What would you do if your mother in law uses you ?

So I lend my mother in law my ebt card so she can buy food for the house &’ to stop bitching to my boyfriend about food ... or making me feel bad cause I would get hungry every little 2 hours since I was pregnant at that time &’ still am til this day just 9 weeks away from my due date 😄so excited to meet my son anyways back to the topic point saying is I thought my ebt only had money for food she came to my bedroom telling me to cash out from my card cause I had $4.74 I wanna say forgot what she said I found it odd you can’t cash out $4 it has to be $20 &’ up in cards I told her I don’t think I can cash out that I would have to call but I only used my card for food I was given at first $148 I got it in the middle of the month for myself &’ my son since I’m pregnant so 1 household I told her to leave my money in the card that it rolls over to the next whatever I don’t use this month so next month comes June 01st she tells me you have $300 in food stamps I’m like wtf??? No I got $148 last month so it should be the same for June &’ that I had $600 on cash I said no I don’t get cash just food stamps little did I know cause it was my first time with food stamps &’ the next thing I know I ask her ima cash out that I need my card she’s all asking questions like what you need it for ? So I explained but than I found it odd how she didn’t want to give me my card... she said I’ll give you the amount I have money I was like okay so I took it but didn’t end up doing what I need to do with the money so I gave it back &’ a week later I started to work I wanted to make food for lunch for work so I asked her for my card &’ again with why I need my card my boyfriend took me to the store to buy food I told him “hey what’s up with your mom why she asking me what I need my card for &’ im not her daughter or anything one thing is you being her son another is me” I called my ebt to see how much money I had to confirm &’ his mom said I had $600 than when I called it said $300 I was like “wtf your bitch ass mom took over half my money no wonder she didn’t want to give me my card” so I cashed out $200 in the receipt said my balance on cash was left on $196 so I was like okay I gave the card back &’ when I asked my boyfriend to ask his mom for my card since I was gonna go grocery shopping with my sister his mom didn’t want to give it back that same day her youngest son who was 6 said “I’m going to the grocery store” I was like wtf &’ she can’t give me my card ???? Than I told my boyfriend fuck her ima report her ass she’s being a bitch but he said no that it’s her mom I said it’s wrong what she’s doing without my consent cashing my money out ... when I asked her for my card the second time she gave it to me left a receipt saying I had like $73 dollars in food &’ $196 in cash I went to the grocery store with my sister &’ my total was $41 &’ the cashier said I didn’t have funds I was like what?? I should she printed my amount &’ it said I have $20 I was like Omgee how embarrassing than I told her to cash out I was gonna pull all the $196 &’ she said you don’t have the funds that was strike two already &’ than she gave me my cash balance &’ I had enough to pay for the food but I was heated I was taken advantage now that stupid bitch has a new phone &’ all &’ theres hardly food in the house so I dunno if she sold my food stamps for money &’ she cashed out $375 from me I got my mail &’ I did the math almost $400 I was mad &’ her stupid husband said “we not taking your money” yet they still have it &’ ive been feeding their dam mouths as a kind person I am &’ she has the nerve to buy food with her husbands money &’ got mad I took a piece of it &’ cooked later that day after she finished up all my food &’ hides it like wtf ?????? I helped her &’ her dam family for me to get paid dirty...

Has this ever happen to anyone ????? I find it fucked up how some people can be
This bitch doesn’t work, doesn’t clean, she’s bitter , she’s full of drama always busting fights , noisy &’ on top of that she just simply toxic I tried making her like me cause her son wants to Marry me but fuck... she &’ her husband tried kicking me &’ my boyfriend out after the help I given them &’ rent is fully paid &’ since I got my card back....
it’s hard finding a place but I’m looking for elsewhere to be can’t be around toxic people

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Comments ( 8 )
  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    what a shitshow

    the walla text the ultra trashy lifestyle the misappropriationa taxpayer resources

    sufferin fuck already

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    • IrishPotato

      She's obviously in a lot of financial trouble and thus this comes with more of a low quality of life lifestyle. I'm assuming this affects people's behaviour too. Please don't look down on the less unfortunate.

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      • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

        well i just did

        they wanted an opinion they got it

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  • lordofopinions

    Too long. I quit reading.

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  • charli.m

    Why were you letting her use the card in the first place? I'm not even American and I know that's improper use.

    I doubt you have any avenue to complain if you did the wrong thing to begin with.

    I will give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you are not a troll for now.

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  • IrishPotato

    Alright so, first you need to kick his mother out for stealing. I don't care what her husband said, she stole from you. So either she pays you back the money she took or she is out. You sound like you're all living together.

    Second, you need to tell your boyfriend in a calm manner how you feel. You are not going to take being stolen from.

    Third, set your phone to record and hide it. Then confront his mother. Tell her you're going to going to the police if she doesn't give you back the money right now. She'll either confess and say she doesn't have it right now or she'll deny it.

    Give her two days if she confesses but keep the recording. You're going to need it.

    If she doesn't, any food you cook or prepare will not be served to her. She stole from you, and lied about it.

    Next, gather as much evidence of the theft as you can. Call the people where you get the card from and ask them paperwork.

    Wether she confessed or not, gave you back the money or not, either way go to the police with all the evidence you have gathered so far including the recording if she confessed. Just wait two days if she tells you you'll get the money.

    If she didn't confess go to the police as soon as you've gathered the rest of the evidence.

    Good luck. I hope I helped. I also hope your boyfriend will be understanding and supportive.

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    • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

      dependin on the place it could be illegal to record someone without theys consent

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    • IrishPotato

      Oh and make her do chores IF she confesses and you don't kick her to the curb. She HAS to contribute, especially after this.

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