When did you finally know?

When did .YOU. finally get stability, had a purpose in life, got somewhere in life, things came together, etc for you?

I know everyone is different but I feel like I'm in a point in life where things should be more in "routine" "family like" "married" "good job" "SUCCESSFUL". At what age did YOUR life finally or on the path of completeness?

Maybe I need reassurance, but I feel I'm becoming a late bloomer ughhhh

Teens 3
30s 4
40s 3
50+ 5
20s 4
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  • litelander8

    Never

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    I'm 32 and still don't have it completely together. I'm saving money up and paying my debts down. Once I have enough saved, I'm leaving this ghetto part of NY and moving to a state with a much lower cost of living. It's a little terrifying because all it would take to completely derail these plans is a trip to the hospital since medical insurance is shit in this country.

    I suggest that you just keep working on yourself and to not compare yourself to others. Don't let the pressure of society get to you either.

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    • iEatZombies_

      How about that. I'm 32 and after a very slow, steady climb towards something, a trip to the hospital completely demolished my bf and I's life a year ago.

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      • Cuntsiclestick

        I've known many people like this. I'm sorry it happened to you. I wish you Good luck getting back on track.
        :)

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        • iEatZombies_

          Ty =3

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    • RoseIsabella

      Come to Delaware, and make it cooler... and bring some hats!

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      • Cuntsiclestick

        Thank you!
        :)
        I've got a long list of potential places with lower costs. I never looked into Delaware. Maybe I should research it sometime. What I've really got my heart set on is Ohio. I've heard mostly good about it.
        :)

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        • iEatZombies_

          WTF, I ALSO WANTED TO MOVE TO OHIO. lmao I've thought about it on and off since I was 16.

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          • Cuntsiclestick

            Ohio seems like a cheaper alternative to NY. NY is too expensive. Even the crime ridden parts are too expensive. It's ridiculous. XD

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            • iEatZombies_

              I like it cuz, among other reasons, it's close enough to my family to visit them sometimes, but not close enough to have my space invaded. lol

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        • RoseIsabella

          I've never been to Ohio, what is it like?

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          • Cuntsiclestick

            I don't know, but I've heard from other people that some places are very affordable there.

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          • nopurpose

            I've always wondered what can attract one to these shit-weather northern states..

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            • RoseIsabella

              Maybe some people actually like snow.

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  • TheDustyMagician

    Im still 21 and my life is not stable.
    horewer i asked some ppl i know and they all said life only get stable after 30s.

    "You’re just going through an awkward phase from 12 to 29"
    -Danny Sexbang

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  • Boojum

    I'm in my sixties, and I'm still trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up.

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  • Hie_Thee_Hence

    I was thirty when I graduated from college and got my BA. It's never too late.

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  • GuvnorsOtherWoman

    50+

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  • nopurpose

    never

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  • CDmale4fem

    I graduated high school in June and in October I went to boot camp I joined the military. I was 18, I spent 7 years in the navy and I would do it again if needed. Dont be afraid to step outside your comfort zone. Challenge yourself, do things you never thought you would.

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  • Tommythecaty

    Eventually did, but it’s a ruse.

    Oh whoops, I meant to say married life and stuff is great.

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  • noid

    I’m going to say 40s even though things haven’t turned out how I might would like. It’s certainly easier to get stuck when you’re in your 30s and 40s and 50s.

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