Which is worse?

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yes i’m aware they’re both stupid but when i indulge in one i stop the other so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ call it harm reduction

cutting yourself 16
alcoholism 15
fuck off loser lol 11
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  • 1WeirdGuy
    1 year ago

    Cutting yourself is the worst. It brands you for life. And alcoholism is bad but can be relatively positive. Sure you're gonna die a decade or so early but you can have good memories if you are a social drinker

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  • Lusty-Argonian
    1 year ago

    Cuts and burns are fun or are we talking non sexual?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      I don’t do it for sexual purpose but i’d be lying if i said it hadn’t found its way into my sex life a couple times lol

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      • Lusty-Argonian
        1 year ago

        Lol it's funny how that stuff sneaks in ain't it?

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        • LloydAsher
          1 year ago

          Human fetishism never ceases to bore me.

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    • LloydAsher
      1 year ago

      Girlfriend wants me to brand her.

      Jesus christ, tf does someone even buy that shit?

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      • Lusty-Argonian
        1 year ago

        Ooh OK this I can help with. There's a variety of branding. I reccomend a cold brand if the relationship isn't at the point of marriage. It'll hurt and last but eventually heal. A heat brand is permanent and then there's brands using a special knife can't recall at this moment. Are temporary but can be made permanent by repeat sessions. I reccomend branding just branding on fetlife for further information.
        Also don't hate man there's about I t a 93% chance your girl will be so turned on afterwords like guaranteed sex so win win no?

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      • SkullsNRoses
        1 year ago

        What does she want branded on her and where? I’m curious.

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        • LloydAsher
          1 year ago

          She was raised in a super misogynistic household and I kinda want to deprogram her. She says it's a sexual thing but I dont think it's just a sexual thing.

          We have done things that would shatter normal relationships. But that would imply we are two "normal" people. Which we arent. So the branding thing is a conundrum because I'm not into it, hell I'm not even a fan of tattoos.

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          • SkullsNRoses
            1 year ago

            I see why you would be uncomfortable with the misogynistic undertones of that.

            What have you done that would shatter a normal relationship?

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            • LloydAsher
              1 year ago

              We experimented with thirds and open type stuff. Wasnt for us but I've seen relationships shatter to dust by going through that.

              We got a bond that is so uniquely weird I dont think anything would break us up.

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      • Clunk42
        1 year ago

        You're not even married yet! What is with modern society?

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        • LloydAsher
          1 year ago

          I cant tell if you were more disturbed about the branding or the obvious pre martial sex.

          I do intend on marrying her but I'm broke without a place to call my own. While I could marry her with a gum wrapper I perfer if I had more scratch to work with. Which I'm currently working on.

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          • Clunk42
            1 year ago

            Pre-marital sex is unfortunately so common that it is hard to be particularly disturbed by it. Pre-marital branding, though, that's not common. Even while-marital branding is uncommon. It's always a bad idea, but particularly before you get married.

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        • Lusty-Argonian
          1 year ago

          Hey its fun man. Let us have our fun:)

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  • Somenormie
    1 year ago

    They're both worse.

    Where's the both option?

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  • raisinbran
    1 year ago

    Alcohol is worse, would rather have scarred skin than scarred liver.

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  • hauntedbysandwiches
    1 year ago

    Depends

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  • Vvaas
    1 year ago

    tbh it depends on how you're cutting. if it's just light cuts where it might bleed a little bit honestly i'd say alcohol would be worse as cuts can heal unlike your organs which can be permenantly messed up from alcohol, especially your liver.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      they usually go decently deep into the dermis so pretty obvious raised scars but i’ve never needed stitches or anything.

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      • Clunk42
        1 year ago

        Are you just here seeking validation? Because you're not gonna get any.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          1 year ago

          Nah, just genuinely curious about what people would consider worse

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