What should i do or get her

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Hi everyone I’m dating this girl lately and her birthday is coming up.
She is turning 20 ( i think 😅)
I am so excited, she is such a special, kind pretty girl and deserved to be treated.
I wanted to take her on holidays but was told that was too much a mate told me which I 100% agree.
So instead I’ve been told to take her down the country, show her an attraction and stay in a hotel.
I was planning going for 2 nights just so we get my moneys worth and she has fun and time of course!
Was thinking a hotel 2 nights with a spa, pool, movies chilling etc and then taking her to a really nice restaurant for food.
I wanted to fit in a tour of something that day just so we have time to explore Belfast in 2 days.
Remember I really like this girl so I wanna spoil her for her birthday haha but don’t wanna do too much ye know?
One day trip to the giants causeway, then the rest of the day in the pool and watching movies, next day message/ treatment and followed by restaurant in evening and last day view of Belfast just walking around.
I know it sounds like a lot so I’m so open for suggestions 😅😅
I’m not good when it comes to stuff like this but it is too expensive baring In mind food while there with the trip up from Dublin too and haven’t a clue what to do
Please be nice no need for mean comments thank you

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  • Iambillythemenacetosociety
    1 year ago

    Get her a birthday cake that says "fuck you".

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    • Ilovefood
      1 year ago

      No 😂😂😂

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  • litelander8
    1 year ago

    Dude. This sounds dope. Yes. Do this.

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  • KholatKhult
    1 year ago

    How long have you been with her ? Are you two in a relationship or still in the dating stage ?

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    • Ilovefood
      1 year ago

      Hi! We are still in dating stage getting to know each other. Thing is she’s went home for 4 months so we really miss each other so wanted to do something special

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      • KholatKhult
        1 year ago

        I always believe in short and sweet things for someone you’re still getting to know and learning what they want and who they are

        It sounds a little pessimistic but you want to keep it “easy” for either you or your date to bow out of dating without feeling like there’s “too big of an investment” into something you two aren’t sure you’re completely compatible for yet

        If she drops a deal-breaker on you on a lunch date it is much easier to kindly and politely break things off rather than if you were on the first day of a 2-week cruise.
        It is also in good dating practice to end a date on a good note, where both parties can go home and think over “liked that, didn’t like that, I could tolerate that, I couldn’t tolerate that” and weigh out whether to go on another one

        I’m not trying to turn you away from your idea by any means ! Just explaining the benefits to short-and-sweet dates with someone you’re still getting to know

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        • Ilovefood
          1 year ago

          Hey thank u so much for your reply. I 100% agree with you there! I think I will keep it more sweet and simple. It’s more of a surprise/present for her birthday rather than a date as we have that planned already but again thanks a mill will keep this in mind! :)

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          • KholatKhult
            1 year ago

            For sure mate, good times to y’all

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    1 year ago

    Are you even sure she will say yes? If you arent even sure her age it makes me wonder how well you know her. You dont wanna come up with this awesome trip and then she says no.

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    • Ilovefood
      1 year ago

      Hi thanks for your reply! I’m only getting to know her so obviously don’t know too much about her. Want to get to know her. I have told her i have this surprise for her and she says she so excited so yes she will.

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