What would you do if your mother in law uses you ?
So I lend my mother in law my ebt card so she can buy food for the house &’ to stop bitching to my boyfriend about food ... or making me feel bad cause I would get hungry every little 2 hours since I was pregnant at that time &’ still am til this day just 9 weeks away from my due date 😄so excited to meet my son anyways back to the topic point saying is I thought my ebt only had money for food she came to my bedroom telling me to cash out from my card cause I had $4.74 I wanna say forgot what she said I found it odd you can’t cash out $4 it has to be $20 &’ up in cards I told her I don’t think I can cash out that I would have to call but I only used my card for food I was given at first $148 I got it in the middle of the month for myself &’ my son since I’m pregnant so 1 household I told her to leave my money in the card that it rolls over to the next whatever I don’t use this month so next month comes June 01st she tells me you have $300 in food stamps I’m like wtf??? No I got $148 last month so it should be the same for June &’ that I had $600 on cash I said no I don’t get cash just food stamps little did I know cause it was my first time with food stamps &’ the next thing I know I ask her ima cash out that I need my card she’s all asking questions like what you need it for ? So I explained but than I found it odd how she didn’t want to give me my card... she said I’ll give you the amount I have money I was like okay so I took it but didn’t end up doing what I need to do with the money so I gave it back &’ a week later I started to work I wanted to make food for lunch for work so I asked her for my card &’ again with why I need my card my boyfriend took me to the store to buy food I told him “hey what’s up with your mom why she asking me what I need my card for &’ im not her daughter or anything one thing is you being her son another is me” I called my ebt to see how much money I had to confirm &’ his mom said I had $600 than when I called it said $300 I was like “wtf your bitch ass mom took over half my money no wonder she didn’t want to give me my card” so I cashed out $200 in the receipt said my balance on cash was left on $196 so I was like okay I gave the card back &’ when I asked my boyfriend to ask his mom for my card since I was gonna go grocery shopping with my sister his mom didn’t want to give it back that same day her youngest son who was 6 said “I’m going to the grocery store” I was like wtf &’ she can’t give me my card ???? Than I told my boyfriend fuck her ima report her ass she’s being a bitch but he said no that it’s her mom I said it’s wrong what she’s doing without my consent cashing my money out ... when I asked her for my card the second time she gave it to me left a receipt saying I had like $73 dollars in food &’ $196 in cash I went to the grocery store with my sister &’ my total was $41 &’ the cashier said I didn’t have funds I was like what?? I should she printed my amount &’ it said I have $20 I was like Omgee how embarrassing than I told her to cash out I was gonna pull all the $196 &’ she said you don’t have the funds that was strike two already &’ than she gave me my cash balance &’ I had enough to pay for the food but I was heated I was taken advantage now that stupid bitch has a new phone &’ all &’ theres hardly food in the house so I dunno if she sold my food stamps for money &’ she cashed out $375 from me I got my mail &’ I did the math almost $400 I was mad &’ her stupid husband said “we not taking your money” yet they still have it &’ ive been feeding their dam mouths as a kind person I am &’ she has the nerve to buy food with her husbands money &’ got mad I took a piece of it &’ cooked later that day after she finished up all my food &’ hides it like wtf ?????? I helped her &’ her dam family for me to get paid dirty...
Has this ever happen to anyone ????? I find it fucked up how some people can be
This bitch doesn’t work, doesn’t clean, she’s bitter , she’s full of drama always busting fights , noisy &’ on top of that she just simply toxic I tried making her like me cause her son wants to Marry me but fuck... she &’ her husband tried kicking me &’ my boyfriend out after the help I given them &’ rent is fully paid &’ since I got my card back....
it’s hard finding a place but I’m looking for elsewhere to be can’t be around toxic people
Be okay with it (no drama) | 0 | |
Other (comment below) | 1 | |
Confront that bitch &’ maybe punch her | 2 |