Whats your view on sex?
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[Old Memory]
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TerryVie
yep! wait until you are lustful for someone.
if you are hungry, do you not eat?
if you are tired, do you not rest?
if you are sad, do you not cry?
if you are hurt, do you not feel pain?it's all natural. So, for the sake of logic:
If you are horny, why do you not fuck?
(If you answer "because society made me mix up sex with love. I can't see them as separate things" then think carefully about that.)I am not saying it's not fine to wait, kudos to all the people that do, BUT: It should be a conscious decision, not the unreflected result of being trained by church/parents/society.
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BlueAlice
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Medusa'sPath
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[Old Memory]
Tommy the cat had many a story to tell, but it was a rare occasion such as this that he did....yes i like primus.
Do you like prodigy?
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[Old Memory]
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SaiyanPrince
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SaiyanPrince
I am Abstinent by choice.
I honestly do not think I could have sex. I don't think I'd even be very good with relationships because I'm just not a very lovey-dovey person. When I hear about sex, I just feel like if I was to have sex I'd just be taking advantage of a woman's body.
Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe not. I assume this opinion will differ depending on the woman.
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Allistalla
good for you thats the best option . No STD and no pyschotice Xs coming after to murder you with a Ax I have many of those and I havent even had sex with them I just siad no thankyou i do not want a bf right now.
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bananaface
When you want it and it isn't causing harm to anyone, and is used in a healthy, stable way:)
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shuggy-chan
My view on sex huh? well from these shadows over here, it's looking pretty good. oh what, i think saw me, 0_O"
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Ono
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shuggy-chan
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gracemum1
by grace
Dearest one, My name is grace,
I am very happy to view your profile here today,
as I'm interested in knowing you.
reply me through my private email address atso that i can write you and send you my picture. Yours truly grace
write direct to my email ok
dont write at the site ok
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shuggy-chan
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Allistalla
Wiat till you get married, atleast wait till your old enough and have enough fiancle funds to support a child incase you do get pragnent , and always use protection
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Captain_Kegstand
Life is short, and sex is fun. It is what your body is genetically programmed to crave! Enjoy!
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NotFloydzie
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gnordsnerth009
I was horny as hell one day as a 14-year old. I got naked and was admiring my rock-hard erection in the mirror. I called two neighbor girls whom I used to play with, hoping they were home so they could come over and we could play "Doctor." Alas, they weren't home, so I had to jerk off. I did lose my virginity to an older, very beautiful, sexy, lustful woman 4 years later. What a great experience! And it really boosted my self-esteem when she said things like, "you are a beautiful man," and "oh my, if your cock stays this hard, I may not be able to handle it.' Love that woman, wherever she is.
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BlueJeansWhiteShirt
Well the first time I waited until I was in love (I wasn't in love, I was just young and naive). When me and my second partner had sex, I wasn't in love with him at the time since it was still early days but as our relationship progressed I fell in love. And all the other partners after that I don't even think about. They meant nothing and I meant nothing to them.
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KennyD69
Sex is not a game . There can be consequences of having sex such as Pregnancy and / or STD's ...
Are you ready and able to support a baby ? Think about it ; just in case ...
And ; IF she / you do get pregnant ; will the daddy and mommy live together ? Where ? How will you pay the bills ?
Until you are emotionally financially responsible ... Try Masturbation ; it is the safest sex out there ...
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succatash
I say.......your choice and if you get raped....well then that's your shit
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spidercrowblaze18762
Just fuckin do it, i have done it with my girlfriend when i was 14, and it was a sexy fun, its just like a game!
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Benchmade93
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YumInsanity
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XxKatiexX
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zackattack
Honestly, I see nothing wrong with two 16 year olds who are good friends and curious. I don't think most guys care if they lose it to someone special. And for girls as long as they don't feel pressured, and are at least 15 I say go for it.
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bigboi123
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blaster
gotta go with pete, if you want it have it. Personally I think this waiting stuffs bs , lifes too short and we're only young with maybe , if we're lucky, beautiful bodies once. It's no good to anyone just looking at it in the mirror but , having someone else admire it is well , hmm , heavens coming to mind.
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Captain_Kegstand
Heck no it doesn't make you less of a good person. You went out and enjoyed yourself, and you won't see any judgment from me!
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Captain_Kegstand
Thank you, there are so few people out there that are willing to set judgment aside. It seems that even though I don't jump around myself, people will still judge me for supporting people who chose to live this way.
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KeddersPrincess
My view on sex is that people hold is as something that it is not. Our reproductive systems are just another system in our bodies just like our resporitory, digestive, muscular...it's just another system. Sex's sole purpose is to reproduce. That's it. It's nothing special. It's nothing sacred. It's just so that we can make more. It's part of our nature. I don't understand why people hold off teaching children about sex and their bodies until they are a certain age. Sex is a natural thing, and I SO wish that people would look at it that way. It may be fun, but it doesn't change it from being just another natural thing. Sexuality is a part of our anatomy, people, otherwise, we'd all be like the ameoba.
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Allistalla
Less likely to get stuck with a baby . Less likely to get STD should wiat till your older should check if they are clean and not fucking around with every man and women . poeple think having sex with a big deal but scienctificly your body is not ready for sex until your mid 20s and 30s . Little kids are not sexually or mantelly ready to have sex and it can really mess them up in the heads . Also if someone is willing to wiat till marriage it means they are more commited to you just like someone who is willing to be your boyfreind it more commited than a guy asking to fuck if your freind keeps asking to have sex but refuses to date you he is saying " I think your a whore and I see you as unworthy of ever being with me becuase in my eyes your just your just a filthy slut" . This also makes it less likely he is going to have sex and leave you with the child . Also if you have sex with multiple partners you are not dating or not married too what will happen if you get pragnent ? eighter kill the child or that child grows up without a daddy ? becuase you fealt like sleeping around ? Thier is a hundred practical reasons to wiat for sex that no one is smart enough to see they say its natural its also naturual in nature to murder anyone who pisses you off doesnt mean its a good Idea I wish people would get some logic in thier brains before they say do it they say you should smoke too look at the whole in the chicks throat Great idea poeple spread stupidty through the world . if someone is commited he will say i love you enough to date you not just to fuck you . If a boyfreind has known you long enough hell say I love you enough to engage not be your boyfreind till I find a prettier chick in the next month and if you two choose to you can adopt or have a baby yourselves . Thats the piont of waiting so you know they are commited enough to say yah I will commit i am not gonna keep asking you to fuck me but not willing to hook up beats thier spouse is not respecting thier partner . However I have made a decision never to hook up again ^^ after what happened with the last few poeple .
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KeddersPrincess
What does this have to do with what I said?
I will say this, before you misinterpreted everything I said, I voted for wait until marriage. The reason why is because, although I do not see marriage as this sacred thing, I know that it's purpose is solely for making babies. I don't believe in love. I'll just come out in say it. I do believe that it takes two people to raise a child. I think that if someone is ready to have sex, they need to be prepared to have a child (as that is what sex is for). I believe that the only time someone ready to have child is when they have a partner who is also committed to raising a child, and thus they should be willing to raise that child together for the wellfare of him/her. I never said I believed in sleeping around. You got the wrong person! Please understand someone's post before leaving an endless rant that I honestly don't feel like reading.
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[Old Memory]
I agree to s certain point but I still see no reason why we would have to teach young kids about sex.
I think it would be better to wait until they are in their teens and then teach them because it's in the teens you're thinking the most about it.Comment Hidden ( show )
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brittycent
Life is too short. Enjoy yourself as much as possible just be responsible and practice safe sex.
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Ono
When you're comfortable. Sometimes for me thats been *yes* *right* *now* other times it's taken a little while before I've wanted to share the disapointment.
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Captain_Kegstand
I agree completely. I have only had sex with 1 girl that I didn't have a long term relationship with, and that was a post break up alcohol fueled accident!
I feel like that is just me though, and there is nothing wrong with a person who wants to explore there sexuality in a less exclusive manner!
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dappled
When you think it's going to lead to a relationship, or when it already has. Preferably the latter.
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ghettomex92
For a girl wait till your in love, its more meaningful that way. For a guy, as soon as you get the chance to fuck get it on! I got laid first when I was 12 years old to my 11 year old girlfriend who had already had sex with 4 guys before me...so "wait till your of age" doesnt make sense. I always laugh when parents talk about how their kids would never do anything like that. I got high for the first time when I 11, I started smoking when I was 8, I had my first blow job at 11, got wasted beyond control when I was 12 and also yeah had sex when I was 12. Kids start younger and younger now a days. I just turned 20 last may and I look back on my childhood to realize I never really had one.
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Darthion5
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