What sexual orientation do you identify with?

Straight, Heterosexual (Male) 138
Straight, Heterosexual (Female) 55
Gay, Homosexual (Male) 48
Gay, Homosexual (Female. Also known as Lesbians) 15
Bisexual (Male) 72
Bisexual (Female) 44
Pansexual (Male) 20
Pansexual (Female) 18
Asexual (Male) 7
Asexual (Female) 14
Undecided (Male) 22
Undecided (Female) 24
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  • Alone.

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  • Anime7

    Straight heterosexual male. Although I will admit that I prefer the company of men to women.

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    • RegGuy

      That's because guys understand guys better. I prefer hanging out with guys too, because you can trash talk, tell jokes, talk about guns, and laugh with them much easier than with a bunch of girls. That said, I have never been romantically attracted to a guy, and I never will. A girl for me, thank you.

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      • Anime7

        Pretty much sums it up right there. Only girls do it for me. But for company, I think guys are just easier to to talk to. I don't have to worry about looking attractive. All I have to do is just go with the flow and talk.

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        • megadriver

          Same deal mate. Besides, it's better to get drunk with guys, than with girls...

          Sources: Me, heterosexual man

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      • Agirlsbestfriend.

        thats what closet gays say, sorry hun :(

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    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QMBMafhE3ys&list=PLkKH6K7nDZnxQQlV66DdSDObSbPl58sDW

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    • Agirlsbestfriend.

      your probly gay, sorry hun :(

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      • Avant-Garde

        I don't think that you fully understand what that term means.

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        • Agirlsbestfriend.

          gay is when men do it with other men and go shopping and have a lisp and lsiten to dance music

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          • Avant-Garde

            That's a stereotype. Not all gay guys are feminine. Have you ever heard of "Bears"?

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            • Agirlsbestfriend.

              They shit in the woods

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        • jeremybrown50k

          Wish you understood my love for you :(...

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          • Avant-Garde

            Sorry, about that.

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      • Energy

        "Sorry hun :(" because you're sad you couldn't get with him? Mhmmmmm.

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        • Agirlsbestfriend.

          no offense, but you sound like a gay too :(

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          • Energy

            Oh that's a compliment sweetie. ;) you just made my day! Mwuahhh

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  • Moneysexual AKA: Whore...(Lol)

    Seriously now.
    I'd like to say heterosexual, however I am probably more so bisexual. I find some males sexually attractive but more so females sexually attractive, but even then I am picky and can't find most females sexually attractive.

    I'm quite confused about my sexuality, to be honest. I have weird habits. For example, if I "like" someone (happened twice) then I cannot think about being sexual with them, if anything it weird me out, I am not attracted to it and it repels me.

    I also don't get much joy out of sex, the only thing I like is giving the pleasure aspect.

    I do prefer the company of guys more than girls, which to me seems quite common from both genders. Guys are funnier, more outgoing, do not restrict the things you can say by being offended (offensive jokes) and you feel some sort of brotherly protection from them and know they feel the same about you.
    I've always felt like the male friends I have had form some sort of friendship/brotherhood, and that's something I value a lot.
    Girls have some attractive traits to friendship, too, however I would still say guys are overall more interesting friends. I remember that if I was tired, in highschool and college, I would always sit with the female group of people I was friends with because I'd be more relaxed.

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    • I'm done. You seem to be a very colorful person. It was nice harassing you on here.

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      • Don't leave me. I...I love you. This is destiny!

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        • iEatZombies_

          =< *Tears up a little*
          Here's some ice cream. =)

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          • -Boohoohoos-
            -Chops on ice cream to forget my sorrows-

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      • Crusades

        You and Duz should make a porn.

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        • Avant-Garde

          It can be called,"Love duz cum".

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    • Its time. The time is now.

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  • ilovefanny

    labeling is stoopid how can you rule out love over sexual parts love is genderless

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  • gummy_jr

    Blob

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  • DolphinAngel

    Mostly heterosexual... I might be bisexual for animals but still prefer females... For humans I'm 100% straight

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    • Riddler

      I think animals fall into there own category. Not straight or gay.

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      • DolphinAngel

        Well if you're a pedophile you can still be gay or hetero, same goes for animals... Additionally there is no such option

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        • Riddler

          That also falls into its own category actually. Also this type of stuff usually has nothing to do with sexuality.

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          • DolphinAngel

            Not? I'd guess so...

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            • Riddler

              It often has a lot to do with power. Not necessarily anything to do with who you are sexually attracted to. People who do this stuff a lot of times just want to dominate another person. So they take advantage of someone they know is weaker and easy to control.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Straight heterosexual male. Although I will admit that I prefer the company of women. Men are always trying to show who's got the biggest balls, and I for one, couldn't give 2 shits what any other guy thinks about my masculinity. No games, no bullshit, competition; just don't care, never have.

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    • I don't recall having to face such things with the many groups of male friends I had...Maybe you were just unfortunate enough to mingle with the bad pringles.

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  • Love11

    What's heterosexual??

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    • It means you're straight.

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  • dom180

    It's pretty hard to tell. According to an excerpt from my profile bio, "I might be bisexual. I find some men sexually attractive and almost all women sexually attractive, but no men romantically attractive and some women romantically attractive. Let's say bisexual who prefers women. Or bi-curious. Or heteroflexible. I'm a Kinsey 2 or 3". It changes from day-to-day. Right now, I'm not horny enough to tell you what direction it points in :P

    I suppose "bisexual" comes closest to covering it. Although since bisexuality is such a broad church I don't feel like it's a very helpful word. The Kinsey scale is a little more helpful in my case, but only a little bit since seven labels isn't much more than three. I slightly prefer the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid, but I think that is also outdated and simplistic. Sex are love are uniquely qualitative experiences, and qualitative experiences don't lend themselves to fixed categories.

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    • dom180

      We're talking about which gender we tend to make better friends with, apparently (even though I don't think it's relevant at all). I don't see much of a difference. I behave pretty similarly with my male and female friends. In general, the fun I have with my guy friends tends to be slightly more crude and unrestricted, and the fun I have with my girl friends is slightly more caring and sensitive. Both are good, and I'm happiest when I have a balance.

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    • zenparadox

      Exactly. Specifically on the last bit about fixed categories, if I had to have a fixed category aka label. Which we don't have to. I'd try and create one for myself, but I don't feel that need so I haven't. To communicate witj people I don't feel like explaining that to. I'd say bisexual, because maybe they would have fewer preconceived notions about what I should be doing than with some of the other choices. However, I generally prefer men, almost always, but can arouse myself through women, have had one brief same sex relationship , & a few romantic female crushes.

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  • I'm straight but also demisexual, which is a concept I recently heard of that makes sense to me.

    I'm not quite asexual, but I do think sex is highly over rated. Most my guy friends notice girls and I've just never cared. However when a girl starts interacting with me and seems interested, I then may or may not be attracted to her. So I have some asexual traits, but I make exceptions if I like a girl. I do have a normal sex drive, but I am fine with jacking off.
    I also think relationships are unnecessary and do not understand why people get into them. I have had girlfriends before, but like sex, it was because I got along with them for a long time so I made exceptions. I would never have a relationship with a girl I wasn't friends with for a long time first, and find the idea of hooking up with someone I don't know well, to be a pointless and bad idea.

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    • TheGasManCometh

      Sex is overrated? Yes, but still worth doing - it's an excellent addition to life, and I'd never leave it out completely through choice. It's a form of pleasure that is different to anything else, including jacking off. And good exercise!

      Relationships are unnecessary? Not necessarily - find the right person for you, someone who you find sexually attractive and great fun to hang out with. Someone who compliments you, both physically and mentally, so together you can become greater than the sum of your parts, and conquer the world. Or just hang out, have fun and shag whenever you both feel like it. Groovy.

      Oh, and it's probably better to get the sex started earlier in the relationship, rather than later, take that pressure off. How demisexual can you both be? She'll have tits and ass...

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  • genocide_plz

    bisexual/pansexual not too sure...

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  • Judy231

    I like being a woman. But the worse part of it all is my period. I hate that.!

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    • Avant-Garde

      I hate it too. It is like a painful curse.

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  • Syniister

    There's almost more gay guys on IIN than straight girls. What has this world come to?

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  • John3303

    I notice there are a lot of bi guys and bi gals. I wish us bi people could be who we are without scorn.

    I admit, i am a bi male but most of society has a problem with that. Its really a shame because I am a great man that has a lot to offer as a friend or a lover and I should not judged by who or what i like sexually.

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  • Avant-Garde

    I am currently in the process of questioning, yet again. I think I now what it may be, but I'm not entirely sure.

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    • Avant-Garde

      Fuck this phone! I wasn't done my comment.

      It's Mindblowing to think that I could have been bullshiting myself on this the whole time. I do know that I am definitely not straight and I am pretty sure that I am not asexual.

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  • VirgilManly

    Any as long as I get to be on top.

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  • CrimsonRain

    straight and im a girl. but im one of those tomboys,you know playing video games and talking about guns and crap. im a girl and i hate hanging out with a bunch of screaming girls. like others have been saying guys are more easier and more fun to hang out with. wrestling and rough housing talking crap. cant do that when you hang out with a bunch of girls.

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  • Straight. I tend to hang out with more girls than guys though. I am bad about forming crushes so it usually ends up weird with my guy friends.

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  • squirrelgirl

    Bisexual. I generally tend to lean more towards men than women, but the most influential (unrequited) love I have ever had was another woman, so I am always open to the possibility that I may end up with another woman in the future.

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  • imadragon

    I'm demisexual.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    Hetero-lithromantic gray-asexual. It's long and confusing, I know but, as of right now, this is what I think I am. Quite Frankly, I've been so confused about this "sexuality" thing for that past few years that I just want to say fuck it!

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