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If you could pick between two partners, who would you pick?
Partner "A" who shares your believes, political views some of your hobbies but doesn't show you much affection and doesn't want to do activities you like.
OR
Partner "B" who doesn't share your believes, political views but shows you affection the way you like, likes to do activities you do etc.
| Partner B | 28 | |
| Neither, I would look for someone who has it all ! | 13 | |
| Partner A | 6 | |
| I would be polyamorous | 3 |
The only thing that really matters in a perspective partner is their morals/core values. Those will never really change throughout a relationship. Hobbies, interests, even political views will if your partner is in love with you. You'll change as well, of course.
Usually the woman or less dominant partner changes more to the views and hobbies of the man/more dominant one. It's actually why a lot of girls with no interest in sports suddenly become fans once they have boyfriends.
I don’t want people to share my views and beliefs, because then they’d bore me. There’s less to learn from them and a degree of conflict is mentally stimulating to me.
I get bored with people who are too much like me, so I'll go with partner B.
It depends if she's one of those preachy liberals. Like if she was all like "stop youre oppressing me by working I should work u should clean "
I dont know how thats being submissive. My wife enjoys our arrangement and it works for us, she gets to stay home or go do whatever she wants, is able to raise her kid and not someone else in a daycare raising him. I worry about the getting the money, lawn care, fixing shit.
The reason I wouldn't do good with a feminist is because I believe its important for a childs development to spend their first few years with mom. Many feminists are more pro career and believe its degrading to stay home and raise their own kids.
B. Thats easy. I dont give a shit about politics and im open minded about other peoples beliefs