When i am around this person i start to feel wet

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Basically I have been a very shy person with intimacy all my life. I'm not the type to see someone attractive and get wet or horny.
I belive I am on the asexual spectrum and I am demi sexual which means I need a bond b4 I feel sexual arousal.
I have only known someone just over a month now and whenever she holds my hand or we hug or she hits on me hard core, I feel a warmth come over me, I feel throbbing when I hold her hand and I feel like I want to jump her bones not that I can because shes in a relationship with a 25 yr old guy and shes 45, I'm 28f.

NEVER WILL I EVER HAVE A 3 WAY !
THAT IS NOT why am gay.

On day one she told me shes a sex nympho and I belive shes into me but I have developed an emotional connection with her over time as we relay our emotional issues with each other but I can't tell if she feels a deeper connection being her seeing me as someone else she wants to fuck...

Shes always been an indecisive type person. I also feel jelous when she talks to me about her bf and their unsatisfactory sex life or when she says a random women is hot.

Help? What do I do abou my feelings when I can't know if she likes me only cause I give her attention?

All I want to do is kiss her and cuddle her. We hold hands and cuddle, massage each other but I want to make out with her and am having some strange desires.

I wished she would drop the guy and date me already

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  • CDmale4fem
    2 years ago

    I would say that an even temporary sexual thing with her might help you come out of your shy shell. But then maybe not. You can always let her read your post here or just have a shot or 2 of tequila and then just tell her yourself. Set boundries first if needed so if something starts out of the heat of the moment you want to know what each of you would be expecting from the other. Remember too, you dont HAVE to do anything you dont want. Be safe be smart and adventureous. Or maybe openminded is a better way to say it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      Thanks but her and I had a fall out as she was a bit of a bitch.
      She admitted she used females in the past for attention and I asked if she was doing this with me and she said yea so I blew up at her.
      Few days later, I blew up at her again about something..felt rejected as if she doesn't really value me and I can't get past the fact she told me she likes the attention from females as well as her saying she will prob stay with her dick thinker bf whos toxic.

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  • farkelu
    2 years ago

    I say fuck her and see what happens. I dated a nympho once. She was gorgeous and great in bed. But the infatuation soon wore off. The reality of it is this - no matter how good in bed you are, she's gonna want sex with other men. So if you can't accept that as part of any relationship with her, give her what she wants from you and enjoy it. But don't expect her to change for you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      Her bf woukd sometimes stare over at her and I and she'd ask him if he's okay then she'd go and pat, hug and give him a peck on the lips.
      Seriously, this was starting to become regular and were pissing me off BIG time

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      Its like why does my body get so aroused by someone whos not good for me? Why her? Why do I start falling for someone who isn't compatible nor appreciates me enough to respect my feelings and uses me for attention ffs
      All the affection she gave me and long warm hugs and the emotional support made me fall very fast and I hadn't felt like this in a long time

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      It wouldn't work between her and I, I were already jelous of the fact she would call other people hot or mentioning that "Shed go there", with her ex husband's new gf.
      Fucking pissed me off and I find it disgusting that there are people who just fuck anyone and don't even see u as a person. Its like if they're horny, then don't matter who the person is, so long as they are satisfied.
      No way do I want to go there

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      She wants sex with men and women cause shes bi but shes not the authentic bi type, shes the type who gives bi sexuality a bad name/ image.
      All about lust imo

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    2 years ago

    Hello

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