me a bunch. He told me that I shouln't eat the type of food I ordered because I would get fat; he attempted to explain the sport of baseball to me as if I were a retarded child...I just had fun with it.

What do you meeeen cal o rays. If I eat a cup of pasta, I gain a cup. Its science, duh.

I think the worst dates are the ones where you don't get a second one and you know that your date made that judgement of you based only on one day out together, a day when not enough time had developed to be fully comfortable with each other or yourself. and you know that there is more depth and truth to you that hasn't been shown and you can see there was enough of a connection to where if the other person would have given you just a bit more time and was able to see these side of you, you know that you'd stand a good chance of getting along really well. Too often now a days people are quick with there judgment. they like 80% of the things about someone and they let a few early date fumbles throw it all away

I almost forgot this one -
when I was in high school, I met this lady named Amy through a vocational school we both attended. Different courses but same place.

She basically asked me out. I had to do the actual asking but I was one of those things where it was a sure "yes".

So I go to pick her up, she lived in some ratty ass project. She was babysitting her six year old nephew. I wanted to go eat some place nice but she thought it was too much so we ended up going to McDonald's or some crap. So we hang out at the place she is staying and are watching some stupid movie. Three of her male wigger friends come over and they were not giving me a hard time but it was just awkward. I talked to her a little the next day but after that we never communicated again.

A couple months later I started dating one of the other girls in that class and Amy suddenly did not like it. She didn't say anything to me but was pretty rude to my new G/F supposedly.
I think with Amy it was just a classic case of women seeing what someone will put up with. I tend to not walk away real soon after bullshit starts.

Well, a few months into the worse relationship I ever had (before it got bad), we video chat for the first time and his profile pic wasn't the same. His profile pic was slightly blurry image of a skinny young man with very stylish clothes on, but because of the blur you can't make out the face clearly. The guy I saw in the chat was fat and sloppy. So I asked about it. He said it's him when he was 16, and I'm like, "Why did you use a pic that's 8 years old!?" He claimed it's the best one he had. Of course from there the relationship started going down hill as the truth about who he really was revealed more and more.

My worst dates were just boring guys. They were nice just...boring.

I did kinda break a guy by taking him to a cabaret show. I do feel a little bad about that.

I went out with this guy once who was a compulsive liar. He kept making up wild stories about himself and our friends. And he didn't even have anything planned. The place he was going to take me was closed, and we just walked around all night. Then out of nowhere, he's like, "Gimme a kiss." Uh, no. Then a few days later, he goes to my apartment, and I wouldn't let him in. So he hangs out in the hall for what seemed like forever trying to get me to let him in. No, thanks.

There was this Brazilian girl visiting from Houston during 4th of July weekend a couple of years ago. We matched on Tinder and agreed to meet at a bar. We're drinking and talking... somewhere in the midst of our conversation she says "Yeah, I get kinda violent when I'm drunk" Now the normal thing to do would be to pretend to go to the bathroom and sneak out, but the bar is one big room with a bathroom in the corner, so it's not so easy to do. We start walking around the city a bit and I teased her by mimicking her voice. She didn't like that so she saying "stopppp!" and kicking my shins. I sort of laughed it off, but was getting concerned.

We went to a club and danced for about an hour, hour and a half. Mind you this chick is like 5 ft and is going drink for drink with me. Finally, I'm exhausted and I want to go home, but she wants to keep dancing. So we debate back and forth... and of course I start teasing her again. Only this time, she round house kicks me to the throat. Granted, not a swift ninja kick, pretty sloppy and weak energy, but nonetheless totally uncalled for and inappropriate. I gave her the look of "Are you fucking kidding me right now?" and all she could say is "Sorry, I'm drunk"

At this point I'm pretty pissed, but for some fucking reason I feel bad leaving her wasted in the middle of this strange city by herself. So I basically just pull her by the wrist to her hostel and that was the end of it.

So not only did she lie about the fact that she had 3 children, but she actually brought them on the date with her? Jeez, you really dodged a bullet there lol

There was this one dude who wanted to go out with me and paid for the “date” but continued to complain about spending like $30 on both of us even tho I offered to pay but he assured it’s on him. Then he continued to just pour quarts of oil in his shitty car and was like “oh all this oil it burns is worth it such a great car” and I’m like “omg well I’m gunna gooo” it was a ford too. On top of all this he brought a friend with him. He tried to hold my hand and I didn’t even budge I was honestly creeped out by him it was really awkward. We never talked after. I haven’t really had any very interesting people but this guy was weird complains about money and brings a friend like tf? He wasn’t even very cute. Just a waste of time.

A few years ago on eHarmony, I read a profile by a woman that had been on the site for three months and had no response from any guy. This seemed very odd to me because she was average looking and claimed to have a Ph.D. So, I sent her a response. The subsequent online conversation seemed normal enough. After a week, I suggested we meet at a Cracker Barrel restaurant for dessert.

So we met, started talking and I could quickly see something was wrong. This woman was loaded with pain. Pain from authoritarian parents. Pain from high school, pain from the military. And she was good at enduring this pain. So good that in person she seemed numb and unaware that she had never experienced happiness.

I was polite, got her talking about her daughter and her publications. Then, excused myself after half an hour, and said goodnight.

I left the restaurant seriously questioning my lack of perceptiveness. All the men on eHarmony could see that despite her productive career, her heart was loaded with scars. I couldn't see it until I met her. What the fuck? My deficiencies could cause me to not recognize danger. The drive home seemed unusually spooky.

Good for you, that lying bitch completely got exactly what she deserved. I'm a single woman, and I have never really been interested in dating guys with kids. It's not that it's a terrible thing to be a single parent, but it is a terrible thing to lie about having three screaming kids, and being a fat ass.

I fortunately haven't experienced what you have described in your post, but I have had to deal with meeting someone in person who didn't look like his profile, or lied about his age, and my response has always been to just get up, and leave. People can be such stupid, selfish trolls.

I have never been on a official "" date. Had partners all the time from 16 years old. Closest thing to a date would have been walking up the street together to by alcohol. Thats the bogon date a guess

No date is the worst date

A girl I met at rehab came over my house to hangout and we ended up going to my friends house that night and smoked weed. Turns out she had schizophrenia and the weed made her symptoms flare up. She started saying she was seeing demons and started running into the street. I ended up taking her to the hospital and left. Ended up fucking her weeks later but didnt get involved with her.

Wasn’t exactly a date, the guy and I met on Tinder and he was super duper nice and he wanted to meet me so bad. I was in my prime using the app, and I met a guy named Marc and he came over to my dorm to watch TV and play videogames. He and I had nothing in common and I saw this going bad he also wanted sex and I didn’t but he couldn’t even keep a hard one so he says. Afterwards he told me he would call me and he never did. He later on accused me of cat fishing him saying I had big breasts and he thought I had a flat stomach, but I didn’t. And he felt like my full body pictures didn’t show him that. It was a disaster.

Dating apps/ websites can be a real scary place.

One of my friends I ended up dating was a raging alcoholic she would get sloppy drunk dancing and puking all over the place. It was to say the least werid and only lasted for about 3 months in terms of a relationship. Now when it came to dating it was even worse she had a nasty habit of saying shit out loud that tended to piss people off and I mean everyone. That's even when she wasn't drinking it became clear that she wasn't all the right in the head.

Dates? What dates? Guys never make a move and ask me out :(

What's "dates?",I can't find said word in my diccionary or vocabulary. 😂😂😂