When did you purchase your first sex toy?

So I just bought some latex apparel (and vibrator). I need this yet I feel like im keeping a secret from my parents (they wouldn't care if they found out. Its just the embarrassment of my parents knowing). when was the first time you ever bought this stuff and how did you feel at the time?

12 and under 19
13 - 18 32
19 - 29 41
30 and up 5
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  • charli.m

    12 and under?? Wtf????

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    • Avant-Garde

      It happens.

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      • charli.m

        How would that be, exactly?

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        • Couman

          As far as I know there's nothing stopping children from just walking into someplace like Spencer's at the mall with their allowance and buying a vibrator. Though I'm sure most would be embarrassed to do it even if they wanted one.

          Or there would be the option to buy something that isn't made specifically as a sex to (like a massager) but with the intent to use it as one. I'd say that still counts.

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          • charli.m

            America sells sex toys in a regular shopping centre, to children??

            Jesus.

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            • despuit

              is a toy none the less, want to play snake and ladders :)

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        • RainbowDischarge

          "Its for my mom. Its her birthday."

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          • charli.m

            Idk about you, but I never would have bought my mother a sex toy, particularly not when I was a child.

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        • Avant-Garde

          They can ask friends who are of age to get it for them or, they can use special cards, that differ from credit/debit cards.

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          • charli.m

            If prepubescent children are wanting sex toys, that's disturbing.

            Adults buying them for them is downright fucked, as is my having to fact this doesn't seem to have crossed your mind.

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            • Avant-Garde

              I didn't realize that you were getting at this in your previous comment. So, judgmental you are. Ugh! Sexuality is a normal thing. The normalcy of what age young people become interested in exploring their bodies seems to depend on culture. Likewise, if a country has a legal age that is rather low, you'll more likely find youth of a young age knowing about sex toys and wanting to use them. Don't forget about the prevalence of sex in the media. Many children are being exposed to content of a very sexual nature that they would otherwise, and most likely, not be exposed to.

              Some parents believe that is okay to supply their children with sex toys. That's their business. If their friends supply them with sex toys, and they are around the same age, that's their business. If their friend's are much older than them and are supplying them with sex toys, it's very inappropriate and wrong. Some random adult supplying them with sexual devices is again, very inappropriate and wrong.

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            • charli.m

              Hilarious that this is thumbed down while my first comment with the same stance got so many thumbs up. Some stupid people need to improve their comprehension skills. They're the same bloody point.

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    • It sounded like a good Idea at the time :|

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      • charli.m

        What did? :/

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        • I thought your comment was to me adding the option of 12 and under.

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          • charli.m

            It was. I still don't understand why you would have thought it was a good idea at any time.

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  • gashlover

    I was 22. i got a butt plug.

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  • Ellenna

    I bought a plug in bright orange Pifco "vibratory massager" in the early 70's and immediately found out what an orgasm was and kept finding out and kept finding out until I was numbed out for a few days.

    It was a revelation! No sex shops then that I knew of, I bought it in an ordinary electrical goods store. My (late ex) husband came with me for support and then got so embarrassed he walked off and left me to explain to the salesman what I wanted.

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  • Arm0se

    I would, but I'm to scared to walk into one of those shops and have all those people look at me :/

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    • You can also buy it online dude.

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      • Avant-Garde

        Are the packages private?

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        • If it would ever get here:| yes it is but dont trust the USPS for anything >:(

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          • Avant-Garde

            I don't know about online shops, but there are some sex shops that put what you buy into very discret bags. :)

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    • Avant-Garde

      They've seen it all. They don't judge.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    I purchased my first butcher knife not that long actually.

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  • sillygirl77

    19. It was a butterfly clit vibe. Bought it with my bf at the time, who is now my husband.

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  • I was roughly 16 when my mother bought me my first sex toy. She bought me a g-string when I was 15 and later bought me a blow-up doll.

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    • Ace09

      What a progressive mother!

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  • Gspyder

    19 I think. A few things to use with/on my girlfriend

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    • sexysonofsam

      Does that include your dick?

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      • Gspyder

        I'd already been using that on her for a while

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  • dont trust the USPS! they are for shit... they lost the package that I ordered yet told me that it safely delivered to my building... not happy.

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  • despuit

    21 maybe I was iunno don't pay much attention to age but in my early twenties mail order from the states Teegan Presly mold

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  • sexysonofsam

    We were so poor growing up I had no toys so I played with myself!

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    • Thats secretly a pet peeve of mine...

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      • sexysonofsam

        Playing with yourself or not having any toys? Personally I enjoy playing with myself, I am my own best friend!

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        • Playing with myself... Mostly just fingering myself...

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          • sexysonofsam

            Now that sounds like fun, I would play with you too. I will lick, suck, finger and fuck you!

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            • Now that I can handle ;)

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  • vergil7

    what..

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  • megadriver

    Where is the "never" option?
    Save a sex toy, fuck a real person! XD

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    • What about doing both? I mean toy and person

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      • megadriver

        I'm a dude. I can't do both. I only have one penis XD
        Besides, there is no substitute to a real woman.
        And I live with my girlfriend so, sexual desires aren't a problem.

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        • despuit

          Cock rings, ball clasps, electrical stimulation, edible spreads, vibrators for your balls... use your imagination hot/cold stimulations depending how comfortable you are ass play (yeah still uncomfortable with that myself) and nipple play (not as uncomfortable with this one but weird) you really need an open mind in the sheets

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        • Ill trade you me long distance relationship for your "girlfriend living with you" relationship XD
          ps. you totally can do both ;)

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          • megadriver

            The deal is off XD But I might agree to go to the pub for a round of beers with you.

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            • Ha, I dont even know where you live xD

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  • Avant-Garde

    I still haven't bought one. :'/

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    • do it! Imo, its worth it.

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      • Avant-Garde

        I'm more interested in the devices that are hard to use on yourself. Besides, I live at home and it would be hard to bring in, much less hide, the type of devices for kinky pleasure. ;)

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        • secretly Ive been using my moms thing (which is older than me) and it just died on me so I figured now that im out of the house, BUY ALL THE SEXY THINGS! but in the mean time you should, acquire lots of money, move out, then buy the good stuff ;)

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          • Avant-Garde

            I agree. There's nothing like kinky independence!

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            • despuit

              As a guy even a girl having big ass molds of bodies laying around is weird. I've always imagined a sex trunk though at the foot of the bd for her pleasure with naughty outfits, whips, fairy wands, dildos, and other concealable toys of pleasure. Different types of lubes, edible garments, a cooling compartment for whip cream, abd fruit and white zinfandel bitches love dat shit. A chocolate fondu set, some candles, a few towels, the list could go on forever.... clamps... rope... harnesses... hand cuffs... batteries and voltage clamps... water based paints.. pumps... water (trust me on this one).. oh and chocolate pudding and a kiddy pool ... etc wigs etc makeup etc digital camera... somke machine....etc I don't just have sex I have pussy raves where here body is ravaged from head to toe and toe to head...

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            • Amen to that!

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  • RainbowDischarge

    On a cold, rainy day December 6, 2014, just 19 days before my 23rd birthday, I bought my first two sex toys. A big, scary realistic looking vibrator and a cute, light blue butt plug. The end.

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